The Best You've Ever Had Kelley Bode

Hi beautiful people!
 
Today’s episode is a bittersweet one, I’m announcing that I’m putting the podcast on hold. I’m not sure if it’s for now or if it’s forever but I know that it feels right to stop recording episodes for the time being.
 
I’ve loved having the podcast for the last couple years & I’m so grateful to all of you angels who listen weekly. I’ve loved hearing from you and even meeting some of you in person.
 
I’m turning my attention now to my membership called Womanhood. So if you still want to hear from me weekly on a more intimate level, I’m inviting you to join us over there! It’s a beautiful space to share, to connect, and to grow surrounded by women on a similar journey as you.
 
I’m so excited for this space. For more information, click the link below: 
https://www.kelleymbode.com/womanhood
 
Sending you all SO much love & I hope to see you inside the membership.
 
Xo,
Kelley
 

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Hey babes!
 
On this week's episode, we have another podcast coaching session! This time we are diving into some somatic healing and moving old stories and protective mechanisms that are stopping Claire from experiencing the love she wants.
 
This episode is a great listen for single women or for any woman who finds herself continually frustrated with men and shutting down around them.
 
Can’t wait to hear what you get out of listening to this one!
 
Sending lots of love,
Kelley
 

Today’s episode is all about Bali! Living here, traveling here, why I’m here & more!
 
I’ve gotten a lot of messages from you guys on social media asking about Bali so I decided to dedicate a podcast to it! Before I lived here, I met an American guy who lived here full time and I was PERPLEXED! So I really get that there can be a lot of questions about it.
 
Now that I’ve lived here for 3 years, it feels so normal! I love living in Bali & it comes with its downsides as well - like any place! 
 
I’m excited to hear what you get out of listening to this episode!
 
Xo, Kelley
 
P.S. If you want to be coached by me and ask questions about relationships & dating live: I have a Q+A session coming up next week!
 
Click the link below to check out all the details and sign up to join us:
 
https://www.kelleymbode.com/offers/sfzX3Qru/checkout
 

In a new series of coaching sessions, Kelley sits down with her first guest, Olivia, to discuss situationships, compromise, the process of connecting to your feminine energy and sticking with your truth. Olivia’s vulnerability in this episode is sure to help anyone in a similar situation who may be struggling to find a balance between compromising with a potential partner or staying true to yourself and following your desires. Join Kelley and Olivia in a raw discussion where they dissect Olivia’s feminine and masculine traits and where these may be causing a disconnect and gain clarity and new perspectives about herself and her relationship.
 
More from this episode:
Letting go of the super independent, self-sufficient role and embracing your feminine where you let your partner lead instead How to deal with confusing emotions like being totally uninterested in dating to becoming completely infatuated with someone How we should always strive to find happiness and joy within ourselves and not through our partners or other external sources How to navigate the common trap of looking for your partner to be in his masculine so you can then be in your feminine Practicing feeling your feelings through journaling, meditation, being present and more How being willing to get in touch with your desire and hold that vision is an important part of being in your feminine  
Connect with Kelley:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelley.bode.90 
Twitter: https://twitter.com/kelleybode

Nobody’s sexuality looks the same so why are we so afraid to talk about it? Sex and self-pleasure are those topics that everyone’s so curious about but no one wants to be the first to put themselves out there in case their experience isn’t like everyone else’s. But that’s just the thing, you define what your pleasure looks like, so you can never be wrong!
 
Today’s episode is honoring self-pleasure with Carli Jo Cabrera, a speaker, author and Self-Pleasure guide. Kelley and Carli leave no stone unturned in their discussion about how not talking about sex and self-pleasure can make addressing the hiccups in our sex lives that much more difficult. Carli also breaks down one of her self-pleasure sessions and shares how giving yourself permission in sex translates into permission everywhere.
 
More from today’s episode:
How Carli dealt with meeting the perfect person but having a sex life that just felt “off” The essential differences between masturbation and self-pleasure The importance of communication especially in those moments when we don’t feel 100% in the mood to have sex Sisterhood is so important! Having that one conversation with a friend about our sex lives can literally change our lives and perspectives on sex and pleasure How permission is at the root of a healthy, turned on relationship with our partners and ourselves  
Connect with Carli:
The Pleasure Portal: Free Community - carlijo.mn.co
The Membership, 1 month free - https://carlijo.mn.co/plans/265293?bundle_token=98c7ee45f6089fa0197a03868cf53c48&utm_source=manual
 
Connect with me:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelley.bode.90 
Twitter: https://twitter.com/kelleybode

You’re in for a treat today! I have an incredibly real and in-depth conversation with my guest Sam Orman where we dive deeper than ever into conversations about wanting acceptance from our parents, exploring the dynamics of feminine and masculine energy in gay relationships, and all the details from my shaved head butch lesbian days! Our conversation is a full and beautiful one where we exchange stories about coming out where Sam had to navigate a strong religious upbringing where purity was at the forefront of everything, and where I was still trying to find myself and battling external validation. Sam opens up about giving up his need for acceptance from his mom and finding something even more real underneath, all of our needs to be accepted by ourselves and to simply be happy.



What else we talk about:
How we can either choose to have a relationship with someone or we can be right How Sam’s Unification Church upbringing encouraged him not to demonize others for their views even if they directly contradict his being  How the path to acceptance is an attempt to change each other when we really should be striving to find what’s underneath that need for acceptance The power of giving up the need to be right (you’ll be surprised how much your relationships can shift after doing this!) Reminding ourselves that our power doesn’t live inside of someone else’s worthiness! Finding my natural state in femininity and my personal journey with my sexuality How Sam practices being led by desire on dates and candidly asks for what he wants (e.g. sitting in silence with someone)  How fluidity in relationships can teach us so much about love and ourselves


Connect with Sam:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/__samwise/
 
Connect with me:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelley.bode.90 
Twitter: https://twitter.com/kelleybode