Birds and Bees Don't Fck Arielle Zadok
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- Salud y forma física
We can all agree that the whole birds and bees thing was a lie, right? When it comes to sex education in the 80s, 90s and even today, everyone gets a big ole F. And not the good kind. Join host Arielle Zadok as she talks to friends, comedians and sexuality professionals about what they did, and didn't learn about sex growing up.
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Prioritizing Sex (w/ Andrew Orolfo)
Andrew Orolfo is a stand up comedian, host of the meter gameshow and one of Just For Laughs New Faces of 2022 originally from Oakland, CA where they pretty much just watched a video from the 80s with dude stuff.
Some things we said...
"Sometimes you get close to death and then you come, you know what I mean?"
"We're so often rushing with ourselves, especially men and people with penises."
"Creating space for pleasure and exploration can enhance sexual experiences."
"There's so much more. There's so much available to us if we're willing to explore it."
"We need to normalize that conversation. Yeah. By the way, fucking everybody's got herpes and we just don't talk about it."
"We have to make it safe for men to learn these things without shame, without guilt."
... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!
Where to find Andrew:
Intsta: @andrew_orolfo
Website: https://www.andreworolfo.com/
OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/andrew_orolfo
Where to find Arielle:
Insta: @ariellezadok // @birdsandbeesdontfck
Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok
Website: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/
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You Can Be Smart AND Slutty (w/ Nicoletta Heidegger)
Nicoletta Heidegger is a therapist, sexologist, equine assisted psychotherapist, educator and host of the podcast ‘Sluts and Scholars’ originally from the porn capital of the world (aka the San Fernando Valley) where thankfully she grew up in a sex positive home that lead to being the sexy powerhouse that she is today!
Some things we said...
“We all have the capacity to be woo girls”
"The San Fernando Valley: From Porn Capital to Podcast"
“So like a pole at the park, like a bed post, a lamp post, sofa arm, you know, like things that were things that were long and hard that I could rub up against.”
"Breaking Down Sexual Shame and Judgment"
“I had a curious mind about it and just an active imagination. I had a lot of fantasies when I was younger and self-pleasure and fantasizing became a big part of my young life.”
"The Lack of Sexuality Education for Medical Professionals"
"I don't know, it's just like dare to resist drugs and yeah. Let's look at it."
"And so she was the one that was like, yeah, we should be teaching our kids about masturbation. It's a natural part of having a body and we should be teaching kids about that."
... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!
Where to find Nicoletta:
Intsta: @slutsandscholars
Podcast: https://www.slutsandscholars.com/
Website: https://www.nicolettavheidegger.com/
Where to find Arielle:
Insta: @ariellezadok // @birdsandbeesdontfck
Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok
Website: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/
K, love you, byeeeee -
Kinky Education (w/ Nathan Hammerle)
Nathan Hammerle is a sexual wellness educator and novelty specialist from central Ohio where the older kids faked them out and gave all the younger kids anxiety about the sex ed videos they had to watch about puberty.
Some things we said...
"Sex is messy and weird and we're gonna fuck up and just like, keep going."
"Safety is the foundation of any successful kink scene."
"How can we get more creative in bed?"
"I loved doing...that's how I sort of transitioned from history teaching into sexual wellness."
"There's room for everyone, but there's a responsibility...that everybody does their homework in this space."
"Electro play is fun...it's not all about pain."
... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!
LA Couples Intimacy Workshop with Arielle on 5/15: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/couplesintimacy
LA Sensual Movement Soundbath with Arielle & Sacred Sounds by Devon on 5/22: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/soundbath
Where to find Nathan:
Intsta: @theshadesofnate
Where to find Arielle:
Insta: @ariellezadok & @birdsandbeesdontfck
Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok
K, love you, byeeeee -
Sexy Yentas (w/ Raye Schiller)
Raye Schiller is a comedian, screenwriter and professional yenta originally from Queens, NY where they were raised as an Orthodox Jew. Yes, that means we are two Jews from New York which is obviously why this is the sexy yenta episode!
Some things we said...
"We're Jews. We have our own traumas."
"The gender thing was the reason I left. I couldn't exist in that world where I was a second class citizen."
"Relenting is not consenting. Just remember that. If you learn anything today, learn that relenting is not consenting."
"When you're in a subspace, you are, you're present, but you're like shut down, not shut. I don't want to use the language shut down, but you're so, you're like in a trance."
... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!
LA Couples Intimacy Workshop with Arielle on 5/15: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/couplesintimacy
Where to find Raye:
Intsta: @rayeschiller TikTok: @rayeschiller https://www.rayeschiller.com/ Where to find Arielle:
Insta: @ariellezadok Freebie! https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/ Be my Daddy K, love you, byeeeee -
Sex Positive Moms (w/ Dr. Alix Agar)
Dr. Alix Agar is a Clinical Sexologist and one of LA’s top Sex Therapists originally from Oakville Ontario where her mom was the cool mom to create safe spaces for her, and all her friends. A literal hero.
In this episode we talk about:
02:06 Early Experiences as a Dancer 03:34 Bonding Experiences through Travel 04:04 Exploring Power Dynamics and Relationships Working On a Cruise Ship 05:55 Open Communication and Supportive Parenting 09:16 The Role of Parents in Sex Education 13:24 The Power of Self-Disclosure in Therapy 21:32 Disarming Clients and Normalizing Experiences 23:00 Spoiler… Therapists Hav Biases! 26:23 Harm Reduction!! 31:23 Lack of Sex Education in Therapy Programs 39:39 Defining Boundaries and Scope of Practice 41:33 You Gotta Like Your Therapist! 44:15 Sex and Politics - They’re unfortunately intertwined! 45:37 Religion's Impact on Sexuality 47:59 The Cruelty of Sex Education 51:36 The Importance of Embracing Childhood Curiosity 59:40 Find Your Community and Get Support You can find Dr. Alix on Instagram at @dralixagar and her website https://dralixagar.com/
Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
LOS ANGELES: Join me on Wednesday May 15th for a Couples Intimacy Workshop at Zula Den where we'll be exploring arousal, gaining practical sexy communication tools and embaring on a journey of sensory exploration designed to ignite passion and deepen connection. Learn more at: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/couplesintimacy
Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
K, love you, byeeeeee -
Strip Your Shame Away (w/ Miss Spent Youth)
Miss Spent Youth is a Los Angeles based burlesque performer, producer, teacher and pin up princess originally from North Carolina where the girls were afraid to swim on their periods!
In this episode we talk about burlesque, empowerment, creativity, body positivity, power dynamics, body confidence, sexuality, burlesque, sex education, circumcision, shame, open-mindedness, acceptance and SO much more!
You can find Miss Spent Youth on Instagram at @ms.spentyouth and her website, https://www.losangelesburlesque.com/
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Los Angeles! If you’re a femme looking to build confidence, heal your relationship to your body and tap into your sensuality, join me THIS Sunday April 28th for an Immersive Sensual Empowerment & Pole Dance workshop in Downtown LA. Details & registration:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/immersive-sensual-empowerment-pole-dance-workshop-beginner-friendly-registration-875746440177?aff=ebdsoporgprofile
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Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
K, love you, byeeeeee