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Join former Psychotherapist, Dr. Shyamala as we explore how the fusion of Emotional Intelligence and Human Design allows us to access the life, business and relationships we TRULY desire.

Success by Design Dr. Shyamala Kiru

    • Business
    • 4.8 • 22 Ratings

Join former Psychotherapist, Dr. Shyamala as we explore how the fusion of Emotional Intelligence and Human Design allows us to access the life, business and relationships we TRULY desire.

    How Self Development Causes Self Harm

    How Self Development Causes Self Harm

    Okay. So this episode did not go as planned. Not that there even was a plan to begin with… I start talking about the content below, and end up getting emotional by sharing my truth and confrontation about my own experience and feeling like a hypocrite. 
    Here are some of the details of the conversation: 
    The self development industry was valued at just over $35 million in 2020. It is projected to reach over 51.6 million by 2028. While there can be some benefits of accessing resources that can improve our quality of life, I also see a significant rise in anxiety and harm to the self image. With the rise of the online Success Guru’s comes the fall of differentiated expressions of what success, satisfaction, peace and surprise actually look like in the lives of everyday people.
    In today’s episode, I use my External Vision and Personal View to share my perspective on an industry that I believe is doing more harm than good. This episode would not be complete without a dash of Judgement Sense dancing with my own grappling of the hypocrisy that is inherent in my 6th line personality. In a nutshell, I was one of these so-called Success Guru’s and I’m ready to tell the story of my experience. 
    I hope you enjoy my musings :)
    If you want to deepen this conversation with me on a personal level, you can invite my guidance by finding me at the following places:
    The EQ Code website: theeqcode.com 
    Connect with me on Instagram: @iam.drshyam

    • 32 min
    Influenced: My experience with Pop HD

    Influenced: My experience with Pop HD

    This episode is a personal conversation about my experience with Pop HD. 
    We each come to Design in our own unique way. My first exposure to this system was through an online influencer which led me to consume the system in a highly popularized (and watered down) way. 
    I share from my Personal View, what it was like for me to realize that what I had been sold was not the HD system in its entirety, but a modified version. I also share my journey of coming into Source based material and how that has deepened my love for the science of Human Design. 
    If you want to deepen this conversation with me on a personal level, you can invite my guidance by finding me at the following places:
    The EQ Code website: theeqcode.com 
    Connect with me on Instagram: @iam.drshyam

    • 45 min
    The Shame + Fear of Needing Time to Make Decisions

    The Shame + Fear of Needing Time to Make Decisions

    It can feel incredibly vulnerable to require time to make decisions. For me, I often have to work through feelings of guilt around it, especially when it comes to the decisions I have to make within my business.
    Many of us are asked to make quick decisions on a daily basis, and the truth is that MOST of the Authorities (according to Human Design) are simply NOT designed to make fast decisions.
    Because of this, feelings of shame and fear come up due to conditioning. 
    Inside today’s podcast episode we’re exploring these feelings around decision making, plus how you can use your Human Design to understand your own process.
    This conversation is about my personal process of decision making as an Emotional Authority Much of what I share can be applied to the other Authorities that require a longer process to make decisions, such as; Ego Authorities Self Projected Authorities Environmental Authorities Lunar Authorities  I touch on why a Splenic or Sacral Authority is designed to make decisions in the moment  I share how this has affected how I show up in business and my offers   
    If you want to deepen this conversation with me on a personal level, you can invite my guidance by finding me at the following places:
    The EQ Code website: theeqcode.com 
    Connect with me on Instagram: @iam.drshyam
    **Please note that the programs mentioned in this episode may not be offered currently

    • 26 min
    Your Personal Guideline for Decision Making

    Your Personal Guideline for Decision Making

    Inside this episode of the newly evolved podcast, Success by Design, we dive into a very important part of your HD chart…. your Decision Making Authority. 
    What is it and how can it help you?
    Let’s find out…
    Why is your HD Authority so important? What does the term “alignment” actually mean?  We each have an effortless path to success + satisfaction - inside this episode we will discuss how you can use HD to identify your path The deep integration of EQ + HD and how this can impact your life 10 fold If you want to deepen this conversation with me on a personal level, you can invite my guidance by finding me at the following places:
    The EQ Code website: theeqcode.com 
    Connect with me on Instagram: @iam.drshyam

    • 15 min
    Success By Design

    Success By Design

    I’m so excited to have this conversation with you today.
    My podcast has taken a massive shift and today we’re going to dive into what has led up to this point. 
    External shifts are often ignited first with internal shifts. Over the past 2 years I’ve made quantum leaps in my life and my business. 
    The first shift was when I retired as a psychotherapist roughly 2 years ago.
    As I found myself released from the context of traditional mental health and psychotherapy, I found myself desiring to get to know myself in new and fresh ways.
    This desire is what led me to Human Design. HD has completely transformed the trajectory of my work and my life and I feel so compelled to share it with you.
    This modality has now become infused into all of my programs, offers and coaching experiences, and now it’s become a permanent part of the podcast.
    So, today I’m introducing the next evolution of my podcast and its brand new name…Success By Design - where Human Design meets Emotional Intelligence. 
    Here’s what we dive in to inside this brand new episode:
    My desire for this lifetime…creating Success by Design How many episodes to expect each month Why choosing less episodes and letting go of a strict production schedule is in alignment with my design  Things will be changing inside my business and offerings to make it more accessible  The best way to work with me  
    If you want to deepen this conversation with me on a personal level, you can invite my guidance by finding me at the following places:
    The EQ Code website: theeqcode.com 
    Connect with me on Instagram: @iam.drshyam

    • 28 min
    Energy Entanglement + Your Audience

    Energy Entanglement + Your Audience

    As you may have noticed, we have introduced so many new offerings into the EQ Code community over the past few months. 
    We’re so grateful to have you here as we continue to evolve.
    Constant evolution has been a recurring theme for us this year, and today we’re diving into how one of the newest tools I use in my work (Human Design) can help you when it comes to your business + professional growth.
    In the episode we will dive into…
    The exciting new rhythm of the podcast How Human Design can be integrated with Emotional Intelligence + how the fusion of the two can bring you phenomenal results in all areas of your life The one thing that makes ALL the difference in your ability to receive the results you desire Energy Entanglement - what is it? And how it can help you show up with greater power, potency + magnetism?  
    If you want to deepen this conversation with me on a personal level, you can invite my guidance by finding me at the following places:
    The EQ Code website: theeqcode.com 
    Connect with me on Instagram: @iam.drshyam
     

    • 25 min

Customer Reviews

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22 Ratings

22 Ratings

Tanja Shaw ,

Well done!

I particularly love the insights to your personal life and how you and your clients have implemented your advice. Thanks for keeping it real!

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Confessions of an Ex-Therapist

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Best Relationship Advice Out There

Dr. Shyamala is vulnerable and real. She is my go to expert for all things relationships. I have been listening to her speak and to her content for years and value everything she puts out. This podcast adds to the value and I love listening each week.

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