Self-Love Served Raw Love Sujeiry

In this Self Love Served Raw podcast episode, I discuss manifesting love, and how to use reflection and not to dwell. How do we start to manifest love while still loving ourselves?


Start by reflecting on your relationship patterns. Our relationship patterns stem from our self-concept and how we identify ourselves in love and relationships (your "I am" statements about yourself.)
Remember not to dwell on the past, what happened, what someone "did" you to, or circumstances, even if it's current circumstances.
Be honest with yourself about how you show up, what you expect in relationships, and who you are ("I am") regarding relationships and love.
Create "I am" statements that identify with the new you about love and relationships and dwell on those thoughts!



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Are you doing self love wrong?

I asked myself this question recently. As someone who has a self love podcast and often admitted to being on a long, seemingly never-ending, self love journey, I've realized that continuously working on self love keeps you stuck. If you're constantly working on yourself, learning to love yourself, and trying to evolve, when are you living? When are you just being and embracing who you are, warts and all?



It's time to think about self love differently. Instead of looking at it as a process to perfection, decide to love yourself.

I am enough. You are enough. We do not have to continue to fix ourselves to live, love, and feel that we are loved.

If you've been on a self love journey, or even a healing journey, and want to stop striving for perfection, this is the podcast for you. Decide that you love yourself. Decide that there is nothing to fix. Decide that you are limitless. Embody this new identity. Love yourself from a limitless place. Because self love is about accepting your authentic self right now, not about loving who you are striving to become.


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If you struggle with people pleasing, you must learn to say no. Luckily, I have self-love tips in this podcast episode. Press play to get my three steps and get to the bottom of your people pleasing. Learn how to flip it and only say yes to the things, people, and circumstances that align with you. 

Mentioned Podcasts

Ep #21: If you Made a Mistake Do This

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It's Mercury Retrograde time and I've learned some lessons in self-love during this time of revising. I have done this (and you can too!) by reflecting on what makes me happy (hobbies, passion projects, friendships, and relationships) and deciding to revisit said things and people in hopes to reignite that spark. 

The trick to Mercury Retrograde (and learning these lessons in self-love during this time) is to bring back what is for our highest good and leave the rest behind. For me, that is writing. I abandoned it months ago (and I have time and time again) because I don't get quick enough results for writing on my blog (results = money!). But guess what? Mercury Retrograde reminded me that I am damn good at it and that I also love it and, in turn, love myself more when I write. It brings me joy and fills me with confidence. 

So, in this episode, I ask you, what do you have to eliminate from your life that is a pattern? What do you need to revive? What do you need to do again but differently? 

I am doing this writing thang differently this time - with no pressure! I am giving myself a lot more grace and space to experiment with all the genres that I love. 

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Listen, subscribe, and rate the podcast (5 stars, please!). You can also support my work by grabbing a copy of Love Trips, my first self-published book. It's the Latina Sex and the City - only with Catholic guilt.

Connect with me via Instagram. If you have any questions or need a pep talk from yours truly, email me at sujeiry@lovesujeiry.com.


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Stop! Don't make a desperate decision! When we're desperate we make decisions from a fearful place. When we're desperate we ignore our intuition and every fiber of our being when it yells, "DON'T DO IT!" When we're desperate we continue toxic patterns because, although they're often self-destructive, they also feel safe. (What we know often does.)

So, here's to DECIDING based on...

Faith. Self-awareness. Intuition. Experience. Self-love. 

Don't forget to get my FREE self-love affirmations on LoveSujeiry.com! Click here or go directly to this link: https://lovesujeiry.com/free-self-love-affirmations

Mentioned Podcasts

Ep #8: Make It Happen: The Best Plan B Career in the Meantime

Listen, subscribe, and rate the podcast (5 stars, please!). You can also support my work by grabbing a copy of Love Trips, my first self-published book. It's the Latina Sex and the City - only with Catholic guilt.

Connect with me via Instagram. If you have any questions or need a pep talk from yours truly, email me at sujeiry@lovesujeiry.com.


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What do you do when you make mistakes? Do you beat yourself up emotionally? Are you extremely hard on yourself? Or do you show yourself any grace? Today's podcast is a MUST listen if you do or feel this way after you made a mistake. In fact, instead of seeing something you did as a mistake, I challenge you to see it as a stepping stone. 

I go into what I mean in this podcast as I share a recent stepping stone (mistake) in my life and how I learned from it, moved on from it, and feel damn good about it despite how crazy it all looked! 

Don't forget to get my FREE self-love affirmations on LoveSujeiry.com! Click here or go directly to this link: https://lovesujeiry.com/free-self-love-affirmations

Related Podcasts

Ep #10: Aligning Words w/ Thoughts for Manifestation

Listen, subscribe, and rate the podcast (5 stars, please!). You can also support my work by grabbing a copy of Love Trips, my first self-published book. It's the Latina Sex and the City - only with Catholic guilt.

Connect with me via my personal newsletter and YouTube. If you have any questions or need a pep talk from yours truly, email me at sujeiry@lovesujeiry.com.




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