Surrogacy Made Simple Alyssa Small Layne

If you think being a surrogate is easy and you know what to expect, then what happened to Alex may stun you.

You’ve seen heartwarming stories on TikTok and you’ve been following journeys on Instagram. But does surrogacy always go that way? 

Alex, a 2 time surrogate had a picture perfect experience. That tight bond with her intended parents becoming family - just how “Warm Romantic” surrogates like it. 

But then everything changed. 

Imagine celebrating at a baby shower, for the baby you’re carrying, and then suddenly getting rushed to the hospital—Alex tells her unforgettable story.

In this episode, you'll hear:


The non-traditional approach of Alex's first surrogacy journey and how it led to a close relationship with the intended parents.


The moment her water broke at the baby shower


Processing feelings of guilt as a surrogate and the emotional complexities involved.


When lightning strikes twice - more medical complications



Are you prepared for the emotional highs and lows that come with surrogacy?

Tune in because this chat could make a major difference in your surrogacy experience.

Listen to the podcast episode now!



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Links mentioned in the episode 

Connect with Alex on Instragram @alex_bowers15

Alex is a Warm Romantic - What kind of surrogate are you? (quiz)

What to be a guest and share your story? Start here!

Are your surrogacy funds really safe? 

Imagine waking up to an email from your escrow company saying all operations are on hold due to legal action. 

Panic sets in as you realize your money, the hard earned money set aside for surrogacy is locked down.

Or maybe gone forever.

The surrogacy community is buzzing with anxiety and uncertainty over a major escrow company’s financial scandal. Surrogates and intended parents alike face unanswered questions, delayed payments, and missing money. 

If you’re on this journey or planning to be, you need to hear this.



In this episode, you'll hear:

The initial shock – How one email sent the surrogacy community into chaos

The role of escrow – Discover why escrow accounts might not be as secure as you think

The scandal – Dive into the unsettling collapse of a prominent escrow company

The way forward – Steps you can take to safeguard your surrogacy finances



Don't wait until it’s too late.

This isn't just another nightmare story; it's a wake-up call.

Tune in to this episode now and arm yourself with the vital knowledge needed to protect your surrogacy journey.



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Links mentioned in the episode 

Safe Surrogacy - 6 Insider Tips to Avoid Scams and Pitfalls

How do you stand out? If you’re on a waitlist with 60 other hopeful intended parents, how do you get picked?

If you’re posting your profile online, what makes a surrogate stop vs scroll by?

Knowing exactly what to put in your profile and how to connect with surrogates is key. 

Are you showcasing the best version of yourself to potential surrogates or highlighting your trauma? 

You may be surprised to find out what really attracts a surrogate and makes her want to match with you.



This episode dives into 


How you can maintain privacy while sharing your surrogacy journey


Best places to find a surrogate that you haven’t thought of (no, it’s not an agency or a Facebook groups)


How to use social media effectively to connect with surrogates and other intended parents


What you can do to make your profile irresistible 


The value of having influential friends share your story



In part 2 of our talk with Baden Colt, mom through surrogacy, storyteller and marketing expert, we share gems on how to match faster and have a better connection. 

Want to know the reality? Authentic storytelling and showcasing your true personality can significantly increase your chances of finding the perfect surrogate.

Listen to the full episode and discover how to leverage social media and get hot tips to spruce up your agency profile.



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Links mentioned in the episode 

Baden’s blog site

Not My Tummy

Surrogacy Starter Kit

Finding a surrogate is one of the hardest parts of being an intended parent. 



There are 20 hopeful parents for every surrogate (100 parents per surrogate in Canada, ouch!). 



How do you stand out? Dance on TikTok?



It’s very overwhelming. But the good news is, you don’t have to be a social media expert to find your surrogate. Sometimes, the most genuine posts can make the biggest impact.



In this episode of Surrogacy Made Simple, Baden Colt, storyteller and surrogacy marketing expert shares it all. How sharing her story took her viral and led to finding her perfect surrogate match. 



In this episode, you'll hear about:


Overcoming the fear of sharing personal stories online
The importance of authenticity in connecting with potential surrogates
A behind-the-scenes look at creating content that actually gets noticed
The unforgettable success story of how a viral post reached the perfect surrogate



If you want a faster, closer match, don’t miss this chat.



Tune in now!



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Links mentioned in the episode 

Baden’s blog site

Not My Tummy

Surrogacy Starter Kit

Seeing surrogates on Instagram and TikTok can make the journey look fun and glamorous. But have you ever wondered if you have what it takes to join their ranks? If you’re getting excited by the posts and videos, hold on a minute. Being a surrogate is much more than what you see online. 



Think anyone can be a surrogate? Think again!

Not everyone makes the cut. 

You may be surprised at all the requirements and checks surrogates have to go through and why we have these rules.



We’re going to run through:


The types of surrogacy - What’s the difference between traditional and gestational surrogacy?


Medical Prerequisites - What you must have to ensure a healthy pregnancy.


Mental and Social Readiness - Why you need a solid support system and how mental preparedness impacts the journey.


Legal and Financial Considerations - If you think a big pay day is guaranteed, then you need to hear this!


Negotiations and Personal Choices - You have more control than you think!



The truth is, guidelines and requirements are not just paperwork; they’re essential to a healthy and successful surrogacy journey. 

Ready to see if you’d qualify to be a surrogate? Grab your headphones and listen in!



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Links mentioned in the episode 

What kind of surrogate are you? Take the Surro ID quiz



ASRM Recommendations 2022

Are you ready to take control of your surrogacy journey and explore the benefits of independent surrogacy?

Imagine being empowered through every step, from selecting the perfect surrogate to bringing your baby home, and all while saving a significant amount of money. Independent surrogacy can sound daunting, but with the right information and steps, it's an incredibly rewarding path.

This episode is your guide that walks you through the entire process of independent surrogacy. We went though independent surrogacy and know how hard it is to get the info you need to do it right. So if you’ve been searching for the steps to independent surrogacy or need a guide, this one’s for you!

In this episode:


How independent surrogacy works from beginning to end


What if you could handle your surrogacy independently and still have a safe, successful outcome? Spoiler: You can.


Common Mistakes in Independent Surrogacy That Cost More Than Just Money—Are You Making Them?


How to navigate the three crucial phases of surrogacy – preparation, matching, and pregnancy – with confidence.



Here's an empowering fact: Independent surrogacy can save you at least $50,000 compared to agency-supported surrogacy.

Start this incredible journey with confidence and joy. Tune in to this episode and discover how to make your independent surrogacy experience as smooth and successful as possible.

Don’t forget to grab your free surrogacy Step-by-Step Guide and Checklist

Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts

“I love Alyssa and Surrogacy Made Simple.” – If that sounds like you, please do me a favor by rating and reviewing the show! This helps me support more people — just like you — to have a great experience with surrogacy. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then let me know what you loved most about the episode!

Links mentioned in the episode 

Surrogacy Starter Kit (with step-by-step checklist and guide)

#5: Your First Meeting with a Surrogate: 6 Key Topics You Must Cover to Prevent a Broken Match

Surrogacy Journey Cost Calculator