131 episodes
It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain Sony Music Entertainment
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4.9 • 304 Ratings
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Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise.
On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.
Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!
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To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
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Frightened of Forty
Lala has got all your sex, relationship, dating and life dilemmas and she's ready to answer them. From anxiety about letting go and trusting in a new relationship to feeling insecure about his erectile dysfunction and worrying about being a failure when turning 40. This agony aunt tells it to you straight.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Valuing Different Views with Africa Brooke
Lala speaks to Africa Brooke the globally recognised consultant, mentor and speaker and who has a new book out 'The Third Persepctive'. She went viral for her letter 'While I'm Leaving The Cult of Wokeness' where she rebuked the notion that because she is a black woman she is opressed. She encourages Lala to challenge some of her own beliefs and thoughts and feels without Africa's input on important topics such as trolling and cancel culture it would be a space less understood and debated. Their views might not always align, such as on feminism, but being able to have these types of conversations and to listen to each others experiences only makes our understanding richer and more dimensional.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Always Arguing with Sarah Jayne Dunn (Formally Mandy from Hollyoaks)
Lala talks to actor and podcaster, Sarah Jayne Dunn. Sarah was controversially let go from her long running role as Mandy in Hollyoaks after revealing she had set up an Only Fans page. They discuss Sarah's experience of using an often misunderstood platform and how having such a public life from a young age affected her dating experiences. Plus, always arguing in the early stages of a relationship and not being introduced to your partners child, Lala and Sarah answer some of your dating dilemmas.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Help! He's Got A Breeding Kink...
Lala is here to give you advice for all your agonising dating dilemmas... including a guy who's got a breeding kink, someone questioning their f**k girl behaviour and navigating a new relationship while transitioning.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Baby Reindeer
*TRIGGER WARNING - THIS EPISODE DISCUSSES THEMES OF ABUSE*
In this Monday's hot topic Lala breaks down Netflix's hit show, Baby Reindeer. She looks at the backgorund of the main character 'Donny' (played by Richard Gadd in an autiobiographical role) and the abuse that he suffered prior to meeting his stalker, Martha. Lala looks at the behaviour 'Donny' displays as a victim of sexual abuse first and then of stalking, and at how common and understandable it is that victims keep going back to their abusers.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question or a suggest a hot topic for her head to @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
If you've been a victim of abuse you can find help at survivorsuk.org or rapecrisis.org.uk
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Stoned Sex Whilst Mum's Downstairs
Lala steps into her pink confession booth and gets into all your deepest, darkest secrets. Weeing in the bath, having sex where your mum can hear and waiting for a break up so you can have sex with your ex - are they a sinner or a saint? Plus is there dodgy behaviour going on in your love life? Lala calls out your relationship red flags.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question or get something off your chest get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
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Customer Reviews
Interesting, informative and entertaining.
I love Lala and the work she does. The podcast is great, huge range of subjects.
Obsessed
It’s the only Podcast that I can listen to and be engrossed and actually wait for the next episode to come out. I’ve recommended to others who also love it. Absolutely amazing.
THE best
So glad I came across this podcast. It’s my absolute favourite!! Every needs to listen! So informative, so funny, so current and so real! There’s so much to take from it and Lala is amazing! Please don’t ever stop! Literally THE best!