Jason Ingber Jason M. Ingber
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- Society & Culture
I find hidden greatness in people, hidden ideas and bring them to you every week. I'm a lawyer in Los Angeles and you're going to find that this podcast enriches your relationships, business and conversations...you'll never be boring.
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The Ultimate 5 Tools to Negotiate With Anyone!
In this episode, Jason interviews Professor Russell Korobkin, a law professor with over 25 years of experience teaching negotiation at UCLA School of Law and various institutions worldwide. Professor Koro=bkin delves into the nuances of negotiation, highlighting the common pitfalls and misconceptions that often impede agreements, using the Israeli-Palestinian conflict as an example. He also outlines the five essential tools for successful negotiation: Bargaining Zone Analysis, Persuasion, Deal Design, Power, and Fairness Norms. Each tool is detailed with practical applications, from high-stakes scenarios like international diplomacy to everyday situations like convincing a child to go to bed. The discussion also touches on the importance of understanding one’s alternatives and leveraging perceived power, emphasizing the value of being both rational and creative in negotiation to optimize outcomes. Moreover, the conversation explores the role of fairness norms and the strategic use of threats, drawing parallels between negotiation strategies in personal, business, and political spheres. This episode is a comprehensive guide for anyone looking to improve their negotiating skills, offering insights from academic research, personal experiences, and examples from pop culture and politics.
00:00 Exploring the Complexity of Negotiations: The Israeli-Palestinian Conflict
00:56 Meet Professor Korobkin: A Negotiation Expert
02:00 The Five Essential Tools for Successful Negotiation
09:50 Applying Negotiation Tools to High-Stakes Scenarios
17:45 Negotiation Strategies in Everyday Life: The Bedtime Battle
29:18 Leveraging Negotiation Tactics for Personal and Professional Gains
35:41 Pop Culture and Political Negotiations: Insights and Strategies -
How To Have More Power In Your Relationships!
This episode explores the themes of living explicitly beyond societal norms, personal freedom, and relationships through the insights of your host, Los Angeles attorney Jason Ingber, and therapist Rachel Feldman, coupled with a personal narrative on self-acceptance versus societal conformity. Jason shares his path to liberation through intentional deviation from societal expectations, influenced by Rachel's expertise in narrative therapy, medical sociology, human rights, and post-structuralism, which emphasizes the importance of authenticity and vulnerability. Together, they examine the therapeutic power of living with intentionality, the pressures of societal conformity, and the courage required to embrace personal truths. Additionally, a reflective monologue touches on the journey from self-policing to self-acceptance, outlining the transition from nihilism to conviction, and underlining the significance of each personal choice against the backdrop of societal expectations. This episode invites listeners to consider explicit communication and self-awareness as avenues to a more dignified, self-determined, and less oppressed life.
00:00 Embracing Failure and Living Explicitly: A Therapeutic Journey
00:55 Introducing Jason and Rachel: A Lawyer and His Therapist Dive Deep
02:09 The Power of Living Explicitly: Transparency vs. Explicitness
04:03 The Courage to Share Private Thoughts: Benefits and Risks
06:45 Unconventional Therapy: Breaking Norms for Deeper Connection
07:39 Decentering Power in Therapy: A Therapist's Vulnerable Approach
16:40 Navigating Identity, Power, and Relationships in Therapy
17:47 The Personal Mission of Intentional Failure
18:40 Subversive Action: Empowerment Through Ethical Stances
20:07 The Repetitive Nature of Growth and Overcoming Anxiety
24:03 Externalizing Problems: A Narrative Therapy Technique
27:41 Understanding Dominant Discourses and Empowerment
34:14 Personal Choices and Societal Expectations: The Decision Not to Have Children
38:43 The Complex Dynamics of Relationships and Individual Choices
42:11 The Complex Dynamics of Relationships and Self-Reflection
43:01 Exploring Personal Growth and Ideological Beliefs
45:53 Diving Deep into the Concept of Power and Its Impact
47:58 A Thoughtful Discussion on Religion, Belief, and God
54:50 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Understanding Values
01:01:25 Navigating Life's Choices with Intention and Conviction
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The Silent Takeover of Los Angeles By Homeless People - Her Resistance
In this conversation, April Stone an activist and mother from California shares her journey from being an ordinary citizen to a passionate community leader tackling homelessness and city issues. Born and raised in the same town for 23 years, she dives into her personal experiences and the actions she's taken to improve her city, spotlighting the limitations of current policies around homelessness and mental health. She discusses various projects, including cleaning up encampments and advocating for better city management, while exploring the wider political landscape's impact on local issues. Her story illustrates the power of individual action and community participation in driving change, advocating for a proactive approach to local governance and community safety.
