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Love Life with Matthew Hussey Matthew Hussey
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4.7 • 418 Ratings
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Relationships are for heroes.
Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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253: What To Do When The Attraction Isn’t Strong Enough…
Have you ever been there? You meet someone online, the connection sparks, and attraction starts to grow with every conversation. But then, when you meet in person, something‘s off. Maybe their height isn‘t quite what the pictures showed, or their photos were way outdated. And even though you try to push past it, the initial spark is gone.
And now you feel stuck . . . You know you‘re not interested, but the thought of letting them down fills you with fear and anxiety.
If this sounds familiar, you won‘t want to miss this episode. Audrey and Matt discuss how to navigate this situation if you‘re a people pleaser or struggle with guilt when delivering bad news.
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(Matt Monday): 7 Things Narcissists Do That’ll Never Make Sense to You
What is a relationship with a narcissist really like?
If you’re an empathetic person, it can make you feel crazy: You doubt yourself constantly. You’re always second-guessing. Your boundaries and sense of self are slowly broken down by emotional manipulation and gaslighting.
Whether you’re still feeling the wounds from a past narcissistic relationship, or are trying to figure out if you’re in a relationship with a narcissist right now, today’s episode is your next step. I walk you through the 7 signs you're dating a narcissist and show you how to spot these traits faster in your next relationship.
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(Rewind): How to Get Over Someone You STILL Can't Get Over
What if you’ve been dating someone with whom you feel a truly unique and natural connection, but they have a fatal flaw that means a relationship is impossible?
There is a real danger to the feeling that this person is irreplaceable, when you tell yourself “I can’t find this connection with anyone else”.
If we never make space for something new, never let go, and always hold onto hope of what might have been, we can get stuck on an old relationship forever.
So if you’re ready to truly move on and get over “the one that got away”, this video will help you move forward with confidence and certainty.
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253: “How Do I Get Him to Try Harder?”
Theresa says, “I feel like I’m his lowest priority”. Even though the guy she’s dating long-distance says all the right things, he is constantly busy and now she feels like an obligation to him rather than someone he’s excited to see. “He doesn’t want to lose me”, she says, “but he doesn’t want to try either”.
In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to handle this on-the-fence situation, when someone says they want to see you but isn’t able or truly willing to fulfil your needs, and whether you should date someone who is too busy to make you their priority right now.
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►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days...
Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com
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(Matt Monday): Feel Like You’ve Lost “The One”?
Have you felt the heartbreak of losing the “love of your life,” and now you want them back? Or perhaps you feel trapped in sadness after a breakup and don’t know how to move on.
Either way, this is the first aid you need right now.
In today’s episode, I explain the #1 thing that defines our reality during a breakup, and show how the obsession we might feel during a breakup can have its roots in the early days of dating someone. And if you’re on the fence about getting back with your ex, the 3 steps I share today can help you make that decision.
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(Rewind): 4 Dangerous Reasons You Fall In Love Too Fast
Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas.
He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour.
Then it was on to talking all night. They kissed, they danced, and he told her after a few days that he had never met anyone like her.
Now Lisa had a weird feeling: “Uh-oh, I’ve fallen for this guy…”
She thought about him every day when she got home, remembering that perfect moment on the boat trip when he took her hand and pulled her tight to him.
But then... he never called…(I know, it’s horrible, right?)
The truth is, this often happens because of some very simple mistakes we make when it comes to falling in love.
In this week’s rewind episode, I’ll show you how to avoid them...
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Customer Reviews
Thank you for your life-changing Angel work, Matthew & team!
I first discovered Matthew when he was on Red Table Talk. Since then I’ve listened to most of the Love Life podcast episodes, tuned into Matthew’s interviews on other podcasts (Jay Shetty, Lewis Howes, etc.), read Get The Guy, attended many Love Life webinars and trainings, and just finished reading Love Life.
I wanted to share that the book resonated so deeply with me. The wisdom of your words made my heart swell to the point that I felt it explode in my chest, resulting in an overflow of tears. Not out of sadness, but it’s just the reaction one has when one is confronted with the awe-inspiring beauty of The Truth. Your concepts, metaphors, and topics covered in your work (e.g., finding a builder, the relay race, happy enough, F-U confidence, Stephen’s invest & test, fireworks, standards, self-compassion, self-love/being “My Human/Person”, 4 stages in a relationship, grief, peace & progress, the parallel to Chopped, creating magic, scarcity/abundance mindset, etc.) were life-changing for me.
Diving into your work has literally changed the trajectory of my life, and reframed how I am approaching my life with intention and a hopeful heart. One profound a-ha/eureka moment I experienced from reading your most recent book was the realization that the greatest love story I’ll ever experience in my lifetime is the one with myself. I am the heroine and author in my own story. Your message is so uplifting and empowering. You’ve given me what I needed to hear as a 40+ year old single woman finding myself in a life I didn’t expect, but confident that I can make magic out of the ingredients I’ve been given.
If this is the impact you’ve had on me, the power and reach of your work are truly immeasurable given the millions of people who follow you and are part of the Love Life community. Thank you for your Angel work, and for sharing your many gifts with the world. I wish you continued success, every happiness, an abundance of love, and all of Life’s Blessings!
PS Congratulations to you and Audrey! You’ve found your co-builder in each other, and you are going transform your plot of land into magical castle grounds. What a hopeful and inspiring model you two are for us all! May your marriage be marked by lifelong friendship and a love that only continues to grow and deepen with time.
Love you guys!
Been binge listening since July and you guys are a riot! I heard one reviewer say she didn’t enjoy the chit chat at the start of the episodes, but I totally disagree! I love hearing you guys joke and tell stories. I’ve enjoyed those episodes the most and have laughed my head off at some of the things Matt has said - and the voices lol. Keep it up and we’ll keep listening and purchasing!
Hands Down The Best Podcast to Improve & Have A Healthy Love Life
I've been listening to Matt for years now and first discovered his content during lockdown. To keep this short and sweet, he has single-handedly changed me from being codependent and insecure to confident (both with myself and in love) and healthily independent but still allowing myself to feel vulnerable in love. His perspective on love and life as a whole is truly remarkable and one of a kind. You cannot find a better podcast when it comes to improving your love life (AND your life in general) than this one. Thank you Matt (and Stephen, Audrey, Jameson) for sharing your light with us. You are changing lives ❤️
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