A crucial step in understanding your erotic imagination is making a clear distinction between FANTASY and DESIRE. Many people try to start talking about sex by saying something like “Tell me about your fantasies. . .” While this is a great question to ask, you can run into trouble if you mix up Fantasy with Desire.
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In this encore episode, originally published in 2013, we explore:
* the crucial difference of Fantasy Vs. Desire* how to release shame and judgement about “troublesome turn-ons”* how to safely share fantasies with a partner* why it is important to get curious about fantasies
Explore Your Fantasies, Name Your Desires
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* Questions & Conversation Starters About Fantasy Vs. Desire* Name Your Desires: Fill In The Blanks Worksheet