Behind Beliefs and Behaviors: Getting to the Root Cause w/Dr. Maiysha Dr. Maiysha

In this episode, we will learn about the impact of consciousness on our daily lives and relationships and how our perception of the world around us influences our behavior and communication. Get to the root cause of the binary nature of the consciousness that’s holding us back from true collaboration and mutual understanding with me.  



Key Takeaways: 


The Definition of Consciousness - The state of being awake and aware of one’s surroundings. 
Perception is Projection - How we see and interpret the world around us is often a reflection of our internal beliefs, biases, and experiences 
Binary Consciousness - The binary nature of consciousness drives oppression by perpetuating a belief in scarcity—thinking that one must lose for another to win. 
Embracing a Shared Victory - When we are trapped in binary consciousness, we overlook the possibilities of collaboration and shared victories and fail to recognize that many situations can be approached in ways that allow all parties to benefit and thrive.  



Helpful Resource: 

By changing how we think and being more open-minded and cooperative rather than stuck in rigid divisions, we can create better relationships and progress together.  



Notable Highlights: 

“Our perception of our relationships of what we're seeing, hearing, feeling, and tasting, it's what drives our listening, behavior, and communication.” 

“We are currently living in this space of consciousness of scarcity having the historical made-up belief that if you win, I must lose.” 

“At the end of the day, nothing that we do and change will make a difference until we start to evolve this consciousness.” 



Follow Dr. Maiysha on Social media 

Facebook: www.facebook.com/DrMaiysha 

Instagram: www.instagram.com/DrMaiysha 

Twitter: www.twitter.com/DrMaiysha 

Youtube: www.YouTube.com/DrMaiysha 

 

Hosted by: Dr. Maiysha Clairborne 

Ready for the next level in your life? Join the Movement! Become a part of the Mind ReMapping Nation, an exclusive community that empowers your growth & accountability. Go to www.MindReMappingNation.com 

 

Interested in learning Mind ReMapping? Have you thought about becoming a coach? You can! Attend our next Mind ReMapping LIVE Training in Atlanta, and learn the tools to remap your mind in this transformational NLP/Hypnosis and Coach Certification training. Visit www.mindremappingacademy.com or schedule an interest call at www.remapmymind.today. 


---

Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/behindbeliefsandbehaviors/message

In this episode, we will learn about parenting myths that hinder effective parenting, the impact of subconscious beliefs on parenting, and how understanding these influences can lead to more effective and empathetic parenting practices. Get to the root cause of parenting challenges and transform our approach for the better with me and Dr. Victoria Ang-Nolasco. 

 

Key Takeaways: 


The Crucial Impact of Parenting - While experts and therapists can certainly provide valuable support, it's ultimately the parents who have the deepest impact on the development and well-being of their children. 
The Impact of Labeling Children - People often label children without understanding why they behave a certain way. This labeling can make the behavior worse over time, creating a harmful cycle. 
Understanding Secondary Trauma - Recognizing the danger of a flawed belief that "If an event or experience doesn't happen directly to us, it doesn't affect us" helps us better support people who have indirectly faced distressing events and create a healthier community. 
Fear-based Parenting - Some argue that instilling fear in children is a way to discipline them, but such thinking often stems from unresolved personal experiences rather than effective parenting strategies. 
Embracing Inclusivity in Parenting - Inclusive parenting requires more than just tolerance; it involves actively accepting diverse backgrounds and ensures that all families feel supported and respected in their unique parenting experiences. 

 

Helpful Resource: 

The Discerning Parents Club - A supportive membership designed to empower parents with practical tools to address everyday parenting challenges, enhance their relationship with their kids, and embrace the joys of parenting while navigating its inevitable challenges. 

About Dr. Victoria Ang-Nolasco 

 

Victoria Ang-Nolasco, MD is a developmental and behavioral pediatrician, positive parenting coach, university faculty in pediatrics and brain psychology, author, speaker, and mom. She completed her fellowship training in developmental and behavioral pediatrics at the University of the Philippines - Philippine General Hospital. Dr. Victoria is a certified provider of the evidence-based Triple P Positive Parenting Program and Zero to Three Language and Literacy Development. It's her mission to empower parents of babies and young kids with evidence-based and developmentally appropriate parenting strategies and help them find joy and calm in parenting. She also empowers parents to go from confused to confident, from stressed to joyful in navigating the early childhood years. 

