Helping Teens Make New Friends The Homeschool Highschool Podcast
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This week on Homeschool Highschool Podcast: Helping Teens Make New Friends. Give your high schoolers the networking skills that will help them now and in adulthood.
Helping Teens Make New Friends
Delivered by 7SistersHomeschool’s very own licensed professional counselor, Vicki is here to talk about one of her most favorite topics: helping teens make new friends. In Vicki’s other hat, besides having raised her kids through the homeschooling process, she’s worked with all kinds of teens on how to make new friends. No matter where you are in life, there are times where you need a new set of friends, whether that’s moving to a new area, joining a new church or breaking up with a homeschool co-op group. You’ll learn all the pointers you need to know in these tried and true tips!
Share Basic Life Skills
First, know that helping teens make new friends doesn't mean you make the friends for your homeschool high schoolers. We can't do this for our teens, but we can give them the skills needed to pursue friendships, for making those friends themselves, and for creating their own network. This is a skill that, if learned now, can apply to the rest of their lives, well into their careers.
Also, work with your teens on basic life skills so they can have the tools already in their toolbox to use. And they need to know they can choose to use these or they can choose not to use these tools. It's their choice. As long as teens feel like they have a choice in something, they will very often use those skills.
Even shy teens can learn skills like these to build their confidence.
Find New Things To Try Locally
When your teen finds some things to try, this doesn't mean it's something that they are already passionate about, nor is this necessarily something they want to do. They just need to try some new things. It's one of the most important things we can do for learning and practicing skills and actually discovering some things that we don't know whether we like or not until we try it.
Local Support Groups
If you're new to an area, or you’re beginning your homeschool journey brand new, look around your local area and start simple. Find some things that have other teens involved. For instance, look to see if there is a local homeschool support group or other organization. That is a good place to start looking, and then see if they have a youth group. Check out their website, or see if they have an online schedule or calendar to see what is happening.
Local Classes
If there's not a support group with just some youth activities, are there some classes that they can take locally? Regardless if they need the class or not, enroll your teen in an umbrella school class or two at a homeschool umbrella school or someplace where there's group learning.
Church Youth Groups and Service Organizations
For teens, church youth groups and church missions trips are another way to be around other teens doing something.
Service organizations for teens that are out in the community, such as library volunteers or food bank volunteers. See what different things are available where there are groups of teens going out and/or volunteering.
This week on Homeschool Highschool Podcast: Helping Teens Make New Friends. Give your high schoolers the networking skills that will help them now and in adulthood.
Helping Teens Make New Friends
Delivered by 7SistersHomeschool’s very own licensed professional counselor, Vicki is here to talk about one of her most favorite topics: helping teens make new friends. In Vicki’s other hat, besides having raised her kids through the homeschooling process, she’s worked with all kinds of teens on how to make new friends. No matter where you are in life, there are times where you need a new set of friends, whether that’s moving to a new area, joining a new church or breaking up with a homeschool co-op group. You’ll learn all the pointers you need to know in these tried and true tips!
Share Basic Life Skills
First, know that helping teens make new friends doesn't mean you make the friends for your homeschool high schoolers. We can't do this for our teens, but we can give them the skills needed to pursue friendships, for making those friends themselves, and for creating their own network. This is a skill that, if learned now, can apply to the rest of their lives, well into their careers.
Also, work with your teens on basic life skills so they can have the tools already in their toolbox to use. And they need to know they can choose to use these or they can choose not to use these tools. It's their choice. As long as teens feel like they have a choice in something, they will very often use those skills.
Even shy teens can learn skills like these to build their confidence.
Find New Things To Try Locally
When your teen finds some things to try, this doesn't mean it's something that they are already passionate about, nor is this necessarily something they want to do. They just need to try some new things. It's one of the most important things we can do for learning and practicing skills and actually discovering some things that we don't know whether we like or not until we try it.
Local Support Groups
If you're new to an area, or you’re beginning your homeschool journey brand new, look around your local area and start simple. Find some things that have other teens involved. For instance, look to see if there is a local homeschool support group or other organization. That is a good place to start looking, and then see if they have a youth group. Check out their website, or see if they have an online schedule or calendar to see what is happening.
Local Classes
If there's not a support group with just some youth activities, are there some classes that they can take locally? Regardless if they need the class or not, enroll your teen in an umbrella school class or two at a homeschool umbrella school or someplace where there's group learning.
Church Youth Groups and Service Organizations
For teens, church youth groups and church missions trips are another way to be around other teens doing something.
Service organizations for teens that are out in the community, such as library volunteers or food bank volunteers. See what different things are available where there are groups of teens going out and/or volunteering.
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