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Is your comfort food really comforting you?
We often turn to our favorite snacks and meals in times of stress or sadness, seeking solace in the familiar tastes and textures. But have you ever wondered if these foods are truly comforting your mind and body, or if they might be doing more harm than good?
In this week’s episode, we’ll dive into the fascinating relationship between what we eat and how we feel, uncovering the hidden impacts of our dietary choices on our emotional well-being. 
We’ll also explore mindful eating practices, the wisdom of Ayurveda, and the transformative power of nourishing your body, mind, and soul. 
Discover how small changes in your diet can lead to profound shifts in your mood and overall health.
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro 01:10 Food can be medicine 02:39 Association of comfort with food 04:31 Feel what your body is feeling 05:52 Change how you view comfort foods 09:04 Control what you eat, don’t let food control you 11:45 Stop labeling food as good and bad 13:24 The Four Pillars of Health 16:46 The categories of food in Ayurveda 32:19 Adaptogens and spices 35:50 Get your blood tested 38:05 The nutrients you need to boost your mood 41:14 Anti-inflammatory foods 44:06 Invest in your health 53:36 Relationship between our gut and brain 56:16 Glucose spikes in our body  
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Ever feel like anxiety is taking over your life?
Today, I welcome Cleo Wade, an acclaimed poet, author, and speaker known for her profound insights on self-love, mindfulness, and authentic living. Cleo has touched countless lives with her heartfelt words and has authored several best-selling books that inspire readers to embrace their true selves.
In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Cleo and I delve into the transformative journey of overcoming anxiety. We explore the healing power of words, discussing how journaling can be a tool for self-discovery and emotional release. Cleo shares her personal experiences and practical strategies for recognizing anxiety and replacing it with grounded choices.
We also talk about the importance of creating daily rituals that nourish the soul and provide a sense of peace amidst the chaos. From simple practices like mindful breathing to the profound impact of connecting with nature, Cleo offers actionable advice for anyone looking to find calm in their daily lives.
So, find a quiet place, perhaps with a comforting cup of tea, and join me and Cleo for a conversation that promises to inspire and uplift. This episode is a heartfelt journey towards self-acceptance and empowerment that you won't want to miss.
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro 00:48 Using words to express yourself 07:26 Fear-based decisions 09:30 Anxiety is fear 11:53 The impact of what we watch and listen to 16:40 Adapting self-care to fit your daily routine 20:21 Finding your unique path to wellness 23:48 How physical activity fuels mental clarity 31:11 Being lost and finding yourself 36:21 “Acceptance is truly our natural state…” 39:56 Understanding pain 44:04 Where is negative self-talk coming from? 48:53 You are what you watch  50:43 Reconnecting with your body and mind 57:15 The power of gratitude 1:02:47 Watching people fall in love 1:06:14 Most difficult emotion to deal with 1:09:05 Why we need to cry more often Follow Cleo:
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How much help is too much?
This question hits close to home for many of us. We all want to be there for our friends and family, but there comes a point where we need to step back. 
Offering too much help can end up making them dependent on us, preventing them from learning to stand on their own. 
It's all about finding that middle ground – being supportive without taking away their chance to learn and grow independently.
Today, let's explore the idea of figuring out when our help might be excessive, and whether it's causing any negative impacts on us or the person we're assisting. We've all been in situations where we give a lot without receiving the same in return. To handle this, we need to understand what genuine support truly means. 
Always remember that there are times when you don't have to be the hero for everyone. Sometimes, it's important to take care of yourself first before reaching out to help others.
What We Discuss:00:00 Intro 00:29 The Savior Complex06:49 How do you know if you’re helping someone too much?13:54 Are you helping them get better or make themselves feel better?16:07 What you want for someone is not necessarily what they want18:57 Are you invited to help?21:18 Pathological altruism26:38 What if helping is harming you?30:00 True support
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Strong is the new beautiful, but how can women truly embrace their power?
