Saol 'is Soul BerC16

#7. In this episode, Ber talks about some of the highs and lows of travelling, with a specific focus on travelling solo.

- Should you do it?

- Travel stories from travelling solo, including south east asia, australia, and Kilimanjaro!

- Safety tips for travelling alone

- Things she does now travelling solo in her mid 30's.



Share your thoughts and questions with her on social media! You can find her on Instagram

⁠@saolissoul⁠

or

⁠@bareathlete⁠



Or on Substack at Saol 'is Soul - Conversations and stories about life.

In this episode, Ber talks about the tragic death of a training friend while out cycling and how witnessing the fine line between life and death can impact your life and soul.

- what happened to her mind in the aftermath?

- things that had an impact in terms of support received from others - friends, work, family and pets.

- Survivors Guilt

- Therapy

- Getting back to cycling: controlling the controllables

- Awareness to using the road responsibly as both a cyclist and as a driver.

- And the impact on her mindset over time.

This was a very hard epsiode to record and if you are sensitive to the topic of death, or have suffered the sudden loss of a loved one, this may not be an episode for you.



In memory of Allan - gone but not forgotten. Ar dheis Dé go raibh a h-anam.



RSA and Imogen Cotter safety campaign currently running on Irish TV.

If you want to reach out to us on social channels, you can find us on Instagram

⁠@saolissoul⁠

or

⁠@bareathlete⁠



Thank you for listening.

In this episode, Ber talks about sport and fitness and what it really means in the bigger picture.

- Her experience of sport as a child

- Becoming a triathlete as a pure beginner in all 3 sports

- Hating running to it becoming the thing that changed her life.

- Sport being more than just a physical thing - you need it for your social, emotional, mental and general health too.

- What happens when sport becomes your identity?

- Should our governments be utilising the power of sport as a means to improve social, emotional and health systems in our countries?



and more....... Enjoy the chat!



If you want to reach out to us on social channels, you can find us on Instagram

⁠@saolissoul⁠

or

⁠@bareathlete⁠

In this episode, Ber talks about the old 'mother clock',

- Being in her late 30's.

- The innate desire to be a mother

- Fertility testing

- Single mother by choice

- Is parenthood for you?

And more. I hope you can connect and enjoy this short episode.



If you want to reach out to us on social channels, you can find us on Instagram

⁠@saolissoul⁠

or

⁠@bareathlete⁠

In this episode, Ber talks about cheating, infidelity and deceit.

What does it mean?

Her own personal experiences with it.

Gaslighting - what it means and how it might look in a real life examples.

And the hardest parts of recovering and healing from emotional abuse and how you might better support someone going through this.

If you want to reach out on social channels to chat about anything I discussed, you can find me on Instagram

⁠@saolissoul⁠

or

⁠@bareathlete⁠



Thanks for listening and chat to you soon!

In this episode, Ber talks about what it is like to be single in your 30's, with some insights into the challenges and societal pressures that accompany it with a little hint of sarcasm.

Topics include common comments and misconceptions people have about being single, freedom from societal expectations, different narratives for different people and the freedom that comes from stepping away from societal expectations and living life as a single person on your own terms.

If you connected with this episode, please connect with us for a conversation on socials - instagram and substack linked below! :-)

Thanks for listening! Chat to you soon!



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