The Infinite Potential of Being Human Nicky Clinch

Last week, I spoke about healing the Mother wound and the impact that our relationship with Mother has on our sense of self, on our relationship with our own bodies, with the planet, with intimacy and with each other. This week, I am going to dive into healing the Father wound, the masculine side of our family field. We always have some kind of relationship with Father. Even if Father is absent, if Father was never there, we have a relationship with him, and it manifests in how we get a sense of ourselves. 

Because it’s really important and powerful to gain more consciousness on what we absorbed and inherited from our family field, from these two mega poles that have shaped who we think we are. The exploration of the Mother and the Father wound is not for our physical parents, even though they also benefit from it. It’s for us, for our own peace and freedom, and for our own ability  to be authentic and true to who we really are. So let’s dive in. 

What is Covered: 
-When in childhood we start to develop the relationship with Father
-How it’s possible to have a relationship with an absent Father
-Two ways in which the relationship with Father shows in our life
-How an unhealed Father wound shows up in our relationships with the masculine 
-What areas of our life and identity are affected by the relationship with Father
-Why some men try hard to not be their fathers and why it’s harmful to them
-How to begin the process of healing the Father wound 

Resources: 
-034 Healing the Mother Wound https://player.captivate.fm/episode/73727d8f-3fd5-4bf1-98ac-6f1e15e6225a 
-028 Money, Intimacy and Maturation https://player.captivate.fm/episode/f71bc423-ebba-4f9c-8398-9f40c527a390 
-020 Rage: Unpacking and Alchemising Our Rage https://player.captivate.fm/episode/55e5e406-6c1e-48bb-86f6-a5600dc6b275 
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Everything in human life begins with Mother. Mother is the core, the root, the creation, the entry point to our relationship with the 3D world, with body, with self and with being a human being. Our relationship with Mother is the most fundamental relationship that we could ever have at all. Yet I haven't yet met or worked with a single human being that doesn't have some unresolved pain around this topic.
 
So today's episode is on healing the Mother wound - healing our relationship that is incomplete and un-whole with Mother. This is a big and challenging topic, but it is also the gateway to extraordinary healing and our deepest maturation. 

What is Covered: 
-Why it’s essential to complete our relationship with Mother 
-How our relationship with Mother affects our sense of being in this world
-The impact of Mother on our sense of embodiment and the relationship to our physical body and the planet
-The difference between “mother” and “Mother”
-How our unresolved Mother wound manifests in our other relationships
-Gaining more power, freedom and consciousness through healing the Mother wound
-Journaling exercise to explore your relationship with mother

Resources: 
-016 The Power of Completion https://player.captivate.fm/episode/1c76f795-dd65-4076-bcdc-6bebfdd264dd 
-003 The Vicious Circle of Human Condition https://player.captivate.fm/episode/8e8ad72d-35e6-43de-ba91-b2ae583b097a 
-008 Radical Ownership and Responsibility https://player.captivate.fm/episode/f7178d89-ecdb-42ab-98ed-b20900df1769   
-Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/
-Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/ 
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Burnout is just rampant on our planet today. Shockingly, the current statistics for burnout show that the biggest percentage of the population suffering from this are the youngest generation, the Gen Zs. Burnout is a huge issue in society and it is also increasingly correlated with depression. 
Why is it, when there is more content than ever before in history, offering the answers to our problems such as anxiety and depression, that those problems are actually getting worse? It doesn't logically make sense, but it’s happening. So in this episode, I want to explore what burnout actually is, the blind spots that are driving the roots to burnout, and what is happening to our younger generations.

What is Covered: 
-The prevalence of burnout in today’s world 
-What kind of behaviour burnout is
-The roots of burnout 
-Childhood experiences that can lead to a sense of unsafety and dissatisfaction
-Looking at burnout from an ontological perspective
-How to start changing how you see yourself and your identity
-What problem are you trying to solve by burning out?

Resources: 
-Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/
-Ep 015: Dissolving Time: Creating Beyond Time and Identity https://player.captivate.fm/episode/5e905efe-4027-45e3-827f-74dbf418ab8e 
-Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/ 
-Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/ 
-Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation 
-Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender

This week I want to focus on the BodyMind experience of confusion. Confusion is when you really don't know something, but your mind is telling you that you should.
So why do we freeze from this experience that grips us? What is the root to this pattern? How may it be shaping who you think you are as your identity and your behaviour? And how do you begin to outgrow and become free of it? 
In this episode, I’m going to dive into this common human experience, how it’s connected with your childhood and past trauma, and how you can gain power over confusion. 

What is Covered: 
-What happens in your BodyMind when you are gripped by confusion
-How confusion drives your behaviour and impacts your life
-The power of confusion vs. the power of being with confusion 
-How children experience the world and how confusion gets created in childhood
-How to start overcoming confusion and allowing yourself to now know
-A journaling exercise to bring more consciousness into the experience of confusion
Resources:
-Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/ 
-Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/ 
-Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/ 
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Why is it that when we change our partners, we end up somehow with the same partner in a different outfit? Why is it, that even when we've done a lot of work on ourselves, it does not seem to be enough to create a fundamental shift in how we experience love, intimacy, and ourselves in a relationship? 
It seems like all the understanding of our childhood trauma and our relational patterns, all the information about attachment theories and human design that we have is not giving us the peace, freedom and maturity to have a nourishing and fulfilling relationship that we are longing for. 
So in this episode, we’re going to dive into this topic and look more deeply at what it is that is running the show in our relationships, and how we can begin to shift it for good. 

What is Covered: 
-Why relationships are so important for our spiritual evolution
-What kind of patterns keep repeating in our relationship
-How childhood relationships shape adult relationships and identity
-Why understanding alone is not sufficient to create fundamental shifts in our relationships
-The paradox of trying to solve past problems in current relationships
-How to take ownership of relationship patterns in order to begin to shift them
-Why we need to learn to be together in relationships and in the society as a whole
-A journaling exercise to examine how you experience yourself in a relationship 

Resources:
-Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/
-Episode 18 What Shapes Our Relationship with Intimacy? https://player.captivate.fm/episode/08ea66b9-6013-46a1-a8d2-33d859558f97 
-Episode 019 What is a Relationship? https://player.captivate.fm/episode/760a96e3-b6b3-4540-ad7a-8ceb5b271574 
-Episode 28 Money, Intimacy and Maturation https://player.captivate.fm/episode/f71bc423-ebba-4f9c-8398-9f40c527a390 
-Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/ 
-Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/ 
-Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation 
-Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender

Why is it that we sabotage ourselves in our lives, even though we know what's better for us?
Unfortunately, most of us are stuck in a vicious cycle of self-sabotage. The more we go for what we really want, the more the mind activates survival mechanisms that prevent us from being successful. In this episode, I’ll talk about that difference between survival and living, and I’ll also share why people will always have something that’s preventing them from receiving the things they long for.

What You’ll Learn:
-What is self-sabotage?
-Why we sabotage ourselves
-The difference between survival and living 
-The childhood trauma that’s keeping you stuck
-What gives you the perception of who you are
-Why survival has nothing to do with living
-How to start loving your life
-The root cause of the sabotaging behaviour that’s keeping you stuck
-Understand that the human mind is not personal
-How to shift the relationship you have with self-sabotage
-Ways to bring consciousness to your self-sabotaging behaviour

Resources:
-Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/
-Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/ 
-Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/ 
-Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation 
-Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender