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The first ever zero judgement parenting podcast from the team behind An Irishman Abroad. Join funny man Jarlath and child behaviouralist Tina Regan as they tackle the questions, the worries and the day-to-day hilarity that comes with modern parenting.

Jarlath collects anonymous questions from frazzled and exhausted parents, while Tina shares more than 20 years of experience working in early childhood intellectual, behavioural and social development. With genuine problems from real parents it’s anyone’s guess what the questions will be but the pair will gamely tackle anything that’s thrown their way. Expect all manner of queries including:

- "My young lad eats like a caveman and is mortifying me everywhere we go"
- "If I ask my kid to come off her iPad she acts like her world is caving in"
- "My toddler refuses to wear clothes”
- “My kid won’t poo at school”
- “My kid refuses to let me leave the house, what should I do?

No problem is too big or small. Tina promises to help parents help themselves, with zero judgement. Raising kids is so fecking hard we all need help to do it.

Honey You're Ruining Our Kid GoLoud

    • Kids & Family
    • 4.9 • 14 Ratings

The first ever zero judgement parenting podcast from the team behind An Irishman Abroad. Join funny man Jarlath and child behaviouralist Tina Regan as they tackle the questions, the worries and the day-to-day hilarity that comes with modern parenting.

Jarlath collects anonymous questions from frazzled and exhausted parents, while Tina shares more than 20 years of experience working in early childhood intellectual, behavioural and social development. With genuine problems from real parents it’s anyone’s guess what the questions will be but the pair will gamely tackle anything that’s thrown their way. Expect all manner of queries including:

- "My young lad eats like a caveman and is mortifying me everywhere we go"
- "If I ask my kid to come off her iPad she acts like her world is caving in"
- "My toddler refuses to wear clothes”
- “My kid won’t poo at school”
- “My kid refuses to let me leave the house, what should I do?

No problem is too big or small. Tina promises to help parents help themselves, with zero judgement. Raising kids is so fecking hard we all need help to do it.

    Season Finale! Can Hyper Kids Become Calm Kids? S2E37

    Season Finale! Can Hyper Kids Become Calm Kids? S2E37

    We cannot believe it’s the final episode of season 2 of Honey You’re Ruining Our kid. 
    We will be back in September with a brand new season for you all to enjoy. Thank you for supporting our show, you guys are just the best. Our show has grown because you guys have supported it and we are so appreciative. Emails will stay open all summer long, you need me, I’ll be there for you, that’s the whole reason for our show. I want mums and Dads to feel less alone. 
    Question 1 "The Worst Waiting Game"
    Waiting for your child to have their needs assessed is the longest waiting game you’ll play as a parent. While you wait the feeling of isolation and worry can be overwhelming. This week a mum gets in touch wondering how she can help her son while they wait. There are so many online resources available to us these days. Once we know how to access them we can absolutely take control and try different things while we wait for the assessments teams to catch up. 
    Question 2 "My Kid Is Worried At Night"
    If your child is complaining of a pain in their belly and the doctor can’t find a reason why, then anxiety probably is the reason. We see it all the time, children who are feeling worried but that worry is manifesting as a real pain in their stomachs. How do we help them through? How do we teach them how to cope? When it starts affecting their sleep, then this rolls out to affect the house, what can you do to both help your child and get the house back on track?
    Question 3 "My Kid Is Testing The Limits"
    How do you get your out of control 5 year old back on track. If he’s exhibiting new behaviours and testing your limits how do you get him back to being a calm and happy boy. Fair rules, set boundaries and seeing through consequences can change your life. Listen in to hear how best to put them in place. 
    We wish you guys a happy summer ahead. Emails will remain open, pop one over whenever you need us and we will try our best to be there for you - honeyyouareruiningourkid@gmail.com. 
    Why not play catch up while you wait for the next season? Season 1 and 2 are available wherever you get your pods. 
    Become a Patreon member by www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad

    • 41 min
    When Having A Phone Goes Bad! Crossing A Line Or Trying To Help? S2E36

    When Having A Phone Goes Bad! Crossing A Line Or Trying To Help? S2E36

    Are your kids melting your head? Are you worried for someone else's kids? Are you allowed to check your kid's phone? Welcome to our penultimate episode of HYROK for this season. Season 3 will return in September. Our emails will always be attended honeyyouareruiningourkid@gmail.com is the address to send whatever issues you're having or solutions you have stumbled upon. We would love to hear from you.
    Question 1 "That Won't Be Cute Much Longer!"
    This week a worried aunt gets in touch about her nephew's out of control behaviour. She is worried about his transition from the "isn’t he cute" phase to the "can you stop being such a little bollox" phase. Can she intervene and help his parents or is any intervention deemed as over stepping? 
    Question 2 "Should Their Phone Be Your Phone?"
    We are in the Wild West of mobile phones. Children seem to be getting access to them younger and younger every year. When we hand over such a massive responsibility to our children without any real guidance can we really blame them when it ends up getting them in all kinds of trouble. When we can’t really avoid our kids having mobile phones, how can we help direct them to stay safe while using them? 
    Question 3 "Nightmare At Home, Angel In School!"
    The troublesome three year old has taken over from the terrible twos. Every week we get emails in from parents at the end of their tether with their three year old mood swings. This week is no different. Frustration is nearly always the explanation to why your child might be misbehaving. Identify the frustration and you’ll get to the root of the cause. It is only then that real change and emotional growth can begin. Trust me, three year olds are my bag, these suggestions on coping with their outburst really do work. 
    Thank you for listening in to another episode of Honey You Are Ruining Our Kid.  If you've got any worries pop an email over your us at honeyyouareruiningourkid@gmail.com. 
    For the extra juicy stuff swing on over to our Patreon www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad. 

    • 36 min
    Caught Pruning The Lady Garden, A Nightmare At Bedtime & Getting Kids To Listen - S2E35

    Caught Pruning The Lady Garden, A Nightmare At Bedtime & Getting Kids To Listen - S2E35

    From your kids giving you no privacy to tantrums that go off the deep end - this episode has got it all. Tina has to dig deep to find the right strategies to help these parents, Jar goes back to getting pantsed in public and an unexpected response from the biggest star in children's tv. It’s our bank holiday Monday special and boy do we have an episode for you.
    Question 1 - Listen to me!
    A very frustrated dad gets in touch this week to figure out why his kids insist on ignoring him?  Family meeting are a must. Iron out those creases.  Get some rules in place. Explain what behaviour you expect from your kids and get ready for a much more enjoyable summer with your children. 
    Question 2 - Caught In The Lady Garden!
    If you live in a house with doors that have no locks how are you expected to have any privacy? Is it even fair for your partner to employ a "no key in doors" policy? How many times does your kid need to walk in on you naked before you’re allowed to pop a lock on a door?
    Question 3 - Non-sleeping Beauties!
    We love hearing from friends. A wonderful one got in touch this week seeking out advice for her sleep deprived single mom friend. When your kids have no respect for bedtime how to do address it and establish a bedtime routine that will actually work? 
    Thank you so much for tuning in to this weeks episodes of Honey You’re Ruining Our Kid. Why don’t you head on over to a Patreon to hear about the hilarious A list kid star I got in touch with this week in my attempts to help a very stressed out mom. www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad You will also find Tina's top three tips for keeping your cool with the kids this summer.
    Emails open all summer - honeyyoureruiningourkid@gmail.com. 

    • 34 min
    When Good Kids Turn Rude, The Poo Hoarding Kid & The Dad Child S2E34

