Unfiltered Bedroom Elisha Kolade - Overcoming Pornography , Inner Child Trauma Healing
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As host of Unfiltered Bedroom, I'm a coach, speaker, and author specializing in helping men overcome porn addiction through my proven Rewire Your Mojo TM program.
Having journeyed through addiction myself, I understand firsthand how porn can destroy your mind, relationships, and potential. I've made it my purpose to help others quit porn for good and cultivate healthy intimacy.
On the show, I hold nothing back, combining straight talk, inspirational stories, expert interviews, and practical tools you can start using immediately. With over a decade of experience coaching high achievers,
I know what it takes to break free for good. If you're ready to reclaim your freedom from porn and unlock your full potential, join me on this journey.
Together we'll dismantle old patterns and build the foundation for a porn-free life on your terms. The time for change is now.
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113-Forget the Porn Streak Fixation: It's Time for Life Transformation
Are you obsessed with counting your days without porn? That fixation on streaks is preventing the real progress you desire.
This episode busts the streak myth wide open and provides a transformation roadmap. You'll learn why tracking porn-free days is an empty numbers game, and how to reconstruct your life through foundational habit changes instead.
From motivation to discipline, we map out the shifts required not just to abstain but to redesign your reality as a porn-proof man of intention and integrity. It's time to forget the streak and embrace transformation! -
112 - Navigating Porn in Committed Relationships
Many couples struggle with differing views on porn. Is it cheating? A dealbreaker? This episode explores how to have an open, judgment-free dialogue about porn's role in your relationship.
Hear as we discuss how to navigate this sensitive issue through honest communication, boundary-setting and compromise. Get insights to understand your partner's perspective and find a resolution you both feel good about -
111 - Surviving the First 48 Hours: Porn Relapse's Point of No Return
The first 48 hours of quitting porn are critical - a harrowing gauntlet where the insidious grip of addiction tries to derail your recovery before it can begin. This raw, unflinching episode prepares you for the mental battle inevitable in those first two days.
From white-knuckle cravings to shame spirals, no stone is left unturned in arming you for these 48 hours of hell. -
110 - The 3 Goal-Setting Traps Sabotaging Your Porn Recovery
Tired of setting earnest recovery goals only to fall into porn's grip again? You're not alone - but the reasons may be hiding in plain sight. This candid episode exposes the 3 most insidious goal-setting traps undermining your hard work.
From unrealistic timelines to misguided motivations, prepare for an unvarnished look at the subtle psychology sabotaging pornfree success.
But it's not just analysis - you'll receive a tactical gameplan to dismantle each trap and engineer goals aligned with lasting freedom. Whether you've tried and failed, or are just starting, this is a must-listen preemptive strike against self-defeatist goal-setting -
109 - 2 Roadblocks Keeping You Stuck in Porn (And How I Broke Through)
Countless recovery attempts stunted by the same invisible forces? In this candid episode, you'll uncover the two insidious roadblocks keeping you stuck in porn addiction cycle.
From toxic thought patterns to self-sabotaging behaviours, prepare for an unvarnished look at these progress-derailing culprits. But it's not just analysis - your host vulnerably shares their hard-won process for dismantling each roadblock.
Get ready to laugh, cry, and have light bulb moments as you learn to identify and overcome what's really holding you back from lasting freedom. -
108 - Overcoming Porn: The Overlooked Root Causes of Toxic Shame
Toxic shame is one of the most insidious side effects of pornography addiction, corroding self-worth and sabotaging recovery.
Yet all too often, this shame's true underlying root causes go unaddressed. In this groundbreaking episode, we dive deep to uncover the surprising origins that keep feelings of worthlessness alive