The Shame Game Eleni Mitas

In this touching episode we welcome Winnie Chan Wang, who bravely shares her personal journey through shame. Winnie was raped by a trusted friend and continued to have a relationship with him for three years which resulted in the dissolution of her marriage and the alienation from her daughters. Through her hardship she found her path to self love and her inspiring efforts to help others overcome their own shame. Winnie's story is a testament to the power of vulnerability and healing.
Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
02:55 - Winnie's story
04:44 - Feelings accumulated from sexual abuse, being a vulnerable immigrant
07:07 - Entering a codependent relationship
08:29 - Bond with male friend turns into rape
12:03 - Having an affair with my rapist
14:34 - Negative self talk
16:09 - Having a second affair
19:24 - Coming clean to husband
23:10 - How to cope with parental alienation
29:39 - Winnie connects with her younger self
32:59 - Winnie’s message to YOU
36:58 - Who and what are guides? How to connect
39:45 - The process of sharing to release shame
42:28 - How Winnie's relationship with herself has evolved
44:00 - Connect with Winnie
Connect with Eleni Mitas
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Connect with Winnie Chan Wang
Website: https://www.mindfulhealingheart.com/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@MindfulHealingHeart/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mindfulhealingheart/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MindfulHealingHeart/
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
02:17 - What was married, family life like?
04:01 - How my husband’s mistress approached me
10:17 - Confronting my husband
12:28 - Fearful the relationship would continue
14:40 - Holding my husband's shame of cheating
19:36 - Alcohol, porn addiction and multiple affairs
22:14 - Catalyst moment
25:56 - What I learned about myself
27:54 - Michelle connects with younger self
32:32 - Revisiting the other woman years later
38:25 - Why is it important to share your shame?
Connect with Eleni Mitas
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@elenimitas/
Soul Sisters Get Real Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@SoulSisters.GetReal/
Galactic Guidance Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@Galactic_Guidance/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eleni_mitas/
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In this episode we explore the profound impact of failure on personal and business aspects of life. Our guest, Rob Allan, shares his story of navigating the aftermath of his successful business' downfall during the global financial crisis of 2008. As he grapples with feelings of shame and self-worth, Rob embarks on a transformative journey to redefine his values and shed the cycle of external validation. Discover how Rob's experience led him to found 'Approval Removal' and gain insights into his upcoming book. Join the conversation on embracing vulnerability, overcoming shame, and finding self-love.
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
02:41 - Rob’s childhood and back story
09:19 - Rising the ladder of success in business
11:49 - The perfect storm: when it all comes crashing down
15:13 - Business struggles lead to breakdown of marriage?
16:19 - What does failure feel like?
19:45 - How to pull oneself out of a depression
21:56 - Rob’s lowest moment
24:53 - Approval Removal: turning your greatest challenge into your greatest gift
29:11 - Why do we seek external validation?
33:12 - Deep programming
35:07 - Why is does ‘the top’ feel unsatisfying?
37:42 - Rob connects in with his younger self
42:48 - Rob's message to YOU
Connect with Eleni Mitas
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@elenimitas/
Soul Sisters Get Real Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@SoulSisters.GetReal/
Galactic Guidance Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@Galactic_Guidance/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eleni_mitas/
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Connect with Rob Allan
Website: https://www.approvalremoval.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/@approval.removal/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/approval-removal/
#shinefromshame #shiningthelightonshame #thrivenotsurvive #storiesofreinvention

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In this episode we delve into a candid conversation with Veronica Monet, a sex positive activist, sexologist and rape & domestic violence counsellor. Veronica opens up about her experiences growing up with a mentally ill father, discussing the shame, challenges, and healing journey she embarked on. We explore vulnerability, how to break free from shame, and find connection through shared stories.
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
02:37 - Discovering her father had a mental illness
10:48 - How Veronica's mother handled the family
13:16 - Discovering this behaviour was not normal
15:59 - How did the shame play out?
18:52 - What are the physical symptoms of shame?
22:38 - Being let down by the males in her life
24:36 - Veronica connects with her younger self
27:11 - Finding compassion for ancestors
32:35 - Veronica's message to anyone experiencing the same shame
37:27 - Veronica’s memoir
42:17 - Veronica's message to YOU
Connect with Eleni Mitas
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@elenimitas/
Soul Sisters Get Real Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@SoulSisters.GetReal/
Galactic Guidance Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@Galactic_Guidance/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eleni_mitas/
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Connect with Veronica Monet
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShameFreeZone/
Website: https://www.theshamefreezone.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/@
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShameFreeZone/
Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/VeronicaMonet/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/veronicamonet/
#shinefromshame #shiningthelightonshame #thrivenotsurvive #storiesofreinvention

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In this episode psychologist Kate Glancey shares her journey of coming out in a marriage. She opens up about her realisation of needing more in life, falling in love with her best friend, and navigating the shame and challenges that followed. Kate joins Eleni to explore vulnerability, growth, and finding connection through shared experiences of shame. Learn how Kate's story inspires self-acceptance and the courage to embrace our authentic selves.
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro 
02:28 - Kate’s story of shame
07:23 - The realisation of not being fulfilled in marriage
08:54 - Falling in love with best friend
14:13 - Navigating the break down of a marriage
17:48 - Breaking the news to her husband
21:10 - Coming out of marriage and coming into a new relationship
23:17 - Reactions from family and friends
26:59 - Releasing the shame, trauma & hurt
31:04 - Kate's message to her younger self
34:01 - Biggest insights
35:54 - Have a similar story? This message is for you
37:37 - Connect with Kate
Connect with Eleni Mitas
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@elenimitas/
Soul Sisters Get Real Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@SoulSisters.GetReal/
Galactic Guidance Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@Galactic_Guidance/
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Connect with Kate Glancey
Website: https/www.kateglancey.com/
Website: https://www.elmlodgewellness.com.au/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/@TheHolisticHealers/
#shinefromshame #shiningthelightonshame #thrivenotsurvive #storiesofreinvention

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In this episode Eleni welcomes Rikki Zulyevic, a multi-passionate author and practitioner. Rikki shares her powerful story of overcoming shame and unworthiness, stemming from her experiences living with a narcissistic partner. Through vulnerability, self-reflection, and the courage to leave a toxic relationship, Rikki found healing and learned to trust herself. Join the conversation as they discuss the importance of embracing vulnerability, self-love, and facing fears head-on. Don't miss this inspiring episode that reminds us that we are not defined by our shame.
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
02:38 - What circumstances lead to Laetitia’s burnout?
04:16 - What did L's burnout look like?
05:52 - How does the body respond to burnout?
09:43 - Rejecting the idea of burnout
11:08 - Laetitia's upbringing and conditioning
13:12 - Falling back into spirituality
16:44 - How to find balance between work demands & your soul's purpose
22:19 - Laetitia’s message to her younger self: transforming judgement into compassion
30:56 - Laetitia’s message to you
Connect with Eleni Mitas
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@elenimitas/
Soul Sisters Get Real Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@SoulSisters.GetReal/
Galactic Guidance Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@Galactic_Guidance/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eleni_mitas/
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Connect with Laetitia Andrac
Website: https://www.essentialshift.co/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/@essential.shift/
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laetitiaandrac/
#shinefromshame #shiningthelightonshame #thrivenotsurvive #storiesofreinvention

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