42 min

Episode 97: I Shouldn't Feel This Anxious—Insights on Trauma & Healing with Monique Koven The Best of You

    • Mental Health

Today’s episode is just so special and so deeply personal. If you’ve experienced trauma, please listen. If you love someone, please listen. Trauma touches so many lives, and it’s so often misunderstood. In today’s episode, Monique Koven, host of The Healing Trauma podcast, shares her powerful story of healing from trauma. There is absolute gold in this episode for everyone.
Here’s what we cover:
1. The anxiety response she couldn't "logic" herself out of (8:50)
2. How misdiagnosis caused further harm (10:39)
3. The role of anger in her healing (21:21)
4. Exactly how she began to heal the anxiety response she experienced (32:03)
5. Separating God out from hurtful church messages (24:15)
6. How Ann Voskamp’s work showed her an example of glimmers (34:36)
7. Monique’s profound word for you if you’ve experienced trauma (38:13)
Find a list of resources from this episode here.
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This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/BESTOFYOU and get on your way to being your best self.
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Related Episodes:
Episode 79: Surviving Trauma & A Path to Forgiveness—Finding God In the Hardest Parts of Your Story With Esau McCaulley
Episode 15: C-PTSD—The Pain of A Million Paper Cuts
Episode 4: What Do I Need To Know About Trauma?
Music by Andy Luiten
Sound editing by Kelly Kramarik
While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today’s episode is just so special and so deeply personal. If you’ve experienced trauma, please listen. If you love someone, please listen. Trauma touches so many lives, and it’s so often misunderstood. In today’s episode, Monique Koven, host of The Healing Trauma podcast, shares her powerful story of healing from trauma. There is absolute gold in this episode for everyone.
Here’s what we cover:
1. The anxiety response she couldn't "logic" herself out of (8:50)
2. How misdiagnosis caused further harm (10:39)
3. The role of anger in her healing (21:21)
4. Exactly how she began to heal the anxiety response she experienced (32:03)
5. Separating God out from hurtful church messages (24:15)
6. How Ann Voskamp’s work showed her an example of glimmers (34:36)
7. Monique’s profound word for you if you’ve experienced trauma (38:13)
Find a list of resources from this episode here.
Want to receive free bonus content? ⁠⁠Sign up for my free weekly email here.
Thanks to our sponsors:
Go to ⁠www.organifi.com/bestofyou⁠ today and use code BESTOFYOU for 20% off your order today.
Go to AquaTru.com and enter code BESTOFYOU at checkout to get 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier!
Get 40% off your first order of Sundays. Go to SundaysForDogs.com/BESTOFYOU or use code BESTOFYOU at checkout.
This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/BESTOFYOU and get on your way to being your best self.
Go to thrivemarket.com/bestofyou for 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift!
Make the switch and build a starter kit. 15% off AND free shipping when you buy a Notes starter kit at notescandle.com/bestofyou.
Related Episodes:
Episode 79: Surviving Trauma & A Path to Forgiveness—Finding God In the Hardest Parts of Your Story With Esau McCaulley
Episode 15: C-PTSD—The Pain of A Million Paper Cuts
Episode 4: What Do I Need To Know About Trauma?
Music by Andy Luiten
Sound editing by Kelly Kramarik
While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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