Brutally Honest Unfiltered Sandy Martes

If you was born to heal does that mean others are born to destroy?

You can’t believe in angels and not in demons
If some of us shed light into this world then others must be spreading darkness.
How else can you explain rapist and murderers?
The devil has as much power as God the difference is that God is in a higher frequency of energy.
The light will always shine thru. Love will always prevail in the end.

-If you ain’t going to love me then don’t care for me either!
Love comes with understanding
You only care when it’s beneficial


-Going for my preference NOT my type!!

They can both be my type but that doesn’t mean they’re both my preference
If they both wanted to spend time, which one would I prefer and why?
Type= a category of people or things having common characteristics
Some common synonyms of type are character, description, kind, nature, and sort.

-If you knew it was going to be the last time what would be so different?
More passionate
Taken my time
Appreciated the moment

-The chase is only fun when you’re in the race w me!
I attract I don’t chase
I’ll feel like I’m being needy or clingy
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Self love is the biggest deficit in the world
Push and Pull effect
We’re all masochist by nature
Self love =discipline
Can’t love someone without loving yourself first
I used to view myself the way I viewed others now I view others how I view myself
King/ Queens
“I searched within myself and fell in love with what I discovered “ - StichsNBC
I changed everything about me, hair, eyes, tattoo , weight and I still felt unhappy.

Resolution:
I learned the difference between being Proud vs having regrets
Owning up to my flaws cause I realized it made me unique
Loving myself for all my imperfections
Appreciating who I am and what I’ve become
Knowing I couldn’t have done it without my experiences
No longer looking for validation or acceptance cause I accepted myself for who I am! : (➡️ LIVE on #FACEBOOK , Tuesdays @ 8:00pm‼️ Follow at www.Facebook.com/BrutallyHonestUnfiltered ‼️LINK IN BIO‼️⬅️) 🚨🎤🎤🎤
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-No Tree , it is said , can grow to heaven, unless it’s roots reach down to hell”
-Tree analogy
-Why fear getting in a relationship when you’re an expert on getting out of one?
-Water analogy
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Season 2 Finale of Brutally Honest with special guests Nina Rock , Keith Coney, Love Bella !!! Topics discussed were... Is it wrong to wait for love?

Have you ever gone back w an ex?

If the sex is wack is that a deal breaker?

What makes a man be bad in bed?

Do y’all believe that once they ask you for a threesome it’s because you no longer satisfy them?

Step parent application

Men want consistency too!

When they still have their tinder acct active while ya dating ( buying a car or getting an apt and they still have the ad on)

Is it disrespectful to keep checking your phone while on a date?

After I tell you you’re just a mess around, the heart break becomes your fault AND responsibility!

No one is irreplaceable!

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“You’re not my dad! Well, you’re not my kid either!”Episode 7 of Season 2 “Roles Of A Stepparent “ with your host @stichs_NBC . - You gotta like kids if you’re going to get involved w someone that has because it is a package deal!
The kids still feel resentment towards you. You’re taking mom away. Kids get jealous
You’re not my dad!!! You’re not my kid!
Don’t try to replace the other parent if they are still around
Calling them step children will make them feel alienated
Don’t force a bond let it come naturally/ give it time
Have fun stepping into that role and don’t take things so personal. Don’t even expect a “thanks” for what you do
Difference in culture makes things more difficult
Parenting styles and home dynamics are different
Both parents have to be on the same page
Back up what your partner is saying
No disagreements in front of the kids
Show up to their events. It’s important for them!