39 episodes

A late identified autistic human. Speaking purely from my own experience, as I make sense of my life and the world around me, through my new autistic lens.

Autistic at 40 Toni Borneo

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 35 Ratings

A late identified autistic human. Speaking purely from my own experience, as I make sense of my life and the world around me, through my new autistic lens.

    S2 Episode 15 - Healing my mother wound as an autistic adult

    S2 Episode 15 - Healing my mother wound as an autistic adult

    In this episode I talk about the concept of the mother wound, and share some realisations about what is needed for healing.To send any comments or questions, or to request to join the Autistihood forum on Discourse - email Toni at autisticat40@outlook.com or find me on Instagram (@Autistic_at_40_podcast).

    • 43 min
    S2 Episode 14 - Discovering internalised PDA as an autistic adult

    S2 Episode 14 - Discovering internalised PDA as an autistic adult

    In this episode I share why I believe my most confusing and destructive experiences and behaviours as an undiagnosed autistic child and adult can be explained by internalised PDA (pathological demand avoidance / pervasive drive for autonomy).To send any comments or questions, or to request to join the Autistihood forum on Discourse - email Toni at autisticat40@outlook.com or find me on Instagram (@Autistic_at_40_podcast).

    • 1 hr
    S2 Episode 13 - Navigating different types of autism assessment

    S2 Episode 13 - Navigating different types of autism assessment

    This week I talk about how complicated it was seeking an assessment for autism as an adult, why I did it and why it took so long to find what I was looking for.To send any comments or questions, or to request to join the Autistihood forum on Discourse - email Toni at autisticat40@outlook.com or find me on Instagram (@Autistic_at_40_podcast).

    • 45 min
    S2 Episode 12 - Autistic and permanently overwhelmed

    S2 Episode 12 - Autistic and permanently overwhelmed

    In this episode I talk about the aspects of life which continue to overwhelm me, even though I am no longer burned out, as well as how I navigate them.To send any comments or questions, or to request to join the Autistihood forum on Discourse - email Toni at autisticat40@outlook.com or find me on Instagram (@Autistic_at_40_podcast).

    • 42 min
    S2 Episode 11 - My autism, spirituality and mental health

    S2 Episode 11 - My autism, spirituality and mental health

    In this episode I talk about my search for truth, learning to stay grounded in my purpose and how I've learned how to maintain my mental health in my search for divinity.To send any comments or questions, or to request to join the Autistihood forum on Discourse - email Toni at autisticat40@outlook.com or find me on Instagram (@Autistic_at_40_podcast).

    • 40 min
    S2 Episode 10 - My autistic reflections on love

    S2 Episode 10 - My autistic reflections on love

    • 33 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
35 Ratings

35 Ratings

Late diagnosed 52 ,

So helpful to hear a late diagnosed woman’s experience

Thank you! Feeling alone with my diagnosis and you are saying things that I really relate to as a late diagnosed woman. I feel heard.

JCC_* ,

Could be describing my own life!

Amazing, so helpful. Seeking diagnosis currently.

moggy3B3 ,

Hard Relate

Thank you so much for doing this Toni. I found out im autistic at 37 and now at 43 am finding out i am probably adhd aswell. Im finding it quite difficult to organise thinking about it all. I found myself giggling for joy at your podcast as I could relate so much. It has been very helpful. I highly recommend.

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