Today, I welcome Louise Hazel, a heptathlete and fitness professional. She gained recognition for her athletic achievements, including competing in the heptathlon, which consists of seven track and field events. 
In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Lou and I cover many topics, from why lifting weights is way more than just a workout to busting myths about strength training. But that's not all! We also talked about how our bodies have their own seasons, and why it's a good thing to really listen to them. 
Ever wondered what to eat before and after hitting the gym? We talked about that too! We also shared our experience of surrounding ourselves with a supportive community for growth. 
Lastly, we shared a candid conversation about dealing with tough times and finding strength in letting go. So, grab a cozy spot, maybe a cup of tea, and join me and Louise for a chat that's as heartwarming as a good friend's hug.
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro 01:13 Strength training for women 03:53 The biggest misconception in weight training 06:21 Aesthetics is not athletics 10:58 What it takes to achieve your body goal 19:02 Macronutrients 22:12 Building muscle while losing weight 24:27 What to do if you can’t afford personal trainers? 28:45 Our bodies cycle through seasons 30:28 Listen to your body  32:12 Pre and post-workout meal 40:48 Body positivity 49:31 Embracing transformation 55:48 Quick fitness and workout questions 57:42 Sacrifices to reach goals 1:01:00 Building a community for growth and transformation 1:08:14 Coping with grief through surrendering 1:19:49 Retreating to come back stronger 1:22:57 Go-to emotional release 1:24:32 What type of crier are you? Follow Lou:
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How many relationships could be saved by a single honest conversation?
Assumptions can be silent relationship killers, creeping into our interactions and creating unnecessary barriers.  In this episode of A Really Good Cry, we dive into how unspoken assumptions can drive people apart and how open communication can bring them back together.
We’ll also explore why we make assumptions, how they affect our lives, and offer practical tips to break the habit. Discover how challenging your assumptions can lead to stronger, more genuine connections.
Tune in to learn how questioning your assumptions can transform your relationships for the better.
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro 00:47 Resolving family drama  02:24 The problem with taking assumption as truth 03:55 Why do we have assumptions? 06:43 How do you stop yourself from making assumptions? 09:09 Everything is not about you 10:24 Let go of your fear of discomfort 13:07 Assumptions can ruin relationships 15:44 How honest conversations can transform your relationship 17:15 Give someone the benefit of your doubt 19:05 “Humans have the need to know…” 21:05 What to do when you find yourself assuming? Follow Radhi:
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Real compassion breaks down the barriers that divide us. It's not just about doing nice things, it's about creating a safety net of care. True compassion blurs the lines between "me" and "you." It's about understanding that we're all connected and that looking out for each other is what really matters.
Today, I welcome Alok Vaid-Menon, a writer, performer, and advocate known for their activism in the LGBTQ+ community. They're recognized for their insightful discussions on gender, identity, and social justice. Alok's work often challenges societal norms and perceptions, aiming to promote acceptance and equality for all genders. Their powerful storytelling and performances resonate with audiences worldwide, sparking important conversations about inclusivity and self-expression.
In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Alok and I talked about how they were able to live authentically and how they found confidence through writing. We also explore finding beauty in the little things and how we connect in this digital world. Alok shares insights on dealing with hate using compassion and where all that hate might actually come from.
Make sure to sit back and relax as you listen to this insightful and inspiring conversation with Alok! 
 
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro 00:29 Living authentically 02:15 Finding confidence through writing 06:17 Growing up different in Texas 08:24 Cultural influence on parenting 14:20 Appreciating parent’s sacrfices 16:34 The beauty in the mundane 20:24 Connection and community in a digital age 24:35 Handling hate with compassion 29:44 Where does hate come from? 33:33 What is true compassion? 39:38 Embracing every emotion in our growth 48:27 The intersection of religion, spirituality, and gender 52:19 Balancing masculine and feminine energies 55:52 Living your truth 58:12  Love across religious divides 1:01:14 The last time Alok had a good cry 1:04:12 What kind of crier is Alok? Follow Alok:
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