Goddess In Us Kitiana Monae

Men can't read minds, get over it!

Today's episode, we dive into the myth that"if they know what you want, without telling them...then thats your person! Honestly, who's selling you this fantasy? Cosmopolitan? Let's talk about how being more vocal will help you in the long run! Close mouths, DON'T get fed babygirl.

We've all been enjoying the fun of the popular hashtag, #redflag and although we're all sharing laughs about some of our past experiences, I thought about how some of us are still willingly accepting the red flags but then pointing fingers when all is over. Ladies, whether we want to admit it or not, we're just as responsible for the hurt we've experienced as the proclaimed culprit. A lot of the time...we're falling in love with the fantasy of being in a relationship rather than genuinely taking our time and asking all of the right questions that are aligned with what we desire.



It's time that we hold some of that blame without shaming men. 

Sometimes, we're our own heartbreakers.

We’ve all either seen a conversation thread on Facebook, seen it in a meme or even had the conversation about ourselves…”what do you bring the table?” And let me guess, you have an issue with a guy asking you this? Yeah? I figured. Well, girl…that’s some backward s**t right there and you know it. So let’s get real about the question and what it really means. And trust me, these men don’t mean any harm. They just want to know…just…how…we do?

I’m back solo dolo to give my ladies a space to keep it real. I’m here to break your female bias and lead you into your Goddess-ness. We’re living in a time where women are just dying to wear the dress AND pants. I’m here to remind you of the beauty that lives in femininity. TRUE femininity. 👑✨ Here’s a sneak peek of the vibe I’ll be providing this season

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Social media is taking over and Kee is here to keep you up on game. The world is already a cold place but social media has definitely done a number on all of us. We’re all starting to look like clones and we’re stuck doing the same things. Check out the American Meme documentary on Netflix after you’ve tuned into Episode 16.