Domination, BDSM, and Sex Work with Sir James Wonderfully Done: Wholesome Sex and Dating Advice

Dearest sex and love nerds, today we’re talking about the D in BDSM 🖤 with a wholesome and yummy interview with a local Pro Dom in Melbourne. Meet Sir James! 
 
Topics we explore in this episode:
Anecdotes and lessons learned from kink and sex work
Legal limitations for sex worker advertising and operating
Stigma and misconceptions around sex work
Tackling shame and helping partners find their kinky interests
How to be a fabulous first-time client
Tips for adding domination into your dynamic at home
How to be an active, supportive submissive
 
Who is Sir James?Sir James (He/Him) is a Pro Dom working out of Melbourne at Fetish House in Oakleigh. He’s a strong rugged man, specialising in services including Masculine Domination, Manhandling, Impact, Bondage, couples coaching, and more.
 
Where to find more Sir James
Twitter: https://twitter.com/SirJamesMedia
Fetish House Profile: https://fetishhouse.com.au/fetish-providers/james/ 
Email: SirJamesFetish@gmail.com
 
Content and Creators mentioned in this episode:
Resource: Sex Menu
An awesome tool made by Dr. Stephen de Wit (Sex Therapist)
This sex menu outlines a wide range of activities and gives you the space to rate your interest out of 5, whether to you to give or receive a certain act, if you’ve done it before and a space for notes
Filling this in is a great opportunity to get in touch with what interests you in the world of touch, sex, pleasure, and BDSM right now
Really fun to do alone for personal knowledge or with partners! Also makes for great sexy homework

Fetish House
The only custom-designed and built venue in Melbourne specialising in fetish, fantasy and BDSM
Versatile selection of available professionals, including Dominatrixes, Masters, submissives and more!
We love their extensive Etiquette Guide 

Tryst
Recommended listings page for independent escorts, with photos and lots of information on services, pricing and more

Everything Harder than Everyone Else by Jenny Valentish
A fabulous new book focusing on ‘why some of us push our bodies to the extreme’, including a substantial interview with Sir James in the context of BDSM

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Lots of love,Lauren and Vix 💋