    When Good Kids Turn Rude, The Poo Hoarding Kid & The Dad Child S2E34

    The smell of summer is upon us or is that just panic in the air? How the hell are we going to entertain our kids? Tina can help with that worry on this week’s episode. Plus Jarlath looks back on some hilarious childhood tales, we hear about a kid that treasures his poo and a kid that is all of sudden rude to their mother. Can you get on top of a behaviour that suddenly appears? Tina thinks so.
    Question 1- 
    What do you do when your kid starts being rude? What is the appropriate response? How can you get your child to stop?
    When daddy has fast become the favourite and you feel personally attacked at every turn how do you manage your emotions while surviving your toddler. 
    Question 2- 
    We all want our children to be proud of themselves but what do you do when they have taken pride in their waste disposal management. This week we hear from a mum whose kid has started storing their poos, spurred on by immense pride in their shites they have fallen into the habit of not only showing their poos off proudly but of saving them and displaying them. 
    Question 3- 
    The summer break is fast approaching. How will we keep our kids entertained? How will we stop ourselves from losing our minds. Get the family meeting going. Get the wall chart out. Plan the summer as a team. Make it fair, make it fun, make it workable. 
    Thank you for listening in to another episode of our parenting podcast. If you want more head on over to our Patreon. 
    Email any questions into honeyyouareruiningourkid@gmail.com. For an extra chunk this week head to www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad - Jar and Tina talk about regulating kids and their technology. Patreon is how we fund this podcast - please considering supporting us and its creation today.

    • 45 min
    The Sore Loser Kid Returns, Claustrophobic Kid & The Kid That Throws Everything!

    The Sore Loser Kid Returns, Claustrophobic Kid & The Kid That Throws Everything!

    Honey You’re Ruining Our Kid is about to save your mind and soul this summer. Listen in for the top 5 survival skills for parenting during the holidays. Tina will walk you through how you can enjoy and survive your kids this summer. 
    Question 1- 
    How do we get our children to be rational about their irrational fears? How can we help them cope so that they can get to a place where they can push through? Coupled with needing to get the grandparents on board. Is any of this even possible? 
    Question 2- 
    When your child starts throwing how do you stop it? Are they really throwing objects in frustration or are they doing it for a laugh? Is it a language frustration, can focusing on how they communicate actually help them stop throwing. 
    Question 3- 
    How do you nurture your sore loser, it is possible to funnel that fiery spirit and transform your ultra competitive child into a team player who doesn’t mind the odd loss? 
    Thank you for tuning into another episode of Honey You’re Ruining Our Kid. Emails are open and while are podcast is nearly about to break for its summer holidays, emails will remain open all summer long. So please email any questions you have into honeyyouareruiningourkid@gmail.com. 
    Come see Jarlath Regan's standup comedy show www.jigser.com/gigs

    • 48 min
    I Think I'm Raising Critical Kids, Dads & Periods, Sibling Conflict S2E32

    I Think I'm Raising Critical Kids, Dads & Periods, Sibling Conflict S2E32

    Welcome back to another episode of "Honey! You’re Ruining Our Kid". On this week's episode we explore this new generation of natural born critic kids, healthy sibling relationships and Tina’s favourite subject- menstruation misery. To hear even more on when it might be time to take your kid to a specialist go to the XL episode on www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad
    Question 1-
    Have we shaped our kids to criticise rather than celebrate talent? In this week’s episode we discuss the steps you can take to retrain your children to enjoy rather than destroy what they are watching on tv and in the wider world.
    Question 2- 
    Raising teenagers is so hard, even harder if your wife has passed away and you’re now navigating all the teenage girl stuff on your own. When she feels like she has never needed her mum more how can you fill those shoes? Is 14 years too old to not have started getting your period? Where can this dad go for advice and how can he reassure his daughter that everything is going to be okay? 
    Question 3 
    Sibling relationships can be so tricky. As parents we try our best to manifest healthy relationships between our kids. It’s not always possible. What do you do if you notice that the older sibling isn’t being kind or fair to the younger kid. How do you rebalance the relationship ensuring fairness going forward? 
    Thank you for listening in to another episode of Honey You’re Ruining Our kid. 
    Our show only exists because you guys support it and help it grow. We are so grateful. 

    • 39 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
14 Ratings

14 Ratings

Kareem123456 ,

Chuckle along regularly

I love this podcast. Humorous yet thought provoking and real practical advice. I tune in weekly and me and the Mrs like to listen together and chuckle along. Look forward to every episode . Well done Tina and Jarlath

L Yianni ,

Fresh and funny take on parenting!

Love love love this podcast. Perfect pairing and covering some really unique aspects of parenting. Non judgmental but firm and fair. And funny too.

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