 

Connect with Dr. Victoria:


Website: https://discerningparenting.com/  
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/victoria.angnolasco/  
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/discerningparenting/  
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drvictoria-discerningparenting 
Book: https://www.effectiveparenting.co/toddler-talking/  

 

Follow Dr. Maiysha on Social media 


Facebook: www.facebook.com/DrMaiysha 
Instagram: www.instagram.com/DrMaiysha 
Twitter: www.twitter.com/DrMaiysha 
Youtube: www.YouTube.com/DrMaiysha 

 

Hosted by: Dr. Maiysha Clairborne 

Ready for the next level in your life? Join the Movement! Become a part of the Mind ReMapping Nation, an exclusive community that empowers your growth & accountability. Go to www.MindReMappingNation.com 

 

Interested in learning Mind ReMapping? Have you thought about becoming a coach? You can! Attend our next Mind ReMapping LIVE Training in Atlanta, and learn the tools to remap your mind in this transformational NLP/Hypnosis and Coach Certification training. Visit www.mindremappingacademy.com or schedule an interest call at www.remapmymind.today. 


---

Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/behindbeliefsandbehaviors/message

In this episode, we will learn about the three common traps individuals encounter on their personal development journey, along with three valuable tips to navigate through them effectively. Get to the root cause of these thought traps surrounding personal development with me and navigate our growth journey with confidence and resilience.



Key Takeaways:


The “I-Already-Know” Thought Trap - People who believe they have already attained all the knowledge and skills necessary for growth may close themselves off to new ideas, or skills because they assume they have nothing more to gain. 
Embracing the Imperfect Journey - Making mistakes is a natural part of the learning process but it's difficult to accept this truth if you keep expecting flawless results in everything you do. 
Understanding How We Learn - The four stages of learning are all about going from not knowing something to mastering it effortlessly. It's a process that takes time and practice, but it's how we learn and grow.
Personal Development is Not Linear - There's always much to learn so realizing that personal development is not a straightforward path allows us to embrace the process fully. 
Discomfort in Learning New Things and the Unknown - Though we may feel in control when we know what's going on, staying within our comfort zone can limit our potential so, it's important to push ourselves beyond familiar boundaries. 



Helpful Resource:

Three Things on How to Navigate the Discomfort of Personal Development - Dealing with the tough parts of personal growth can be hard, but with the right approach, it becomes manageable and even empowering.  


Personal development is a process, not a destination. 
You can do the work alone but it's even more powerful to do it in the community. 
Surround yourself with the resources that will restore and empower you.



Follow Dr. Maiysha on Social media

Facebook: www.facebook.com/DrMaiysha

Instagram: www.instagram.com/DrMaiysha

Twitter: www.twitter.com/DrMaiysha

Youtube: www.YouTube.com/DrMaiysha



Hosted by: Dr. Maiysha Clairborne

Ready for the next level in your life? Join the Movement! Become a part of the Mind ReMapping Nation, an exclusive community that empowers your growth & accountability. Go to www.MindReMappingNation.com



Interested in learning Mind ReMapping? Have you thought about becoming a coach? You can! Attend our next Mind ReMapping LIVE Training in Atlanta, and learn the tools to remap your mind in this transformational NLP/Hypnosis and Coach Certification training. Visit www.mindremappingacademy.com or schedule an interest call at www.remapmymind.today.


---

Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/behindbeliefsandbehaviors/message

In this episode, we will talk about the complexity and intersectionality of various marginalized races, communities, genders, and religions and learn how we can acknowledge, address, and overcome biases within ourselves and society. Get to the root cause of white supremacy culture, colonization, and colorism with me and  Dr. Jill Wener. 

 

Key Takeaways: 


Harm in Ignorance - When people lack understanding of different cultures, backgrounds, or perspectives, they are more prone to prejudice and intolerance.  


Embracing Decolonization Work - Decolonization, at its core, challenges us to confront uncomfortable truths that have historically favored certain groups while marginalizing others. 


White Supremacism Culture - It's not just about one group being mean to another—it's about a whole system that makes it hard for everyone to be treated fairly. 


The Intersection of Trauma and Harm - When individuals solely focus on their trauma and fail to recognize the broader dynamics of oppression, they unintentionally continue to cause damage.  


The Quest for Acceptance - Rooted in white supremacism, individuals may alter their behavior, speech, or appearance to conform to societal standards and achieve respect and belongingness. 


The Strength of Indigenous Communities - Indigenous peoples have long faced challenges to their way of life, yet despite the obstacles, they have persevered, holding tightly to their traditions, languages, and customs.  



Helpful Resource: 

Insight to Action - Moving from insight to action in anti-racism means learning about racism and taking steps to change it—speaking up, making personal changes, and improving our communities for everyone. 

Naming the Root Cause of Complexities - Harmful behavior may stem from ignorance rather than malice so recognizing the roots of it and truly naming it for what it is, is the first step to positive change. 

 

Notable Highlight: 

"If I don't learn about anti-blackness, if I don't learn about whiteness, then I'm not showing up fully as myself and I'm also showing up in a way that is gonna be causing harm." 



