#stay podcast Steph and Jay

...And why we decided to follow God and purity in our relationship. YES, even in our mid-40’s, after divorce, parenting, and all the things. What if purity can end all of the years of trauma that Steph experienced after she was assaulted at 15 or the “assumption” that a woman has to have sex to be valuable. And what if purity continues to heal patterns of sexual sin, guaranteeing the beauty of sex in marriage as it was created? 

We also chat about some of our very favorite friends and listeners. Questions like when to introduce kids. How a mother’s job is to raise a baby to a boy and the father’s job is to raise the boy to a man. 

We are so honored to be able to share our experiences, failures, and dedication to the Lord and one another and how that is impacting our family. 

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God bless!

In this episode, Jay and Steph talk about how honest communication saved their relationship from being "too much, too soon" to just right. 

The world: kids are resilient…


Nah bruh. Kids are what you tell them they are. Kids are fragile. They are impressionable. They are easily confused. They are always looking for love and validation. They look for safety. A place where they can be a kid and not have to worry about grown problems. Kids need stability. They need explanations. They need hugs and hand holding. They need to be able to tell your their feelings and fears and have room to be excited and loud at times…. 


What you feed your children, (food, emotions, lies, truth).. What you protect or expose them to. ALL of these things will impact the adult versions of them. 


Tune in today as Steph and Jay share their passion surrounding children and how you have to be careful and aware of what is happening all around us. 


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Meet STAY (Steph and Jay), two adults finding love in their mid 40's as they navigate what it looks like to incorporate faith, family, finances, and fitness in their relationship. Season 1, Episode 1 introduces you to who they are, how they met, and where they desire to take all things STAY. 
So grab your coffee, press play, and prepare to be charmed by the laughs and deep conversations alike. 

In episode 7 Jay and Steph break down the Armor of God verses found in Ephesians 6. Listen in on how Jay breaks down every piece of armor and what Paul intended for it to mean not only when he wrote it, but how it relates to us today. Steph shares a book about the Armor of God that she's studying in a weekly women's bible study that she helps to lead and the two of them can't get through a full hour of "serious" discussion without cracking up over one of their antics. Enjoy as you embark on a biblical discussion like no other!

This week's episode is a sequel to last week's discussion. Jay discusses how he is the "by-product" of being raised by an emotionally masculine female and how it has impacted his life into adulthood. The pair also discuss how a godly woman serves as a reflection of her spouse's leadership, and Steph opens up about what happens to her body when she eats meat. See you at the deli department!