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HOW TO BUILD CONFIDENCE AND SELF ESTEEM-Learn more about How to build your self confidence at:
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HOW TO BUILD CONFIDENCE AND SELF ESTEEM

i have been getting email saying “Randy i get what your saying, and I'm doing what you are telling me to do, but i still feel i am not good enough”. I want to let you know that i understand how you feel and i empathize with you. In my experiences i have learned that our lack of self confidence comes from peoples opinions and comments about our selves.

in order for us to get passed this problem in our lives, we must first understand our value, our self worth, and only then can we use that understanding to leverage us into self confidence.

God created you

I want you to now that God created you, and that in it self is a blessing. God is the all mighty perfect and creator of the universe. He does not make mistakes, and everything that he creates is a masterpiece. You are one of Gods Masterpieces, you were created from greatness. You have the seed of the almighty inside of you. Your potential is unmatched by anything else in this world.

2. The Seed of greatness is inside you

When you have inspirations of doing something great that is the Seed of god inside of you trying to grow. Do not let your lack of self belief story you from gods best. If you don't get the job that you wanted to get, realize that is god saying i have a better opportunity in the near future. if the Girl/ Guy you like does not like you back in only means that god has the person of your dreams coming soon. Remember if someone does not see your value it simply means that they are not suppose to be in your life, let it go and stay in faith that the right person and job is on its way.


To conclude, self confidence is going to come once you understand that you are a masterpiece and everything about you is perfect, because you were created by the almighty perfect God. Therefore; you have the seed of greatness inside you. Stay in a state of faith and expectancy that things will work out in your favor. When things don't go your ways its because there is a better opportunity ahead of you, its just a matter time.

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BUILDING CONFIDENCE: DEALING WITH ADVERSITY AND HARD TIMES

HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL AND GAIN CONFIDENCE, 2 PRINCIPLES TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE-Learn more about How to build your self confidence at:
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HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL AND GAIN CONFIDENCE, 2 PRINCIPLES TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE

Hey guys in this video I am going to share with you 2 principles that I used to go from a mediocrity lifestyle to becoming a very successful entrepreneur. In my youth I was destined for failure, being born in the wrong part of town and making wrong choices landed me in jail on multiple occasion. Also I dropped out of high school at the age of 15 on my birthday. How did I go from that into becoming a successful entrepreneur, General Manager of a fitness club, and graduating from college with honors? I did it with 2 principles that if you apply to your life you to can achieve anything in your life.

Principle #1- Stop hanging out with the wrong crowd. All the friends that I had while growing up were up to no good. If I was ever to change my life I knew that I must get away from them. It is no secret and I know you heard it before but unless you get away from the wrong people you can never be successful.

Principle #2- pick one career path and stick to it. All throughout my life I have had tons of jobs. Never staying in one fields for longer then a couple of months I never got good at anything, and I did not develop any skills. You must choose one field or passion and stick to it for years. Only than will you develop skills that if practiced long enough will make you a master.

To wrap it up; Remember that unless you change your friends you can never change your life. You are who you hangout with, therefore if you want to change your life you must change you friends. There is no way around it, surround yourself with greatness and you too will be great. Find you passion or career of interest and stick to it for years, and you will develop the skills necessary to make a lot of money. Success be with you my friend, and be safe.


HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL AND GAIN CONFIDENCE, 2 PRINCIPLES TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE

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HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR, AND BUILD CONFIDENCE AT THE SAME TIME-Learn more about How to build your self confidence at:

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HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR, AND BUILD CONFIDENCE AT THE SAME TIME

In our journey to build self-confidence we will come across situations that we do not feel confortable in. You will encounter a situation where you are faced with fear and anxiety. In this video I will show you 3 tips you can do to help you overcome fear. Fear is a natural reaction in our body better known as fight or flight response by our bodies. The purpose of this fear is to keep you safe from harm or embarrassment. When the feeling of fear comes over you, understand that this is your body trying to get you out of a bad situation. With the understanding that fight or flight is just here to protect you lets talk about some ways we can overcome them.

