31 min
Ep 229: Why do I need to be the best? This key will change self-worth forever. The Christel Crawford Show
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- Mental Health
Are you running an internal race you can't explain? 😩
To be the best? To get there?
To get it all right? To be perfect?
To not let anyone get ahead of you? To never be wrong?
But deep down - you feel less than? Not enough? Flawed? Lacking everything good?
Today's key has me by the short and curly's.
When I first read about No Competition, I ignored it completely. For five years, I knew it wasn't relevant for me.
And then, I read it again. It was so my thing that I had discarded it.
I'm getting more awareness all the time of what happened for me in the Latin part of the world. The moment I arrived and everything felt crazy.
One of the keys to freedom?
Don't compete.
There is no one that you can actually compare yourself to, so - be yourself. Enjoy yourself. Receive others. Have allowance.
All easy things to type.
Living them?
To not compete, you have to know that you have value. Know that you're a gift.
If you don't?
You'll-- need to be right all the time -- fight for your point of view -- compare yourself to everyone -- need to be the best and win at everything you do -- need to not lose -- leave the ring when others are around -- say things like, I could have done that, no problem -- feel depressed and not want to live (to remove yourself from the game)
And a huge long list of other things.
I have been competing for as long as I can remember. But in the last 3 years, it got exposed. And I raged. Brutal for everyone involved.
Until I chose something else.
I am mastering my own need to be wrong, and would like to invite you along for a very transformative journey.
We start tomorrow! All the details here: https://www.christeljoycrawford.com/offers/4JMzwLWC/checkout
Are you running an internal race you can't explain? 😩
To be the best? To get there?
To get it all right? To be perfect?
To not let anyone get ahead of you? To never be wrong?
But deep down - you feel less than? Not enough? Flawed? Lacking everything good?
Today's key has me by the short and curly's.
When I first read about No Competition, I ignored it completely. For five years, I knew it wasn't relevant for me.
And then, I read it again. It was so my thing that I had discarded it.
I'm getting more awareness all the time of what happened for me in the Latin part of the world. The moment I arrived and everything felt crazy.
One of the keys to freedom?
Don't compete.
There is no one that you can actually compare yourself to, so - be yourself. Enjoy yourself. Receive others. Have allowance.
All easy things to type.
Living them?
To not compete, you have to know that you have value. Know that you're a gift.
If you don't?
You'll-- need to be right all the time -- fight for your point of view -- compare yourself to everyone -- need to be the best and win at everything you do -- need to not lose -- leave the ring when others are around -- say things like, I could have done that, no problem -- feel depressed and not want to live (to remove yourself from the game)
And a huge long list of other things.
I have been competing for as long as I can remember. But in the last 3 years, it got exposed. And I raged. Brutal for everyone involved.
Until I chose something else.
I am mastering my own need to be wrong, and would like to invite you along for a very transformative journey.
We start tomorrow! All the details here: https://www.christeljoycrawford.com/offers/4JMzwLWC/checkout
31 min