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Summary The conversation explores the themes of self-reflection, the role of past experiences, the pursuit of happiness amidst suffering, the importance of character development, and the concept of surrendering to something beyond oneself. It delves into the idea that wisdom and transformation may require external influences and the acceptance of the limits of personal control. 
In this conversation, Josh and Brando discuss the concept of surrender and the role of uncertainty and anxiety in human life. They explore the idea that while we have the power within us to take action and move forward, there are also external forces and mysteries beyond our control. They touch on topics such as objective values, duty and obligation, and the importance of venturing into the unknown. They also discuss the interconnectedness of human beings and the shared psychology that drives us to work together towards a common goal.

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The Hero’s Journey (Part II)
In this episode of Paradoxically Speaking, we explore the concept of adventure and calling in life. We delve into the experience of beauty, the hero's journey, and the importance of being present. The discussion also explores the themes of surrender, obedience, and the calling to a higher purpose. We discuss the radical commitment of individuals in monastic orders who dedicate their lives to serving others — the concept of strength and the importance of mental and emotional strength in pursuing one's calling.
Key Takeaways
Adventure and calling can take different forms and do not necessarily require grand gestures or physical journeys.Being present and appreciating the beauty of nature can bring a sense of calm and connection.Surrendering and submitting to a higher purpose can lead to a radical commitment to serving others.Wise elders and guidance play a crucial role in navigating life's adventures.

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SummaryThis conversation explores the power of myth and the resonance of stories, particularly in relation to Lord of the Rings and other epic tales. It delves into the hero's journey and the call to adventure, highlighting the importance of growth and maturity. The discussion also touches on breaking through personal limitations and the agony of spiritual growth. The concept of avoiding unpleasantness and the path to wisdom is explored, along with the role of honesty and self-awareness in personal development. 
The conversation concludes with a reflection on the idea of calling and the choices we make in response to the calls to adventure in our lives. This conversation explores the themes of following one's inner goodness, confronting darkness, and saying yes to life. It emphasizes the importance of trusting our initial instincts and not rationalizing our actions. The conversation also delves into finding joy in sorrow and exploring the depths of our own psychology. Ultimately, it highlights the hero's journey and the universal nature of human experiences.
Takeaways
Trust your initial instincts and follow your inner goodness.Confront darkness and be aware of your own actions.Say yes to life and find joy even in difficult circumstances.Explore the depths of your own psychology and confront your shadow.Recognize the universal nature of human experiences and the hero's journey.

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SummaryThis episode explores the themes of beauty, youth, aging, and mortality. Brandon and I discuss the novel 'The Picture of Dorian Gray' and its exploration of the consequences of eternal youth and beauty. We delve into the concept of the soul and how it is shaped by habit and character. The subjective nature of ideals and preferences, the impact of experience and changing priorities, and the significance of aging and mortality. 
Takeaways
Difficulties in life can be seen as part of the beauty of existence.Topics often have multiple aspects and perspectives that coexist.Embracing the paradoxes and complexities of life can lead to a deeper understanding and appreciation of the world.

This conversation explores the themes of transcending the self and the importance of compassion and concern for others. It delves into the influence of beliefs and perspectives on connectedness and the challenges of balancing self-care and selflessness. The case studies of Mike Tyson and Arnold Schwarzenegger highlight the transformative power of vulnerability and the journey toward selflessness. 
The conversation emphasizes the need for clarity, acceptance, and honesty to navigate the complexities of selfishness and selflessness. The conversation explores the concepts of being useful and virtuous, and how they relate to personal growth and development. It emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and honest assessment of one's actions and virtues. The discussion also highlights that developing oneself and acquiring capabilities is essential for being useful to others in the future.
What is Paradoxically Speaking?
Paradoxes exist nearly everywhere — even in the area of self-improvement. In the classic On Becoming a Person, psychologist Carl Rogers wrote, “The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.” When you encounter a paradox — there is potential and opportunity within the tension.
Our conversations typically explore principles and practices from many sides (which we understand may not be for everyone). For example, we are interested in human goodness (virtue) and our capacity for evil (vice). The wisdom of connection and the power of solitude. The importance of structure and the need for flexibility. Although we intentionally explore the complexities of living well — we strive to keep things practical.

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SummaryIn this episode of Paradoxically Speaking, Josh and Brandon explore the concept of love as an infinite resource and delve into the complexities and paradoxes of love. It discusses the impact of toxic relationships and the importance of self-preservation. The dark side of human nature is examined, along with the skills and nuances of love. The conversation concludes with a reflection on the journey of self-love. In this conversation, Josh and Brandon discuss the importance of effective communication and explore various aspects of communication, including barriers, active listening, non-verbal communication, and cultural differences. They emphasize the need for clear and concise communication to avoid misunderstandings and conflicts. The conversation provides valuable insights and practical tips for improving communication skills in personal and professional relationships.
Takeaways
Love is a complex and multifaceted concept that can be viewed from different perspectives.Toxic relationships can jeopardize one's mental and emotional well-being, and it is important to prioritize self-care.Understanding the dark side of human nature is crucial in navigating relationships and making wise decisions.Love is a skill that requires self-reflection, self-preservation, and continuous learning.The journey of self-love is essential for cultivating healthy and fulfilling relationships.