16 min

#5 - The one thing all men want in the bedroom (and the 5 reasons you’re not able to give it to them‪)‬ The Pleasure Principles with Dr Jordin Wiggins

    • Self-Improvement

This episode is the first of a two-part series dedicated to answering the question: what do men and women want in the bedroom? The first episode covers what every man wants in the bedroom. And it’s not about pleasing your man. It’s about pleasing yourself. Discover:

How your pleasure is the secret to connecting with your partner in the bedroom.
The top five reasons you are not connecting with your partner in the bedroom:

You’re approaching sex like an item on your to-do list (obligatory sex is not exactly where the greatest sex happens).
You’re overwhelmed and stressed out and turning off the pleasure centers in your brain.
You’re chasing the goal or outcom️e, putting yourself in the opposite state of turned-on.
You feel guilt and shame (and why unpacking this can help you move into your turn-on).
You don’t know how to receive pleasure, and this is preventing you from reaching max turn-on.


In this episode, you’ll learn that prioritizing your pleasure and enjoying sensation can open the door to joy that you can share with your partner. And stay tuned for What Women Want in part two of the series, coming next week.

This episode is the first of a two-part series dedicated to answering the question: what do men and women want in the bedroom? The first episode covers what every man wants in the bedroom. And it’s not about pleasing your man. It’s about pleasing yourself. Discover:

How your pleasure is the secret to connecting with your partner in the bedroom.
The top five reasons you are not connecting with your partner in the bedroom:

You’re approaching sex like an item on your to-do list (obligatory sex is not exactly where the greatest sex happens).
You’re overwhelmed and stressed out and turning off the pleasure centers in your brain.
You’re chasing the goal or outcom️e, putting yourself in the opposite state of turned-on.
You feel guilt and shame (and why unpacking this can help you move into your turn-on).
You don’t know how to receive pleasure, and this is preventing you from reaching max turn-on.


In this episode, you’ll learn that prioritizing your pleasure and enjoying sensation can open the door to joy that you can share with your partner. And stay tuned for What Women Want in part two of the series, coming next week.

16 min