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The Enneagram and Marriage Podcast, hosted by Christa Hardin, MA, is rooted in two decades of experience counseling and coaching couples. On top of her expert marriage advice, Christa uses the Enneagram to add another layer of understanding in how we work as individuals and gives us deeper insight into how we connect and shine together in marriage and relationships across the collective community.

Enneagram and Marriage Enneagram and Marriage

    • Education
    • 4.6 • 11 Ratings

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The Enneagram and Marriage Podcast, hosted by Christa Hardin, MA, is rooted in two decades of experience counseling and coaching couples. On top of her expert marriage advice, Christa uses the Enneagram to add another layer of understanding in how we work as individuals and gives us deeper insight into how we connect and shine together in marriage and relationships across the collective community.

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    Subscriber Series: How to Actively Serve Up Compassion Together in Marriage

    Subscriber Series: How to Actively Serve Up Compassion Together in Marriage

    Have you been wondering how to extend a compassionate hand when you're busy and stressed? Studies show us that people are less likely to show compassion when they're rushing or feeling achievement needs pulling at them, and yet couples do MUCH better when they serve compassion up daily. Today's podcast helps you get regulated so you can become more compassionate together again and teaches you what compassion is really all about! You are healthier, stronger, and more resilient in your body, mind, and spirit when you're helping others with compassion and your marriage gets a needed boost as well. Make sure you tune into this deep dive episode to grab your compassion-boosting specific tips so you can deepen and depend on your love! Listen here!

    The Lyrical Lessons from TTPD, Taylor Swift's The Tortured Poet's Department Dark Night of the Soul

    The Lyrical Lessons from TTPD, Taylor Swift's The Tortured Poet's Department Dark Night of the Soul

    On this special surprise mini-episode for our fellow Swiftie fans and for inquiring minds otherwise, Christa takes you on a journey of analyzing The Tortured Poet's Department Album (TTPD) from Taylor Swift with therapeutic lessons, fun, and a few meaningful takeaways for our listener base about grief, love, loss, infidelity, and angst. This album comes to us as a very personal, authentic, dark-night-of-the-soul Enneagram 4w5 raw space of artistry and is far more heart-wrenched than we typically see in pop culture. In this episode we analyze Taylor's own vulnerable path forward to healing, adding tips for post-traumatic growth healing for you and yours as well! Bring your journal to this pod + make sure to pre-listen to So Long, London and Black Dog first for extra deep dive vibes!
    SHOW NOTES:
    Can you spread the word on the book tour? 🥳🙏 Leave your review of "The Enneagram in Marriage" book right here: https://www.amazon.com/Enneagram-Marriage-Thriving-Together-Pairing/dp/1540903370
    Join Christa virtually on your own time in the Enneagram in Marriage 5 week course here! https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/the-enneagram-in-marriage-5-week-course-for-sale
    We would love to hear from you! Leave your questions or messages for Christa or sign up for coaching RIGHT HERE: https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/contact-us
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    • 19 min
    Bringing Minimalism to Your Marriage w/Diane Boden, The Minimalist Mom, Type 7 (7-5 Pairing)

    Bringing Minimalism to Your Marriage w/Diane Boden, The Minimalist Mom, Type 7 (7-5 Pairing)

    How do you go from busy and overloaded to present in marriage and family, especially when we know that "turning towards" behaviors are what make relationships succeed or fail long-term, especially when we differ SO much after a long span of time together in marriage? As we strive to connect in a truly frenetic world when we have so much to do along with all of these differences, today Christa is sharing a meaningful and uplifting conversation with you and top podcast expert on the massively successful The Minimalist Mom Podcast and Instagram influencer, Diane Boden, Enneagram 7 (7-5) pairing on the pod! We analyze the 5-7 pairing deeply and then Diane to help us with the gift of her pairing as she gives realistic and life-giving tips for minimalism and experiences so you can truly simplify in an overly complex world!

