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The Place We Find Ourselves podcast features private practice therapist Adam Young (LCSW, MDiv) and interview guests as they discuss all things related to story, trauma, attachment, and interpersonal neurobiology. Listen in as Adam unpacks how trauma and abuse impact the heart and mind, as well as how to navigate the path toward healing, wholeness, and restoration. Interview episodes give you a sacred glimpse into the real-life stories of guests who have engaged their own experiences of trauma and abuse. Drawing from the work of neuroscientists such as Allan Schore, Dan Siegel, and Bessel van der Kolk, as well as Christian thought leaders Dan Allender and John Eldredge, this podcast will equip and inspire you to engage your own stories of harm in deep, transformative ways.

The Place We Find Ourselve‪s‬ Adam Young | LCSW, MDiv

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The Place We Find Ourselves podcast features private practice therapist Adam Young (LCSW, MDiv) and interview guests as they discuss all things related to story, trauma, attachment, and interpersonal neurobiology. Listen in as Adam unpacks how trauma and abuse impact the heart and mind, as well as how to navigate the path toward healing, wholeness, and restoration. Interview episodes give you a sacred glimpse into the real-life stories of guests who have engaged their own experiences of trauma and abuse. Drawing from the work of neuroscientists such as Allan Schore, Dan Siegel, and Bessel van der Kolk, as well as Christian thought leaders Dan Allender and John Eldredge, this podcast will equip and inspire you to engage your own stories of harm in deep, transformative ways.

    Understanding Your Sexual Story (Bonus Episode)

    Understanding Your Sexual Story (Bonus Episode)

    I am joined today by Jay Stringer to talk about the relationship between our current sexual difficulties and our attachment histories. At some point in our lives, each of us will encounter difficulties in our sexual life. Sexual struggles are rooted in our stories—and more particularly, our stories of attachment to our primary caretakers. If you want to explore this material in more depth, please sign up for the Sexual Attachment Conference on Saturday, April 24. You can sign up at sexualattachment.com.

    • 35 min
    Parenting: How Your Story Is Affecting Your Relationship With Your Children Part 1

    Parenting: How Your Story Is Affecting Your Relationship With Your Children Part 1

    Here’s the bottom line with parenting: the past isn’t dead; it’s not even past. Your past experiences in life are profoundly influencing how you interact with, and parent, your children. Every parent knows what it’s like to lose it with their children. But what’s actually happening neurobiologically? What do you do when you realize that you’ve harmed your children?

    • 26 min
    How To Get Your Life Back with John Eldredge

    How To Get Your Life Back with John Eldredge

    Last year John Eldredge wrote an important book called Get Your Life Back. In today’s episode, John and I talk about my favorite parts of his book. In short, we talk about simple everyday practices that will help you get your life back. Why is this important? Because the pace of modern American life often borders on madness. It doesn’t feel like madness for many of us because we’ve lived life at this pace for so long. But the human heart wasn’t designed to carry the weight that most of us carry.

    • 38 min
    Relational Conflict: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Shut Down Part 2

    Relational Conflict: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Shut Down Part 2

    This is Part 2 of a discussion about what happens to your nervous system in the midst of relational conflict. When your body scans your relational environment and detects anything that feels remotely threatening, it triggers your nervous system to do one of three things: socially engage, go into a fight/flight/freeze reaction, or shut down. In today’s episode, I explain why your body might opt to shut down. I also outline the difference between the freeze response and the shut down response.

    • 24 min
    Relational Conflict: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Shut Down Part 1

    Relational Conflict: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Shut Down Part 1

    Your nervous system is constantly surveying your environment (think: relationships) to determine how safe and supported you feel. When your body scans the environment and detects anything that feels remotely threatening, it triggers your nervous system to do one of three things: socially engage, go into a fight/flight/freeze reaction, or shut down. In today’s episode, I explain how your nervous system determines which response to choose… and why this matters for your interpersonal relationships.

    • 24 min
    When Parents Open The Door For Sibling Abuse

    When Parents Open The Door For Sibling Abuse

    My friend Bethany shares one of her stories about sibling abuse. And, as is the case with virtually all sibling abuse, there is so much more at play than an older sibling harming a younger sibling. Harm from siblings never happens in a vacuum. An environment is created in the home by the parents that allows for and, in some cases, even invites, sibling abuse. Bethany graciously helps us understand how these dynamics played out in her home.

    • 40 min

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