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The purpose of this podcast, Heart of Dating, is to unmask the ever-so-ambiguous world of dating in the Christian world. While there are resources spread out over the years, there are not many centralized areas where Christians can access dating advice, help, and guidance easily and in a fashion that is accessible. The ultimate hope is that Heart of Dating Podcast will start a healthy conversation for men and women and provide wise input and direction as we answer some tough questions and uncover some transformative ways to develop a healthy attitude and approach to dating as a Christian.

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    • 4.8 • 125 Ratings

The purpose of this podcast, Heart of Dating, is to unmask the ever-so-ambiguous world of dating in the Christian world. While there are resources spread out over the years, there are not many centralized areas where Christians can access dating advice, help, and guidance easily and in a fashion that is accessible. The ultimate hope is that Heart of Dating Podcast will start a healthy conversation for men and women and provide wise input and direction as we answer some tough questions and uncover some transformative ways to develop a healthy attitude and approach to dating as a Christian.

    HOD SELECT: Dating Multiple People as a Christian

    HOD SELECT: Dating Multiple People as a Christian

    Join Kait and JJ as they talk about the hot topic of dating multiple people as a Christian. Learn who dating multiple people is for, and some top questions.

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    Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
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    Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library 

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    • 38 min
    HOD SELECT: How to Drop the Hanky

    HOD SELECT: How to Drop the Hanky

    Today Kait is solo telling all the ladies how to drop the hanky with a man you’re interested in. 

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    Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest 

    Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library 

    Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

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    . . . . . 

    A quick thank you to one of our friends!

    Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

    We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

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    • 27 min
    HOD SELECT: Dating Apps, Lust, and Window Shopping?

    HOD SELECT: Dating Apps, Lust, and Window Shopping?

    Join JJ as he dives into dating apps from a Christian perspective. He talks about glorifying God in the choices you’re making 

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    Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

    Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest 

    Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library 

    Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

    https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ

    Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast 

    Come hang with us on the gram:

    http://instagram.com/heartofdating

    http://instagram.com/kaitness

    https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

    . . . . . 

    A quick thank you to one of our friends!

    Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

    We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

    http://compassion.com/heartofdating

    . . . . . 
    Check out this week's sponsors:
    Better Help: This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HOD and get on your way to being your best self.
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    • 40 min
    HOD SELECT: What If You Think Online Dating Sucks with Hailey Kenyon

    HOD SELECT: What If You Think Online Dating Sucks with Hailey Kenyon

    Kait and Hailey talk about the hard truth about online dating, share their personal stories with online dating, and final takeaways as you navigate online dating. 

    Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating

    Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

    Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest 

    Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library 

    Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

    https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ

    Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast 

    Come hang with us on the gram:

    http://instagram.com/heartofdating

    http://instagram.com/kaitness

    https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

    . . . . . 

    A quick thank you to one of our friends!

    Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

    We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

    http://compassion.com/heartofdating
    . . . . . 
    Check out this week's sponsors:
    Better Help: This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HOD and get on your way to being your best self.
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 29 min
    HOD SELECT: Online Dating 101 with Kat Harris

    HOD SELECT: Online Dating 101 with Kat Harris

    Kat discusses being a single woman in her 30s, online dating, dating apps, and debunking myths of christians using dating platforms. She shares online dating tips, myths, and her favorite online dating story.

    Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating

    Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

    Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest 

    Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library 

    Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

    https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ

    Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast 

    Come hang with us on the gram:

    http://instagram.com/heartofdating

    http://instagram.com/kaitness

    https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

    . . . . . 

    A quick thank you to one of our friends!

    Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

    We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

    http://compassion.com/heartofdating

    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 41 min
    HOD SELECT: Crushing Your Limiting Beliefs in Online Dating with Hannah Brencher

    HOD SELECT: Crushing Your Limiting Beliefs in Online Dating with Hannah Brencher

    Today we’re throwing it back to HODC 2023 and Hannah Brencher is giving us a crash course in all things online dating as well as telling her story in it all! 

    Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating

    Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

    Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest 

    Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library 

    Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

    https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ

    Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast 

    Come hang with us on the gram:

    http://instagram.com/heartofdating

    http://instagram.com/kaitness

    https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

    . . . . . 

    A quick thank you to one of our friends!

    Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

    We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

    http://compassion.com/heartofdating

    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 1 hr

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
125 Ratings

125 Ratings

Absiscool:) ,

You might be skeptical, but it’s pretty great

So I’ll admit, I was very skeptical when I saw this podcast. A “Christian dating podcast” immediately made me think it would be out of touch and/or potentially a little cringey… but it’s actually pretty great. Kait and JJ are spirit-filled, they seem really genuine when they talk, and they cover topics that I haven’t heard anywhere else. They give concrete advice, which is refreshing in a world of dating ambiguity, even if I don’t always agree. They seem like people I could be friends with, which is a neat vibe to get from a podcast. I’ve been listening pretty regularly for almost two years now and I really appreciate what they’re doing! Definitely worth a listen if you’re Christian and single or actively dating :)

MicCali ,

Dating advice, wisdom and just a good time!

I have learned buckets and bucket of wisdom from this podcast! I'ts something I look forward to every week and the variety of topics that have been covered within Christian Dating, in combination with Kate's down to earth and kind personality make a amazing podcast! I even listen the episodes I can't relate to yet, its that good!

MarunaMan ,

Open, Honest, Engaging, Insightful

I found Kait and JJ through another podcast and have been obsessed. I started listening to Season 10 a couple weeks ago and listen any chance I get. I have learned a lot and love the combo of using scripture and their own experiences to wade through complex conversations like sex, body shame, purity culture, etc.

I don’t agree with everything they say but it is great to hear someone else’s perspective to help me understand my own. I would say I struggle more to understand the men’s minisodes but I am a woman so maybe a man’s perspective is unrelatable to me.

Regardless, I would recommend this podcast to all the single Christian’s I know! And even to some of the non-Christian’s I know because the content can apply to us all!

I also did not give 5 stars because I would like to hear from experts that include therapists & counselor. Often the guests are their friends who have cool things to see but I’m not always clear their credentials to the topic. Could be because I have not listened to enough episodes yet.

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