About Dr. Jill Wener 

Dr. Jill Wener is a physician, EFT/tapping practitioner, anti-racism educator, trauma specialist, and certified meditation teacher. Through her coaching and consulting, she offers trauma-informed healing, empowerment, and advocacy tools to individuals of all identities and organizations of all sizes, helping them to thrive, improve morale, and engage in meaningful, sustainable equity work. Jill believes in taking a trauma-informed approach to every session and workshop, and even to everyday personal encounters. She’s committed to providing – and being – a safe, judgment-free space for people and groups to make real strides toward the lives they’ve always wanted, but might’ve felt too disconnected to live.  

 

Connect with Dr. Jill via the following: 


Website: https://www.jillwener.com/ 
Email: info@jillwener.com 
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jillwenermd/ 
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jillwenerMD 

 

Follow Dr. Maiysha on Social media 

Facebook: www.facebook.com/DrMaiysha 

Instagram: www.instagram.com/DrMaiysha 

Twitter: www.twitter.com/DrMaiysha 

Youtube: www.YouTube.com/DrMaiysha 

 

Hosted by: Dr. Maiysha Clairborne 

Ready for the next level in your life? Join the Movement! Become a part of the Mind ReMapping Nation, an exclusive community that empowers your growth & accountability. Go to www.MindReMappingNation.com 

Interested in learning Mind ReMapping? Have you thought about becoming a coach? You can! Attend our next Mind ReMapping LIVE Training in Atlanta, and learn the tools to remap your mind in this transformational NLP/Hypnosis and Coach Certification training. Visit www.mindremappingacademy.com or schedule an interest call at www.remapmymind.today. 


---

Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sho

Welcome to "Behind Beliefs and Behaviors: Getting to the Root Cause" with me, Dr. Maiysha Clairborne. Each week, we uncover the roots of beliefs and behaviors that shape every aspect of our lives. From health and wealth to relationships, leadership, and societal progress, we delve deep into the core of human cognition and behavior.



In every episode, you can expect:


Diverse Topics: From leadership and corporate culture to trauma and personal health, we cover a wide array of topics that influence our thoughts and actions.
Practical Tips for Transformation: Every episode contains practical tips and insights to help you transform your life. We believe in actionable steps that lead to tangible results, one root cause at a time.
A Call to Question: We challenge conventional beliefs and invite you to question the origins of your own convictions. By examining the underlying beliefs driving our actions, we open the door to new possibilities and transformative growth.



Join Our Community!

Subscribe to our podcast and become part of a community dedicated to personal and collective evolution. Together, we'll navigate the complexities of human cognition and behavior, empowering ourselves and others along the way.



Follow Dr. Maiysha on Social media 


Facebook: www.facebook.com/DrMaiysha 
Instagram: www.instagram.com/DrMaiysha 
Twitter: www.twitter.com/DrMaiysha 
Youtube: www.YouTube.com/DrMaiysha 

 

Hosted by: Dr. Maiysha Clairborne 

Ready for the next level in your life? Join the Movement! Become a part of the Mind ReMapping Nation, an exclusive community that empowers your growth & accountability. Go to www.MindReMappingNation.com 

 

Interested in learning Mind ReMapping? Have you thought about becoming a coach? You can! Attend our next Mind ReMapping LIVE Training in Atlanta, and learn the tools to remap your mind in this transformational NLP/Hypnosis and Coach Certification training. Visit www.mindremappingacademy.com or schedule an interest call at www.remapmymind.today. 

 


---

Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/behindbeliefsandbehaviors/message

Do you see starting over as exciting or daunting? 🤔



Sometimes, we think of starting over as a huge mountain to climb. But if you think of the small steps to get to the mountain, then it becomes doable.



When our commitment and what we're called to is greater than our fear, starting becomes more comfortable.



There's beauty, solace, and peace in starting over!



----

Stay tuned for our inaugural episode coming up on April 1st!



Join Our Community!

Subscribe to our podcast and become part of a community dedicated to personal and collective evolution. Together, we'll navigate the complexities of human cognition and behavior, empowering ourselves and others along the way.



Follow Dr. Maiysha on Social media 


Facebook: www.facebook.com/DrMaiysha 
Instagram: www.instagram.com/DrMaiysha 
Twitter: www.twitter.com/DrMaiysha 
Youtube: www.YouTube.com/DrMaiysha 

 

Hosted by: Dr. Maiysha Clairborne 

Ready for the next level in your life? Join the Movement! Become a part of the Mind ReMapping Nation, an exclusive community that empowers your growth & accountability. Go to www.MindReMappingNation.com 

 

Interested in learning Mind ReMapping? Have you thought about becoming a coach? You can! Attend our next Mind ReMapping LIVE Training in Atlanta, and learn the tools to remap your mind in this transformational NLP/Hypnosis and Coach Certification training. Visit www.mindremappingacademy.com or schedule an interest call at www.remapmymind.today. 


---

Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/behindbeliefsandbehaviors/message