33 episodes

On The Poly (Pod)Cast we lift the lid on what life's like in a polyamorous relationship. We answer common questions, debunk misconceptions and contribute to the growing conversation around ethical non-monogamy (ENM). Whether you're polyamorous, monogamous or elsewhere on the spectrum, this podcast is for every person, regardless of relationship style or status.

The Poly (Pod)Cast Richard Lewis and Siobhan Kenna

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.3 • 6 Ratings

On The Poly (Pod)Cast we lift the lid on what life's like in a polyamorous relationship. We answer common questions, debunk misconceptions and contribute to the growing conversation around ethical non-monogamy (ENM). Whether you're polyamorous, monogamous or elsewhere on the spectrum, this podcast is for every person, regardless of relationship style or status.

    The Space Between Friends And Lovers

    The Space Between Friends And Lovers

    Not friends, but not lovers? We discuss the grey colourful, often-dismissed area between platonic friendship and serious, romantic relationships.
    We unpack the terminology we have for these relationships and how following binary thinking can severely limit the possible spectrum of relationships we might experience.
    Get your Poly4Paly tickets. You can watch the video from Chill Polyamory about donating e-Sims if you need step-by-step directions. If you want to donate in other ways to support people in Gaza visit Operation Olive Branch, Doctors Without Borders, Anera, Medical Aid for Palestine and Action Aid.
    You can follow us on socials, @poly_podcast on Instagram, Tik Tok, YouTube and Threads. Find us at our website, the-poly-podcast.captivate.fm. Get in touch with us at our email address, podcastthepoly@gmail.com.

    • 1 hr 7 min
    Discover Your Bonding Type feat. Dr. Eli Sheff

    Discover Your Bonding Type feat. Dr. Eli Sheff

    We are joined by Dr. Eli Sheff, the world's foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children.
    In this episode, we discuss The Bonding Project, her endeavour to help people across the relationship spectrum learn more about how they bond. We took The Bonding Project tests and discuss our results with Dr. Eli, plus we get an update on her work studying polyamorous families.
    But first, Siobhan tells Rich about an article that compares being single and being polyamorous.
    We can't thank Dr. Eli enough for joining us on the show. Check out The Bonding Project, Dr. Eli's website and her blog on Psychology Today.
    Complete OPEN's 2024 Non-Monogamy Community Survey and read The Conversation article.
    You can follow us on socials, @poly_podcast on Instagram, Tik Tok, YouTube and Threads. Find us at our website, the-poly-podcast.captivate.fm. Get in touch with us at our email address, podcastthepoly@gmail.com.

    • 1 hr 30 min
    Non-Monogamy: A Gay Cliché feat. Mike and Kyle From Gayish Podcast

    Non-Monogamy: A Gay Cliché feat. Mike and Kyle From Gayish Podcast

    Are all gay men non-monogamous? Do gay men want monogamy? Does non-monogamy feel compulsory in the Gay community? We put these questions and much more to the hosts of the Gayish podcast Mike Johnson and Kyle Getz.
    We chat about the role non-monogamy plays in Gay dating, how it can be difficult to negotiate monogamy and if discrimination and homophobia led to Gay men being regarded as the 'pioneers' of non-monogamy in the Queer community.
    First, Rich and Siobhan chat about how to answer a question commonly asked of non-monog folk, "What is the end goal of dating as a non-monog person?"
    A huge thanks to Mike and Kyle for joining us on the show. Check out the Gayish podcast and their website. You can also follow them on Facebook, Instagram, X, Threads and YouTube. Check Gayish out on Discord.
    Take the 2024 OPEN survey.
    You can follow us on socials, @poly_podcast on Instagram, Tik Tok, YouTube and Threads. Find us at our website, the-poly-podcast.captivate.fm. Get in touch with us at our email address, podcastthepoly@gmail.com.

    • 1 hr 15 min
    The Future Of Love feat. Roanne Van Voorst

    The Future Of Love feat. Roanne Van Voorst

    Sex with robots. Dating avatars. Polyamory. Is this the future of love? Futurologist and anthropologist Roanne Van Voorst has the answers.
    We discuss some of the topics in her new book, Six in a Bed: The Future of Love - from Sex Dolls and Avatars to Polyamory, and uncover the impact of technological advances on how we build relationships. We delve into the likelihood of everyone being non-monogamous in the future and explore research about why young people are having less and less sex.
    It's also our FIRST BIRTHDAY as a podcast, so we kick off the show reflecting on the year that was.
    Thanks so much to Roanne for joining us on the show. Check out her new book, find out about her other research at her website and listen to her radioplay (The Emic).
    You can buy tickets for our workshop Polyamory: Lifestyle of Orientation here.
    You can follow us on socials, @poly_podcast on Instagram, Tik Tok, YouTube and Threads. Find us at our website, the-poly-podcast.captivate.fm. Get in touch with us at our email address, podcastthepoly@gmail.com.

    • 1 hr 33 min
    Being A Secondary

    Being A Secondary

    Does anyone actually like being a secondary?
    Today, we dive into some of your good, bad and mixed experiences of being a secondary. We chat about the term 'secondary' and how it could be improved, some of the reasons why being a secondary can work and the difference between implied and intentional hierarchies.
    Thanks so much to everyone who shared their experiences with us for this episode.
    You can buy tickets for our workshop Polyamory: Lifestyle of Orientation here.
    You can follow us on socials, @poly_podcast on Instagram, Tik Tok, YouTube and Threads. Find us at our website, the-poly-podcast.captivate.fm. Get in touch with us at our email address, podcastthepoly@gmail.com.

    • 49 min
    Be A 'Responsible Slutty Person' feat. Noa Elan

    Be A 'Responsible Slutty Person' feat. Noa Elan

    WARNING: We have a brief discussion about self-harm in this episode.
    We are joined by the CEO of Plura Noa Elan. Plura is an app that facilitates connections between burner, queer, artist, creative, polyamorous, wellness, kink, conscious, spiritual, and alternative people.
    We chat to Noa about the difficulties of cultivating consent in online spaces and the ways that social media is limiting meaningful virtual discussions about sex and sexuality.
    Find out more about Plura at their website. Download the Plura App at the App Store or on Google Play.
    Check out Siobhan's latest article for i News.
    You can follow us on socials, @poly_podcast on Instagram, Tik Tok, YouTube and Threads. Find us at our website, the-poly-podcast.captivate.fm. Get in touch with us at our email address, podcastthepoly@gmail.com.

    • 1 hr 18 min

Customer Reviews

4.3 out of 5
6 Ratings

6 Ratings

katiewhipp91 ,

What a Fascinating Podcast!

Richard and Siobhan are an absolute delight! As somebody on the ‘poly spectrum’ it’s really great to hear an alternative perspective (finally!).
Authentic, honest & entertaining!
Thank you for sharing your experience and energy <3

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