575 episodes

If you’re married — or soon to be — you’ve got questions. What makes this relationship work? How do I fix it when it breaks? Where do I go when I need help? Host John Fuller and marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley help answer those questions with practical, down-to-earth insights based on God’s design for marriage. Find answers and inspiration in every short episode of this Christian marriage podcast.

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    • 4.4 • 135 Ratings

If you’re married — or soon to be — you’ve got questions. What makes this relationship work? How do I fix it when it breaks? Where do I go when I need help? Host John Fuller and marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley help answer those questions with practical, down-to-earth insights based on God’s design for marriage. Find answers and inspiration in every short episode of this Christian marriage podcast.

    From a Divorce Attorney’s Perspective

    From a Divorce Attorney’s Perspective

    The pain of divorce is regarded as one of the hardest things a person can face. Carey and Toni Nieuwhof join Jim Daly to share about ways they've seen divorce negatively impact others. Also, John, Greg and Erin offer hope to couples who've been in a desparate season for a long time.
     
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    Hope Restored
     
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    Why and How to Pursue a Healing Separation 
     
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    • 12 min
    When Childhood Wounds Reappear in Your Marriage

    When Childhood Wounds Reappear in Your Marriage

    Sometimes, when spouses lash out at each other, it's actually rooted in childhood wounds. Toni Nieuwhof nearly lost her marriage with her husband Carey, and she talks with Jim Daly about how wounds from growing up negatively impacted her marriage. Then, John and the Smalley's discuss first steps spouses can take toward wholeness if they have undealt with childhood trauma.
     
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    Hope Restored
     
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    Watch Greg Smalley's Story 
     
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    • 13 min
    Holding Your Tongue, and Small Celebrations

    Holding Your Tongue, and Small Celebrations

    It's easy to say something you regret when you're exhausted. Jim Daly and Ted Lowe share how to respond when you feel triggered. Plus, Greg, Erin, and John address how celebrating small wins in your relationship can reframe your perspective.
     
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    Focus on Marriage Assessment
     
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    Cherish Your Spouse, Change Your Marriage Part 1 - Gary Thomas 
     
    Control Negative Mindsets for an Improved Marriage 
     
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    • 12 min
    Healthy Self-Talk and Reassurance

    Healthy Self-Talk and Reassurance

    When you face something difficult in your marriage, how can you remind yourself of the truth? Ted Lowe shares a helpful phrase he and his wife use to remind themselves to persevere. Then, Greg and Erin talk with John on what helps them make it through hard times.
     
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    Focus on Marriage Assessment
     
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    Cherish Your Spouse, Change Your Marriage Part 1 - Gary Thomas 
     
    Control Negative Mindsets for an Improved Marriage 
     
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    • 11 min
    I’m So Offended! Now What?

    I’m So Offended! Now What?

    You didn't mean anything by what you said, but your mate seems offended. Sound familiar? Greg tells John about a time he unintentionally said something offensive to his wife Erin. Then, you'll hear Matt and Lisa Jacobson talk about how they worked through a misunderstanding in their relationship.
     
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    Four Ways Couples Can Wake Up from Feeling Stuck in Marriage 
     
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    • 10 min
    We All Want to Be Listened To

    We All Want to Be Listened To

    When your mate shares something vulnerable, many times, he or she just wants a listening ear. Matt and Lisa Jacobson join Jim Daly to share how wives need to listen to their husbands. Plus, John and the Smalley's explain why husbands need to hear what their wives are saying without trying to fix every problem.
     
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    How to Truly Love Your Spouse 
     
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    • 11 min

Customer Reviews

4.4 out of 5
135 Ratings

135 Ratings

JacksR90 ,

Wisdom but not always on topic

I really appreciate the truths the come out of these podcasts. Even offhanded comments help to foster understanding and love between spouses. Lots of really good wisdom here!

I do wish though that the podcasts were more direct and on topic. For example, I listened to the “when your spouse doesn’t receive positive affirmation” podcast in order to seek specific wisdom about that topic. There was one comment at the beginning that was helpful, about how it’s not our responsibility but we can be either a cheerleader or an enemy in our spouse’s life. But the rest was talking generally about trust and such… and didn’t give me any clear help or advice.

JerusalemJoy ,

Appreciate the podcasts

Wish they were the whole conversation or longer…

Alejsandria ,

Perspective shifting

Thank you for who each of you are in Christ. Thank you for this ministry and the impact it makes in marriages like mine.

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