00:00 Introduction - April Stone and Her Background
00:30 Tackling Homelessness: A Personal Crusade
02:20 Challenges and Solutions in Addressing Homelessness
09:49 Political Activism and the Fight for Change
15:56 Love for the City and Vision for the Future
21:47 Challenging Homelessness and City Engagement
22:31 Personal Initiatives and Community Impact
23:36 Navigating City Bureaucracy and Projects
26:12 From Personal Stories to Broader Advocacy
28:23 Tackling Encampments and Legal Strategies
34:40 Reflections on Political Engagement and Voting
36:50 Perspectives on National Politics and Media
44:12 Local Governance and Future Aspirations
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Mark Vega - The Secret of Changing Your Life!
Today I feature my in-depth conversation with a lawyer, Mark Vega, who shares insights from his journey through various life transitions and careers - from being a US Army Veteran to a radio show host to a litigator to an advocate for the LGBTQ+ community. Also from being a stroke survivor to running ultrmarathons. He discusses the importance of listening, understanding one's 'why', and the roles he has played in fighting for rights and changing lives. The lawyer also reflects on his experiences switching from litigation to transactional work and entertainment, while also touching on his personal life transitions, including starting a family and pursuing side hustles. The conversation further explores the nuances of relationships, career changes, and the balance of personal and professional life. Through anecdotes and reflections, the episode showcases the complexities of navigating life's transitions and the impact of advocacy and representation.
00:00 Navigating Legal Battles Against Employers: Tips and Insights
00:32 A Candid Conversation on Career Paths and Personal Journeys
01:06 Embracing Life's Transitions: From Personal to Professional
02:05 The Evolution of Legal Practice and Advocacy for LGBTQ+ Rights
07:40 The Intersection of Law and Entrepreneurship: Founding Omelet
13:18 Reflections on Relationships, Career, and Finding Balance
24:54 Navigating the Complexities of Relationships and Personal Growth
32:32 Concluding Thoughts and Gratitude
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Gerald Gamble - How a Male Model Escaped the Industry!
Gerald Gamble's journey is a captivating tapestry of resilience, identity, and transformation. From the high-fashion runways of New York to the introspective paths of spirituality and comedy, Gerald navigates through life's complexities with humor, grit, and a profound quest for personal truth. Despite facing the challenges of societal expectations and personal discovery, his story is a vivid portrayal of breaking free from the shadows of judgment to embrace one's authentic self. Gerald's narrative is not just about survival; it's about thriving by rewriting the rules on his own terms and finding solace in laughter and self-reflection.
00:00 Kicking Off the Podcast with Gerald Gamble
00:21 Gerald's Dual Life: From Suburbs to Male Modeling
02:15 The Struggles and Lessons of Modeling Life
07:45 Breaking Away: Family, Religion, and Self-Discovery
10:52 Exploring Religion, Beliefs, and Personal Growth
16:23 Navigating Family Dynamics and Finding Personal Peace
17:26 Embracing Identity and Overcoming Resentment
30:12 The Journey to Self-Acceptance and Friendship
30:49 Exploring the Complexities of Friendship and Love
34:34 Navigating the Intricacies of Gay Dating
38:06 The Challenges and Triumphs of Personal Growth
47:14 Finding Identity and Purpose Through Comedy
49:00 Insights into Professional Life and Personal Reflections
54:06 Concluding Thoughts: Advice to Younger Self and Future Hopes -
How a Hasidic Man Left is a Hollywood Star (Netflix & Amazon Shows)
00:00 Welcome to the Jason Ingber Podcast
00:55 The Accidental Start to RVing
02:59 From Acting to RV Adventures
04:31 South Dakota Residency Perks for RV Dwellers
05:26 From RV Life to Food Delivery Interruption
06:00 Exploring Depression 09:35 Rejecting Normalcy
10:40 Navigating Relationships
13:04 RV Mishaps and the Joys of Road Life
14:59 Reflecting on Career and 'Felix and Mira'
15:57 Filming in Freezing Montreal
17:06 Unexpected Audience During a Movie Scene
17:38 Exploring the Depths of Character Roles
19:34 The Emotional Toll of Acting
23:23 Influential Figures in Life
25:57 The Impact of Secular Influences on Personal Growth
27:58 The Unique Connection to Hasidic Music
31:52 Art of Emotion and Untetheredness
36:40 The Beauty of Artistic Expression