110 episodes

Parenting: It’s the hardest job we’ll ever do. Most of us are tired, stressed, struggling through meltdowns, and counting the minutes until bedtime.


But what if raising kids could feel just a little lighter? What if you could end even the hardest day feeling good about how you’re parenting?


I’m Dr. Hilary Mandzik – a licensed psychologist and mama of 3 changing the way we do parenting, so there’s less stress and more joy, even in the hardest moments!


Join me each week on the Raised Resilient Podcast as we explore tough parenting topics, from managing meltdowns to building self-esteem (and everything in between!).


I’ll help you understand your child’s behavior (and your reactions to it!) so that even the really hard moments make more sense. I’ll empower you with tools, strategies, and scripts to navigate those really hard moments with connection and confidence. (And I’ll remind you that no tool, strategy, or script is as powerful as your parenting ace – your relationship with your child!)


I’m passionate about parenting differently – parenting in a way that sees all kids as good, even when they’re struggling. I’m passionate about breaking unhelpful generational cycles and putting a hard stop to spanking, time outs, shaming, and yelling. I want to help you stop worrying about whether you’re “raising them right” and feel confident that your kids will grow up trusting themselves and feeling comfortable in their skin … because they were raised resilient.


And that’s big. Because raising our kids resilient can literally make this world a better place.


Listen, parenting is hard no matter how you do it. You won’t “enjoy every moment”, no matter what that lady at the store says. But I’m here to help you go from just barely surviving to parenting in a way that genuinely feels good, for you and your child.


So, warm up your coffee and grab your ear buds. It’s time to raise resilient kids!


Connect with me:

https://www.raisedresilient.com/

IG: @raisedresilient

Get your Free Managing Meltdowns Guide: https://www.raisedresilient.com/download

Raised Resilient: Help Your Highly Sensitive Child Dr. Hilary Mandzik - Psychologist

    • Kids & Family

Parenting: It’s the hardest job we’ll ever do. Most of us are tired, stressed, struggling through meltdowns, and counting the minutes until bedtime.


But what if raising kids could feel just a little lighter? What if you could end even the hardest day feeling good about how you’re parenting?


I’m Dr. Hilary Mandzik – a licensed psychologist and mama of 3 changing the way we do parenting, so there’s less stress and more joy, even in the hardest moments!


Join me each week on the Raised Resilient Podcast as we explore tough parenting topics, from managing meltdowns to building self-esteem (and everything in between!).


I’ll help you understand your child’s behavior (and your reactions to it!) so that even the really hard moments make more sense. I’ll empower you with tools, strategies, and scripts to navigate those really hard moments with connection and confidence. (And I’ll remind you that no tool, strategy, or script is as powerful as your parenting ace – your relationship with your child!)


I’m passionate about parenting differently – parenting in a way that sees all kids as good, even when they’re struggling. I’m passionate about breaking unhelpful generational cycles and putting a hard stop to spanking, time outs, shaming, and yelling. I want to help you stop worrying about whether you’re “raising them right” and feel confident that your kids will grow up trusting themselves and feeling comfortable in their skin … because they were raised resilient.


And that’s big. Because raising our kids resilient can literally make this world a better place.


Listen, parenting is hard no matter how you do it. You won’t “enjoy every moment”, no matter what that lady at the store says. But I’m here to help you go from just barely surviving to parenting in a way that genuinely feels good, for you and your child.


So, warm up your coffee and grab your ear buds. It’s time to raise resilient kids!


Connect with me:

https://www.raisedresilient.com/

IG: @raisedresilient

Get your Free Managing Meltdowns Guide: https://www.raisedresilient.com/download

    3 (Totally Normal!) Thoughts You Might Be Afraid to Share Out Loud as a Parent of a Highly Sensitive Child

    3 (Totally Normal!) Thoughts You Might Be Afraid to Share Out Loud as a Parent of a Highly Sensitive Child

    In this episode, we dive deep into three shame-inducing thoughts that many parents of highly sensitive children experience. Drawing from my program and countless conversations with parents, I share the common worries and fears expressed by those seeking support.
    It’s true, many of us didn't have our emotional needs met as children, leaving us unsure of how to help our own kids regulate their emotions. This can lead to feelings of loneliness and the misconception that we're the only ones struggling with these dark thoughts. I discuss the three main thoughts I frequently hear during initial calls with prospective clients and how these thoughts often make parents feel like they're held hostage by their child's emotions.
    You see, here’s the thing: this does not have to be your reality. This episode will show you that you are not alone. I've been there too, and I know that resilience and healthy communication skills can transform your family dynamics. And if you are struggling and this sounds like you - book a free call. We will come up with a plan of action together so you feel better able to handle any thoughts coming your way.
    FREE Breakthrough Call: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough
    Is Your Child Highly Sensitive? Take My FREE Quiz! https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz
    Join Our Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisedresilient
    FREE Mindset Shifts: https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset

    • 20 min
    How We Conquered Disney with Highly Sensitive Kids (& Had the BEST Time!)

    How We Conquered Disney with Highly Sensitive Kids (& Had the BEST Time!)

