325 episodes
The Love U Podcast with Evan Marc Katz Evan Marc Katz
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4.7 • 64 Ratings
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Are you the woman who has everything except your man? Dating coach Evan Marc Katz will help you find him. Evan is the author of four books, has a blog with over 35 million readers, and has coached 13,000 women through Love U, his signature course that helps smart, successful women find lasting love. With a rare blend of wit, wisdom, and warmth, Evan is an invaluable asset to any woman who is frustrated with dating and wants to fix her broken man-picker. Each week, Evan gives tangible, practical advice on how you can raise your standards, set healthy boundaries and attract a high-quality, commitment-oriented man. www.evanmarckatz.com/now
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Why Married Men Are a Hell No!
I know it should seem obvious but the fact that I recorded a podcast about it means that plenty of women still find married men alluring. In this episode, we'll talk about why married men are often more romantic than single men AND 4 reasons why it absolutely doesn't matter and you should run far, far away from any married guy who shows interest in you.
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How to Balance an Anxious/Avoidant Attachment Style
If you didn't have a healthy nuclear family with loving married parents, its likely that you formed an attachment style that is either anxious or avoidant. But what happens when your anxiety turns into avoidance, and your avoidance turns into anxiety? This is something I see with women in Love U and a phenomenon that I felt was worth airing in today's episode. Your past doesn't have to predict your future; it just takes strength to make different choices with men.
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Why Dating Is Different As You Get Older
My readers often ask me to create specific programs for them. "Why can't you create something for women in their 60's who are facing a smaller dating pool with men who are retired, widowed, unhealthy and dealing with erectile dysfunction?" The answer is that despite the unique challenges facing women of different ages, 95% of dating and relationship advice is universal. It's about confidence, communication, boundaries, beliefs, and the skill of learning to be more effective in dating. But, as a man of the people, I've listened to you and put together this podcast highlighting the unique challenges of dating in your 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, and 60s. l hope this means I don't have to create an entirely new program.
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Are You Trying to Change Him?
You know the narrative. Men suck. There are no good ones left. They're all narcissists or losers or emotionally unavailable. The cute ones don't want to settle down. The ones who want to settle down aren't attractive. When you finally find one you like, the compromises are too great. I'm not here to argue with you. What I will say, as a happily married dating coach, is that you have two choices: accept him as he is or dump him. What you can't do is stay in a relationship with a man who you're constantly criticizing and wanting to change. My take: if you can find one man on Earth you can fully accept, you'll both be happy for the rest of your life.
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🔥 Take my quiz to find love now: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/quiz
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Should You Be Happy Alone?
My smart, successful clients have all loved and lost. Yet they recovered to rebuild their lives and fill it with meaningful work, travel, hobbies and friendship. Today's question is whether this is enough. Is being happy alone a condition for finding love or is a trap that allows you to stay alone indefinitely? What's the benefit of lasting love when being single is better than being in a bad relationship? In this Love U Podcast, I do my best to explain.
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🔥 Take my quiz to find love now: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/quiz
💖 Apply to Love U: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/apply
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Men Are About Feelings
While it's easy to get mad at guys who overvalue youth and beauty, the truth is that you need more than looks to be with a quality man. In fact, quality men are all about how you make them FEEL. If your default behavior in relationships is to feel anxious and critical of your partner, it's time to choose better men and make a big shift in how you show up. It's a challenging concept but one that is very much worth your while. Plus, I tear up when I read a Valentine's Day card from my wife, so that's always fun.
🫶 Subscribe to Lovesplaining for free: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/substack
🔥 Take my quiz to find love now: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/quiz
💖 Apply to Love U: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/apply
📷 Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realevanmarckatz/
Customer Reviews
EMK
The source you never had growing up regarding relationships. I learn so much from Evan because his advice is thoughtful and kind and makes you understand your value in the relationship and urges you to accept no less than great treatment while revealing your own blind spots. Thank you for the empowerment!
Not great
It’s pronounced because not “be-koss.” Your podcast is lame.
Relationship guru
I first heard Evan when my sister loaned me a burned CD recording years ago of Evan with a talk show host called Rory Rae. I don’t who she is, but she interviewed Evan and asked questions that he answered mindfully. I often quoted his words to my daughters, but I had only that one recording. Since becoming single a few years ago, I searched his name online and was pleased discover Evan continues to coach women. Then I found him on apple podcasts and also joined the mailing list. I find his straightforwardness invaluable. Evan has helped me to uncover what I am looking for in a relationship and what to guard against, but not first without failure. I quote him so much that I could write the acronym WWED? and my four daughters would understand.
I’m not sure how he does it, but his weekly email happens to be the topic I am struggling with that week. I can’t even ignore the emails among the other hundred stray emails i receive, because its like Evan is in my brain.
I’m sure I disagree with all of Evan’s politics, and mostly every other topic he touches on, and yet understanding women and guiding them to be smart and self-respecting is an insight I sincerely appreciate. I continue to try to be intentional with my dating experience and I see success in all the areas where I have employed Evan’s direction. I am dating a man (it’s been almost a year), that makes me feel safe, heard, and understood, and who is kind and very manly. Each time I have met a man I got better at respecting myself and knowing how to proceed. If its the right fellow both people will feel respected and seen. Not every man is a prospect for moving forward, but the qualities I value in a man are becoming more ingrained in my psyche, and that is not a handsome pretty boy that drives a Ferraris and toys with my heart, or has emotional tantrums in order to exercise power over.
Thanks Evan, for striking a chord so many years back. 😊
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