16 episodes

Cat Skinner and Joel van Vliet give marriage advice even though one of them is grossly unqualified.

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    • Relationships

Cat Skinner and Joel van Vliet give marriage advice even though one of them is grossly unqualified.

    Episode 16: Purity, Presence and Punishment

    Episode 16: Purity, Presence and Punishment

    In this episode, Joel and Cat debate living together before marriage, how to build trust in a new relationship, and the dynamics of dominance and submission. Listen here!iTunes!Google Play!Spotify!iHeart Radio!

    • 1 hr
    Episode 15: Butt Pat

    Episode 15: Butt Pat

    Out of control step kids, traveling the world while co-parenting and co-dependent in-laws who won’t get off the couch; Joel and Catfind creative solutions for even the most complex marriage […]

    • 40 min
    Episode 14: Fluid Science

    Episode 14: Fluid Science

    In this highly-informative episode, Joel and Cat tell you everything you ever wanted to know about female ejaculation, and invite listeners to beat the winter blues with their own experiments. […]

    • 57 min
    Episode 13: Mommy Issues

    Episode 13: Mommy Issues

    In lucky episode 13, get to know Joel and Cat on a deeper level. Plus, learn how to divide household tasks in a spiritual way, deal with your partner’s toxic […]

    • 1 hr 13 min
    Episode 12: Second-hand Meat

    Episode 12: Second-hand Meat

    What happens when spouses can’t agree on how much time to devote to hobbies, how to spend money, and where to put a well-lubed finger? Stick with Joel and Cat […]

    • 46 min
    Episode 11: OK Boomer

    Episode 11: OK Boomer

    In this episode, Joel and Cat talk about sex toys, power couples, staying fit and keeping things interesting. Actually, if you just combine all of those, there’s no chance your […]

    • 45 min

Customer Reviews

Jules007ka ,

Laughter and tears all the time!

Listening to the podcast has been both entertaining and healing. I think of the hosts as two friends having coffee next to me, and I’m eavesdropping. It doesn’t feel polished, and edited which I absolutely love and appreciate. It’s the prefect blend of humour and terrific advise. I’m laughing one moment and in tears the next. Thank you for answering me question, and giving me a place where I feel heard by an unbiased people who truly have wide angle lenses on all things marriage and relationships.

Blu52 ,

So real

So damn funny! I love the mixture of candour and humour. I have to admit I’m also relieved that you guys aren’t axing swearing since it lends even more authenticity to what’s being said and it also isn’t prolific. Sentence enhancers are usually needed most when talking about relationships.
As it is, as hosts you both play fabulously well off of one another and it’s been really refreshing to listen to this podcast! Can’t recommend it enough.

samanthajudithjean ,

Humorous Reality Checks.

The hosts (each with smooth lovely voices for listening) have great rapport and equally great advice. The combination of Cat’s compassion, Joel’s quirk, and both of their tough love, makes for an entertaining and beneficial chat for the listener. Morning coffee is much more enjoyable with these two in my ears!

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