27 episodes

To be human is to fail – period. And not just to fail once, but to fail a lot. As the author Samuel Beckett said: “Fail again. Fail better.” This saying means a lot to me and my family – so much so that my daughter got a tattoo of it. Why are we, and so many others, so deeply concerned by failure? And if it’s something we all do so often, why are we so afraid of it – especially those of us here in win-at-all-costs America? In this podcast, I sit down with successful, thoughtful people like Ben Stiller, Bette Midler, Sean Penn and more to talk about failure – or what they labeled “failure,” but what was really an unparalleled opportunity for growth and revelation. I even want to delve into my own hardest moments, when I wrestled with setbacks, shame, and fear. We’ll still fail again. And again. But maybe if we fail better, we’ll feel better -- and maybe if we can all laugh together in failure, that's a start.

Fail Better with David Duchovny Lemonada

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.6 • 41 Ratings

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To be human is to fail – period. And not just to fail once, but to fail a lot. As the author Samuel Beckett said: “Fail again. Fail better.” This saying means a lot to me and my family – so much so that my daughter got a tattoo of it. Why are we, and so many others, so deeply concerned by failure? And if it’s something we all do so often, why are we so afraid of it – especially those of us here in win-at-all-costs America? In this podcast, I sit down with successful, thoughtful people like Ben Stiller, Bette Midler, Sean Penn and more to talk about failure – or what they labeled “failure,” but what was really an unparalleled opportunity for growth and revelation. I even want to delve into my own hardest moments, when I wrestled with setbacks, shame, and fear. We’ll still fail again. And again. But maybe if we fail better, we’ll feel better -- and maybe if we can all laugh together in failure, that's a start.

Listen on Apple Podcasts
Requires subscription and macOS 11.4 or higher

    Sally Jenkins Thinks Losing Is Wonderful

    Sally Jenkins Thinks Losing Is Wonderful

    “Who can explain the athletic heart?” These are the words Sally Jenkins’ father would ask, driving her to follow in his footsteps and become a groundbreaking sportswriter. From eating a cheeseburger alongside golf legends as a child, to writing memoirs of the world’s top athletes and coaches, Sally has had a unique look into the lives and minds (and hearts) of some of society’s most exceptional individuals. She shares the lessons she’s learned from athletes ranging from Lance Armstrong to Billie Jean King, how they can apply to all of us, and why losing might be the best thing that can happen to you. 
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    • 59 min
    PREMIUM: Reflections on Sally Jenkins

    PREMIUM: Reflections on Sally Jenkins

    I’m coming to you from my cold plunge tub, thinking about the relationships between writers and their subjects, and how asking authentic questions is what gets you the real answers.

    Jeremiah Fraites Isn’t Just The Tambourine Guy

    Jeremiah Fraites Isn’t Just The Tambourine Guy

    Jeremiah Fraites, co-founder of The Lumineers, says he’s not a lyricist. Yet he matches me quote for quote as we discuss creativity, grief, and giving up control. The conversation takes us a lot of places – like to the free-throw line, and to church. As a fellow father and musician, it’s a treat to see so many sides of Jeremiah, as is getting to reference Spielberg and Metallica in one sitting.
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    • 50 min
    PREMIUM: Reflections on Jeremiah Fraites (and some Neil Young)

    PREMIUM: Reflections on Jeremiah Fraites (and some Neil Young)

    I can’t seem to stop thinking about the failure of human expression, especially after conversations with artists. Here are my extended thoughts about this damn thing that keeps eating at me, a younger Neil Young, and some pretty intense guitar thrashing.

    The Singular Fredness of Armisen

    The Singular Fredness of Armisen

    Fred Armisen grew up idolizing trailblazing musicians, from The Beatles to The Clash and The Talking Heads. But spending his twenties drumming in bands never seemed to land him further than moderate crowds and endless nights loading his gear into the van. In need of a change, he turned to comedy, honing the craft of creating characters we know and love him for, on shows like SNL and Portlandia. I connected with Fred while we were both on set in different locales to discuss his unusual pivot, why he still feels an intense yearning for the music he loves, and the strange intimacy of filming a fight scene.
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    • 55 min
    PREMIUM: The Freedom of a Foreign Language, with Fred Armisen

    PREMIUM: The Freedom of a Foreign Language, with Fred Armisen

    Fred and I get into it about the magic of working in other languages, and I find a way to bring up Samuel Beckett again. Plus, Fred tells me all the joy and the wisdom he’s gained from his friend Lorne Michaels.

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
41 Ratings

41 Ratings

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Fail Better is for everyone who’s interested in being a better human.

I never watched X-files because I was too busy with my own career /children balancing act, and trying not to feel guilty all the time. I come to David by way of @gilliana who gave him an emotional and glowing shout-out a day or two ago. And I feel blessed that she did! Thank you Gillian. If you need a path to not feeling alone in all the things you could have done better and to improving your self-kindness, listen to David and his guests ! The raw emotion of the Gabor interview will help me to continue to just share my heart with more and more people in my life, especially my young adult children. Blessings all! Stephanie Lafond 🇨🇦

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I love learning from other’s failures.
It eases the anxiety of failure.

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Samantha Bee podcast interview

Did anyone else see the irony about listening to David describe in detail his non obsession for food and how he consumes food and thinks of food as fuel and energy only. And then on his commercial break breaks into a monotone advertisement for some food delivery service. Not believable. Probably should find different advertisers…. Just saying

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