66 episodes

Each month, Sara and Jay explore topics in sex health, relationships, queer identities, BDSM, kink, sex work, and more. This podcast is only for listeners 18 and older.

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Each month, Sara and Jay explore topics in sex health, relationships, queer identities, BDSM, kink, sex work, and more. This podcast is only for listeners 18 and older.

    Trans Justice and Sex Ed - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 63

    Trans Justice and Sex Ed - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 63

    This week, Sara and Jay talk about the difference between doing trans-inclusive sex ed and building sex ed based on a justice framework. Also inclusion, virginity, life-long sex ed, and reproductive justice.

    1:30 - Intro
    3:22 - Accountability Corner
    17:57 - Word of the Show
    25:00 - Article Discussion
    35:09 - Patreon Message
    36:40 - Main Topic
    41:41 - What's Wrong?
    54:12 - Why Make It Better?
    1:04:59 - Justice-Centered 
    1:15:03 - Risk Aware Sex Ed
    1:28:00 - Sex Ed isn't Biology Class

    • 1 hr 41 min
    Genital Torture and Trans Bodies - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 62

    Genital Torture and Trans Bodies - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 62

    Join Jay and Sara as we explore the innies and outies of genital torture play. We'll talk about pain tolerance, dysphoria, safety tips, and give examples of play you might never have thought about!

    Segments:
    1:30 - Intro
    7:21 - Word of the Show: Pain Tolerance
    14:40 - How Do You Find It?
    22:40 - Patreon Message
    25:57 - What is Genital Torture Play?
    29:48 - Why Not Just Use "CBT"?
    33:23 - Types of GT Play
    52:42 - Trans-Specific Tips for GT
    1:10:28 - Harm Reduction
    1:23:04 - Negotiating GT

    • 1 hr 37 min
    Dysphoria and Sex as a Trans Person - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 61

    Dysphoria and Sex as a Trans Person - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 61

    Sara and Jay jump into the first topic discussion of Season 2, how to navigate sex and dysphoria as a trans person! We discuss strategies, validate the struggles, and give some tips from our experience.

    Transcript: https://otter.ai/s/FM-xOB1SR4ek6UXYWOjcRg

    Segments:
    1:30 - Intro
    2:10 - Word of the Show: Gender Dysphoria
    20:09 - Dysphoria Tips
    45:46 - Patreon Message
    47:54 - Exploring Sex As A Trans Person
    59:17 - HRT Effects on Sex and Orgasm
    1:19:58 - Final Takeaway Tips

    • 1 hr 36 min
    QSE Listener Questions 6 - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 60

    QSE Listener Questions 6 - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 60

    Season 2 kicks off with a question episode catching up on your emails to us over the break! We discuss endometriosis, herpes transmission, identity-based humiliation play, and more! We are so excited to be back in your podcast feed. Transcript: https://otter.ai/s/p3FKnWmQTyS8jynNBQ_Mvw

    Segments:
    2:35 - Season 2
    6:18 - Endometriosis and HRT
    20:11 - Humiliation Play
    32:26 - Patreon Message
    36:32 - Oral Herpes
    53:21 - STI Risk with Tongue Piercing
    1:05:53 - Wrap Up
    1:09:51 - Anti-Fascist Rant

    • 1 hr 31 min
    Body Changes on Hormones - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 59

    Body Changes on Hormones - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 59

    Jay and Sara talk about the changes people can expect on testosterone or estrogen, progesterone, and spiro as hormone replacement therapy (HRT). Also discussed: muffing

    Segments:
    3:48 - Word of the Show, Muffing
    13:13 - Patreon Message
    14:46 - Intro to Hormones and HRT
    25:21 - Talking with the doctor about HRT and sex
    36:26 - Effects of Testosterone
    49:17 - Effects of Estrogen
    1:01:10 - Effects of Spiro
    1:10:07 - Effects of Progesterone
    1:15:12 - In Response to Buck Angel
    1:26:12 -  Wrap-up

    • 1 hr 33 min
    QSE Listener Questions 5 - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 58

    QSE Listener Questions 5 - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 58

    Jay and Sara answer more questions from you, the listeners! Questions include bondage for disabled folks, lower sex drive on SSRIs, period sex, coming out to a partner, and Fetlife tips. Also discussed: new HHS regulations that discriminate against LGBTQ people.

    Segments:
    3:07 - Accountability Corner
    6:22 - New HHS "Conscience Rule"
    18:55 - Future HHS Regulation
    28:34 - Rope Bondage and Disability
    38:35 - SSRI Medication
    55:27 - Patreon Message
    57:54 - Period Sex
    1:14:32 - Fetlife Tips

    • 1 hr 36 min

Customer Reviews

Green_With_Enby ,

This Podcast is for EVERYONE

Sara and Jay are the heroes that the world needs right now.

I cannot express enough how much this podcast has spoken to me - on a deep level. I often found myself crying in public places while listening to the hosts tell a story that made me feel seen for the first time and made me like a less defective member of queer community writ large.

Many queer folks I've encountered struggle against the confines imposed by the 'cis-het-white supremacist-patriarchy' by creating new boxes that further restrict who we are and what we can be. I need more voices like Sara's and Jay's in my life - voices that confirm that there is no one way to be queer, no one way to form relationships, no one way to have sex, no one way to experience desire, no one way to discover your gender. Their voices have enabled me to listen to my own.

I have recommended this podcast to everyone in my life - regardless of where they fall on the various identity spectrums. As tiring, as harmful and as frustrating as this world can be sometimes, QSE has given me a little hope that we humans have it within us to be kinder to ourselves and each other.

Erikahenne ,

Thank you!

Listening and loving this in Toronto, Canada!

mnls1415 ,

Fantastic

Ive been listening for a few months now and every episode teaches me something new or gets me thinking about things in new ways. The hosts are well educated, well spoken and very informative while also being entertaining. I look forward to every new episode.

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