Everyday Legends Mike Campbell

Hey there, welcome back to the Everyday Legends Podcast, I'm your host, Mike Campbell. Today, I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been on my mind: the age-old debate between physical strength and mental strength.
Inspired by a recent conversation between Piers Morgan and Chris Williamson, we're going to explore how physical fitness lays the groundwork for mental resilience and personal growth.
So, buckle up for a deep dive into the interconnectedness of strength, self-respect, and the journey of self-discovery. Let's jump right in!
As usual, I trust you'll get something from this episode. If you have questions about it - ask me. Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach on Facebook.
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REWIND Episode #41 How to Find Purpose There is one thing that comes up more than most when it comes to working with men; PURPOSE.
Sure, many guys want to 'get confidence' and some want to simply get out of the frustrating place they are now, stop the sabotage and spending a vast majority of their time caught in their head.
But even for those guys, at some point, the work turns to 'finding purpose', Which, when you talk to them - as I do all the time - the idea we have gleaned from the world of personal development, self-help, and 'success' is that a man must find his 'One True Purpose' as if there is something waiting for all of us, something we were born to 'uncover' which will then make ou lives not only complete, but make our lives.
We learn to hang the entire of our happiness (outside of that which we have possibly lumped on our romantic partners) onto this idea that 'once I find my purpose I'll be happy and everything in my life will make sense and be ultra meaningful'.
If you can't tell yet from my approach here, I think this is a load of bollocks that tends to send most men into a frenzy of ludicrously high expectations they can't meet - can never find this elusive 'one purpose' - and so go into the mode of self-beat-up, a consistent mode of 'shoulds' ('I should be living my purpose') and ultimately being kind of frozen in inaction until this one big purpose hits us over the head somehow.
Lies and misnomers.
This is something we deal with a lot in my coaching and so I have decided to do a solo episode on it as well as release a punchy yet powerful teaching mini-course on actually finding purpose.
 
In this episode I bring you a take on the above as we explore why this happens and how it messes with our lives.
I'll take you through a couple of simple examples of purpose as we explore the vital difference between 'finding your purpose' and 'living with purpose. This will include one seemingly insignificant aspect of all of our everyday lives in which you'll soon be able to not only see the purpose in it, but use the explanation to apply to many things in your everyday life.
this little trick will help you on the road to doing away with the ideas of discipline and motivation - things of the past when you truly understand purpose.
One of the reasons I decided to put this episode together was because we have decided to package up and release a live teaching from inside my coaching program the EVERYDAY LEGENDS ACADEMY (ELA) in which I take the guys through this critical difference and get them to go through an example that completely squashes this idea of finding your one true purpose and instead instantly gets you on the path to living with purpose.
One of the ... purposes of this mini-course and the incredibly affordable investment of just $47 (AUD) is so you have the appropriate buy-in to take on board the lessons in it and then actually apply it with purpose into your life. Without that buy-in, purchasing a mini-course like this is just masturbation.
This teaching also has another purpose of being an exclusive sneak behind the curtain of what we do in the coaching work with me in ELA.
You can get access to the course here - it is one 45 minute teaching with some supporting emails and content.
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REWIND Episode #26 Why You Can’t Get Your Shit Together (And How To) The realm of personal development has a few different worlds in it. One of those is the idea of just being better ‘ #liveyourbestlife - which tends to focus on just following your dreams and passions and being positive all the time.
Unfortunately, for many of us, this sets unrealistically high expectations and ultimately encourages by-passing of shit we actually need to learn, sit in, process, and move through. As a result, we often spin in feeling like a failure, beating ourselves up and trying hard to be overly positive despite shit potentially going as well as am arm being chopped off.
 
Closely related to this world is the idea - heavily favoured by men - of simply focusing on the strategy to move past what is frustrating us, the strategy to create new results and outcomes.
The challenge and weakness with this are immense but often subtle; if we only focus on moving forward without understanding and being able to overcome what led to us being in the place we want to move beyond, we will tend to have short bursts of success until the underlying issues inevitably resurface.
Enter - YOUR SHIT. This is what is happening in both of these situations; we’re trying to ignore and avoid our shit.
Doing that only emboldens in to have a more insidious and frustrating hold over our lives.
Shit unaddressed and unmanaged will pull the strings.
That is primarily a lot of my work with me; making sense of their shit, changing the relationship to it, owning it, moving past it, and overcoming it so that we get out from under its thumb and replace our thumb on its head.
That’s what this episode is about - why you struggle to get your shit together even though you really want to.
 