    Specific convos here are:
    Diane's 5-7 pairing and what she's learning in her second decade of marriage about becoming less scattered with friendships
    Setting systems into place to help everyone in the family, not just one person
    Starting in spaces with less sentimental items
    Talking with your spouse for 5 min each week to get settled into the rhythms
    Finding what you're both on board with in terms of minimalism and getting focused and organized
    Find more free mental and physical space with your systems
    How to work with the busy chaos and say no more
    How to find the jomo (joy of missing out!)
    Find Diane's Minimalist Mom Podcast here on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/minimalistmomspodcast/?hl=en and on her website here https://minimalistmomspodcast.com/about
    Can you spread the word on the book tour? 🥳🙏 Leave your review of "The Enneagram in Marriage" book right here: https://www.amazon.com/Enneagram-Marriage-Thriving-Together-Pairing/dp/1540903370
    Join Christa virtually on your own time in the Enneagram in Marriage 5 week course here! https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/the-enneagram-in-marriage-5-week-course-for-sale
    We would love to hear from you! Leave your questions or messages for Christa or sign up for coaching RIGHT HERE: https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/contact-us
    Sign Up For Christa's WEEKLY NEWSLETTER here: https://enneagramandmarriage.myflodesk.com/olivbuf96o
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enneagramandmarriage/?hl=en   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/772026686525647  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@enneagramandmarriage?lang=en
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    • 32 min
    Learning to Reveal the Truth in Your Marriage w/Laurie Gerber, Enneagram 6

    Learning to Reveal the Truth in Your Marriage w/Laurie Gerber, Enneagram 6

    So many couples hold secrets from one another, but it's not healthy for either of you and you're not likely to tell one another the truth if you don't feel safe. Today we're joined by Laurie Gerber, Type 6 (6-2 pairing) who tells us how she worked from struggle to truth and freedom in her own marriage and gives you tangible tips to thrive from a place of truth. Questions we cover are
    "How do you start becoming more truthful?"
    "How do you tell harder truths?"
    "How can you welcome truth from your spouse so they're more likely to be open?"
    Visit Laurie's website for her support here: https://lauriegerber.com/
    Visit www.EnneagramandMarriage.com for all of your relationship needs!
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    • 30 min
    Subscriber Series: Boundaries in Marriage & Type by Type

    Subscriber Series: Boundaries in Marriage & Type by Type

    Every couple deals with stress and often they become codependent on each other and get very dysregulated in lieu of healthy boundary setting. Instead, let Christa walk you through the important work of self-regulating and mitigating conflict. When you set boundaries you need, you’ll find both truth and grace help you to meet in the middle as we cover physical, time, sexual, and time boundaries together. We also cover boundary type by type!

    Bringing Joy & Clarity to Your Work w/Marty Munger, CEO, Work Coach Co, Type 7

    Bringing Joy & Clarity to Your Work w/Marty Munger, CEO, Work Coach Co, Type 7

    Whether at home or the office, your work life is an enormous part of the day and deserves rich contemplation and optimization. Today Christa invites you to a conversation to greatly benefit you by bringing joy into your work rhythms by discovering your own Enneagram intelligence, emotional, and instinctual work strengths and areas for growth. With the new assessment that today's guest, Marty Munger, CEO of WorkCoach.co and her team developed just for you, you'll be able to thrive with clarity and direction. Make sure to tune in as we talk with Marty not only about relationships (of course, and she's in a systematizing 5-7 pairing!) but also how your work typology can be both a strength and a liability you must pay attention to if you want to thrive! Christa shares her work temperament as well! ALSO: Marty and her team have an INCREDIBLE offer for our wonderful E + M Community (you!) right here! >> https://workcoach.co/marriage

    📣 Take Marty's assessment and get a FREE intro coaching session! 📣 Here's her Instagram for a follow there as well!

    📣 Don't forget to get Christa's book here too for all of your relationship needs! 📣 https://www.amazon.com/Enneagram-Marriage-Thriving-Together-Pairing/dp/1540903370 or visit the website at www.enneagramandmarriage.com

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    • 42 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
11 Ratings

11 Ratings

Ashleyeve8 ,

My favourite Enneagram Podcast!

This is my favourite Enneagram podcast. Having only discovered the Enneagram in the last year, I had a lot to learn and discover! Christa does an incredible job of exploring each type, both independently and in marriage. Much like a therapist, I have learned invaluable lessons that have helped me to better understand myself and my partner. I look forward to this podcast each week! ❤️

JaHla25 ,

LOVE 💕

I started listening a few months ago and every episode is super informative and helpful but also just fun to listen to! She gives really practical ways to help your relationships 😊

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