    In this Parenting Reflections episode, I share a candid account of my family's recent trip to Disney World. With three highly sensitive kids in tow, we made extra efforts to ensure their comfort and enjoyment. From splurging on Genie+ to booking separate rooms for better sleep, every decision was made with their needs in mind.
    Flexibility was key as we embarked on each day, knowing that plans might need to shift or a child might require a break. I discuss the steps we took to anticipate and manage potential meltdowns, from recognizing triggers to providing downtime when needed.
    Listen in as I recount the highs and lows of our Disney adventure, including sibling squabbles, thrilling new rides, and the heart-wrenching loss of a beloved stuffed animal. And don't forget to check out my previous episode on vacationing with kids for more tips and insights!
    FREE Breakthrough Call: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough
    Is Your Child Highly Sensitive? Take My FREE Quiz! https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz
    Join Our Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisedresilient
    FREE Mindset Shifts: https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset

    • 22 min
    The Power of Rough & Tumble Play: Nurturing Resilience in Sensitive Kids

    The Power of Rough & Tumble Play: Nurturing Resilience in Sensitive Kids

    Ever wondered if rough and tumble play is right for your highly sensitive child? In this episode, we dive into why it's not only okay but also crucial for their growth and development. I share four ways rough and tumble play can benefit highly sensitive children, from building resilience to fostering social skills.
    But safety first! Of course it is important to monitor play sessions, ensuring boundaries are respected, and promptly addressing any injuries. With the right supervision, rough and tumble play can offer invaluable opportunities for physical, emotional, and social growth.
    Tune in to hear practical tips on setting up your home environment to encourage this type of play, including choosing age-appropriate toys and creating safe spaces for exploration. Don't miss this episode on why rough and tumble play is an essential part of childhood, especially for highly sensitive children.
    FREE Breakthrough Call: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough
    Is Your Child Highly Sensitive? Take My FREE Quiz! https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz
    Join Our Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisedresilient
    FREE Mindset Shifts: https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset

    • 19 min
    Parenting Reflections: Discovering Your Own Sensitivity as a Parent of a Highly Sensitive Child (& How to Embrace It!)

    Parenting Reflections: Discovering Your Own Sensitivity as a Parent of a Highly Sensitive Child (& How to Embrace It!)

    Did you ever realize that your child's high sensitivity might be a mirror reflecting your own? In this episode, I take you on a personal journey back to my own childhood, where I grappled with being highly sensitive, often feeling overwhelmed by emotions and retreating to my room to cry when things felt too intense.
    I share the shame and isolation I felt growing up, feeling too much and too deeply, and how these experiences initially left me confused and easily hurt. It wasn't until I became a parent to a highly sensitive child that I began to truly understand and appreciate the depth of my own feelings.
    In this episode, we'll explore how recognizing your own sensitivity can illuminate your parenting path and deepen your connection with your child. Here’s the thing: it’s important to recognize sensitivity not as a burden, but as a superpower. I’ll let you in on a secret – when we recognize sensitivity as a superpower, we can pay more attention to how we respond to big feelings, which equals a more nurturing and supportive family environment.
    FREE Breakthrough Call: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough
    Is Your Child Highly Sensitive? Take My FREE Quiz! https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz
    Join Our Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisedresilient
    FREE Mindset Shifts: https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset

    • 21 min
    Navigating Public Meltdowns With Your Highly Sensitive Child (& a Giveaway!)

    Navigating Public Meltdowns With Your Highly Sensitive Child (& a Giveaway!)

    Have you ever been in the middle of a store when your child suddenly has a meltdown? It's tough, right? In today's episode, I share a personal story about my own son's public meltdown and how I managed to navigate that situation.
    You see, there’s a difference between a child giving you a hard time, and having a hard time. The shame and anger you may feel during a public meltdown are valid, but what if we could shift those feelings all together, and instead think ahead to handling the meltdown more efficiently?
    For this, I’ll provide three practical strategies to help you prepare for and handle public meltdowns. And listen further for a chance to win a sensory kit of your choice from Young, Wild & Friedman! 
    FREE Breakthrough Call: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough
    Is Your Child Highly Sensitive? Take My FREE Quiz! https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz
    Join Our Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisedresilient
    FREE Mindset Shifts: https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset

    • 23 min
    Parenting Reflections: Breaking the Cycle: Confronting the Role of the ‘Default Parent’

    Parenting Reflections: Breaking the Cycle: Confronting the Role of the ‘Default Parent’

    Do you feel like all the parenting responsibilities just automatically end up on your plate? You're not alone. In this episode, I dive into my own journey as the 'default parent,' a role I slipped into almost without noticing when we had our first child. As I stayed home and stepped away from my career, I found myself managing everything from night feedings to daily outings, never having a moment to myself.
    I quickly became overwhelmed and exhausted with the weight of parenting on my shoulders. I even felt resentful towards my husband. But, this one realization allowed me to recognize that it wasn’t either of our faults, and there was a way to shift the dynamic.
    Here’s the thing: You can continue silently bearing the weight of parenting for both partners. Or, you can begin to shift and make lasting changes. Addressing the default parent syndrome earlier can transform your relationship with your partner, and enhance family life for everyone involved. Tune in to learn how to start this essential conversation and take steps towards a balanced parenting partnership. 
    FREE Breakthrough Call: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough
    Is Your Child Highly Sensitive? Take My FREE Quiz! https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz
    Join Our Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisedresilient
    FREE Mindset Shifts: https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset 

    • 18 min

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