In this Episode: In this episode, we explore some of the reasons why we - especially as men - struggle to get out shit together even though we know how it’s playing out, we know what we want and what we need to do.
We’ll explore some of the ideas that see us stubbornly stick our head in the sand with our shit, hoping it will just magically disappear and life can be grand.
We also explore some key foundations for how you can actually and finally get your shit together.

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REWIND Episode #09 How to Live with Integrity In this episode, I venture into and explore something very close to my heart - and head and balls - and that is INTEGRITY.
It is my highest value, because, for me, everything else is determined by this. If I don’t have that, then all my other values don’t really get a chance.
Join me as I share some personal stories - including the first one in which as a younger man I fell into a common trap; lying to someone I liked and pulling myself right out of integrity in doing so.
I take you through what integrity actually is, how to assess it, and how to understand it on a deeper level so that if we fall out of it we can navigate our way back in.
I visit a story about a time my now father-in-law hit me with a daunting question in front of his (Nardia’s) family, well before I was even close to being a permanent fixture; “What are your intentions with our Nardia?”
* GULP*
Tune in to see how I handled this. Quite fucking excellently, I might add.
I call on this story often in teaching about integrity because regardless of the answer I shared, what the key point sticks to is - can I be honest here regardless of what that honesty entails?
I venture into some of the nature of men and the masculine in how we have this need to test each other, and essentially what we’re doing is testing the strength, the dependability of those men we go into battle (hunt) with.
If you’re a man struggling to understand yourself, wanting to work out what that niggling little feeling inside of you is, or simply wanting to access what’s possible for you, it starts and stops with INTEGRITY - this episode is for you.
As always, if this lands, please share this episode with a man you know could benefit from it.
If you haven’t, please leave me a rating and review on Apple Podcasts. 
 
Remember - DO something with the lessons in this podcast. Let me know you’re listening and how you’re applying it in your life - tag me on socials @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach on Facebook.
 
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Integrity Check-In questions: What was the promise or commitment you made to yourself? What did you choose to do? (Have you been choosing/did you choose to do instead?) What are the consequences? What’s the driver? Is this a pattern? What do you need to do to return to/remain in integrity?  
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REWIND Episode #37 with Matt Brown In this Episode: Enter Matt Brown (and his wife Sarah) - founders of She is not your rehab - a powerful organisation and movement working to change ideas of masculinity through supporting, educating and empowering men to transform the pain of their past instead of transmitting it onto others.
They have made some huge waves globally, even getting The Rock himself into a campaign of theirs.
Beyond that, they have done remarkable work both in places like New Zealand’s high-security prisons, throughout the community, and in Matt’s barbershops My Father’s Barber.
Matt and I discuss his own story from a “volatile childhood” of abuse and violence to healing his own pain to starting to cut hair in order to connect with men, and then the forming of She is Not Your Rehab and the wonderful work they are doing.
I trust you will get something from it - as might a man in your world, please pass it on to anyone you think will benefit from it. I had a great chat with Matt and am a HUGE supporter of their work. You can find out more about him, the work they’re doing, and how to access the book below.
As always, if you have questions about it - ask me. Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach on Facebook.
Where to find Matt and She Is Not Your Rehab: She Is Not Your Rehab Get the Book here Matt on IG SINYR on IG Video campaign that got The Rock involved 

Welcome to the Everyday Legends podcast, your go-to destination for men seeking to build legendary integrity and kick-ass relationships. I'm Mike Campbell, your host, and on this show, we're all about supporting you in getting more out of life, love, and the everyday grind. 
Today, we're delving into the crucial topic of setting boundaries and reclaiming self-respect. Get ready for insights, stories, and actionable advice to help you thrive as the best version of yourself. Let's jump right in!
As usual, I trust you'll get something from this episode. If you have questions about it - ask me. Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach on Facebook.
Get Involved Subscribe and REVIEW on Apple Follow and RATE on Spotify Sign up for Mike’s LEGENDAILY Emails to help you with a daily shot of loving straight talk direct to your inbox - avoid the vortex of Social Media and get the days best content instantly. Want to explore DEEP coaching support and guidance with Mike? The Everyday Legends Academy is now open for enrolment applications. Start the exploration process with Mike NOW to see if it can be the full and remarkable solution for you like it has been for so many men before you Other Ways To Consume This Podcast iTunes Spotify Youtube Mikes Website