1. Power stance- a power stance is when you take the body stance of a super hero like Superman for example, arms at your waist and chest popping out. When we take a power stance we begin to think power thoughts, this has been proven in many researched experiments.
2. Start small- sometime we think that we must go right into the biggest obstacle head on. In my experience it is a lot easier to take baby steps before leaping into the big thing you are trying to do.
3. Feel the fear and do it anyways- there is no way around it no matter how hard you try fear is inevitable, but remember it is our friend. Fear is here to keep you safe from harm, so lets use it to our advantage. When you come across that situation like talking in a social setting you will be told by your body to not do it, so what you is you feel that fear and then you just do it anyway. That simple.

To recap, whenever faced with a difficult situation where fear takes over your body, take a power pose prior to the doing the action, start small, and when you feel the fear do it anyways.

HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR, AND BUILD CONFIDENCE AT THE SAME TIME

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HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU

1.Don't criticize, condemn or complain- people do not like to be criticized, so this is something we want to avoid at all cost. People are going to have their own opinions, and you don’t have to agree but what you can do is not criticize. Also nobody likes a complainer, I was told by my boss one time that half the people you complain to don’t care about what you are saying and the other half are glad is you and not them.

2.Give honest, sincere appreciation- people are thirsty for appreciation and by nature we as human being are not appreciative. Go out of your way to give a sincere appreciation to someone that does something nice for you, it will make his or her day.

3.Become genuinely interested in other people- one great way to make people like you is to become interested in what they are talking about. Even if you don’t have knowledge on the subject, become interested in what they have to say and they will love you for it.

4.Smile- when we smile we show that we are friendly, likeable, and approachable. Smiling also expresses that you are confident in your self.

5.use peoples names- when you interact with people make it a habit to call them by their first name. The more names you can remember the more likable you will become.

6.Be a good listener- do less talking and more listening. A great way to do this is to ask questions, and become interested in the person answers.

7.Talk of the other person's interest- If you know the person is interested in a certain topic, ask them questions about it. People love to talk about themselves and things that they are interested in.

8.Make the other person feel important- when you make people feel important they are going to have you around. People like positivity, and if all you do is complement and make others feel good they are going to want you around.

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1. WHEN IN DOUBT, ACT!- after 100 of studies and interviews, nothing builds confidence like taking action, especially when the action involves risk and failure. I want to be completely honest when I say that it is never going to feel right, when you are in a social setting and you are asked to speak it is never easy. Furthermore, when you feel like raising your hand and speaking up do not let your fears stop you, because it is at that moment that you move one step closer to mastering your emotions.

2. VISUALIZE SUCCESS- when we think of what could go wrong we emotionalize that event and our body follows. You must envision yourself having a great time and being exactly the way you want it to be (only humans can do this). I think back on my experience when I have gone out to night clubs part of my routine before I walk in is to listen to a song that I really like in the car, and while the song is playing I close my eyes and visualize my self having a great time, I see people approaching me and being friendly. This is a technique that most athletes use before they go out into the field. It has been proven to work.

3. Kill the negative talk- cant shut it off completely, but you can wrestle them down with logic and alternatives. When your mind start to say negative thing you should yell STOP! And then ask your self a rational question like is what I’m thinking about real or not? Also you can just say something positive to yourself instead. Very powerful way to shut off that little voice inside of your head.

4. Repeat, repeat, repeats- Confidence is a skill, and skills are only developed through practice and repetition. You must practice being social every single day, say hello to everyone you come in contact with and have conversations with as many people as possible. So that little by little you begin to develop more self-confidence.

5. Praise progress- Anytime you do something social or say hi to someone give your self pa complement. Tell yourself positive things every time you do something social. You must become your biggest cheerleader, even if that sounds funny now, it is very powerful.