Sex and the Diversity Divya

Hi Ya'll, another SOLO episode. This is a short one, and is going to be a storytelling episode featuring my most embarassing date. Trust me it's super cringeworthy embarrassing and I'm sure I'm going to regret sharing (so definitely make sure to listen!) 

Neeraja is back for an open and honest talk about sex toys where we talk about favorite toys with personal reviews. We first talk about glass dildos and then talk about vibrators, and compare the two. We then talked about masturbation, how we discovered pleasuring ourselves, and our feelings during our first time exploring our bodies. We talked about the shame and stigma surrounding sex we developed growing up in an Indian household. Neeraja tells a story of her first vibrator and the first sex toy she received from her boyfriend. I talk about my super strict and sheltered upbringing, and how many parents made me fear sex and what that impact had on my sexual exploration. Then I talked about how I tried to educate myself about sex, and how I then became addicted to erotica. We talk about how the Indian community is so small and there was no true outlet to ask questions about sex or have open, honest conversations. Then we speculate reasons why our parents and other Indian parents are so repressed and sex-negative and why sex is considered so taboo. We move on to talk about the reasons why some people are more sexual than others. We then talk about the negative effect masturbation has on intimacy. 

Today’s episode features my friend Neelima, a creative based in Brooklyn. We have a totally unfiltered conversation about big dicks and answer the question if size really does matter. Then she talks about the time she dipped her toe (literally) in sex work, and we talk about the strangest fetishes and things guys have asked for during sex. I tell the story about the guy I dated with a tickle fetish. Finally, I talk about the time I wandered into a sex party. 

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This episode is a 100% solo episode, and will also be a personal storytelling episode (which honestly speaking are the hardest to record !!).  I decided to share the very personal and extremely embarrassing time I attempted to hook up with someone from work. Find out what happened when what could have been a sexy situation turned hilariously south.  Hopefully, my cringeworthy moment will at least be entertaining to you! 

In this Episode meet my friend Lily. Lily, like millions of people, was looking to fall in love when she signed up for an online dating website. She matched with Ron, a handsome lawyer who quickly swept her off her feet. Little did she know that Ron would ruin her life.

She will detail how her peaceful life became a nightmare no person ever wants to go through. She talks about how she found out her husband was cheating on her throughout the relationship and conned her out of over $80,000.  We also talk about their dysfunctional sex life. 

During the marriage, she also faced the loss of her son, and we chat about the role of grief during sex, and how grief affects relationships. Finally, she shares tips to make sure this never happens to you, how to find the inner strength to persevere through trauma, and how to protect yourself from being taken advantage of.

This personal episode is a crazy true story of the time I find out I was part of an Indian sex harem with my childhood friend Kavya. 
Listen as I sit down with Kavya, and we talk about EVERYTHING. We talk about how we met the guy we were involved with,  the taboo wild sex we had with him,  and what happened when we found out about each other and teamed up to confront the man. Finally, we talk about what we learned, red flags to look out for, and important tips to make sure this doesn't happen to you.