Mothering From Within Kaili Ets

In this episode of 'Mothering from Within,' I chat all about babies' tears and crying. I talk about understanding crying not just as a means for babies to express immediate needs but as a deeper form of communication, including 'memory crying' linked to pre and perinatal experiences. I discuss how responding to crying with empathy and support can foster emotional regulation and resilience in children, laying a foundation for their emotional development. I highlight the personal...

In this episode of 'Mothering from Within,' I explore the intricacies of birth from a baby's perspective, highlighting the challenges and resilience inherent in the journey through the birth canal. I chat about how a baby's birth story influences their early functioning, from feeding and sleeping to overall comfort and shed light on the physical processes during birth. Then I move on to discussing 'life after birth' for babies! You'll learn why babies are so dependent on you, ...

In this episode of 'Mothering From Within,' I explore the unrealistic expectations set by societal infant stories on motherhood and infant care. By reflecting on the narratives around sleep, feeding, independence, and the ideal of a 'good baby,' this episode aims to dismantle pressures towards perfection in motherhood. I discuss the challenges of aligning with these expectations and encourage moms to trust their instincts, embrace their unique journey, and rewrite their own stories ...

In this episode of 'Mothering From Within,' I chat with guest expert Dacia Davison, a New Zealand-based occupational therapist specializing in mental health. Dacia shares her personal journey of motherhood, emphasizing the importance of self-regulation and reconnecting with one's identity beyond being a mom. We discuss the challenges mothers face, including postnatal depression, and offer strategies for managing sensory overwhelm and identifying personal values and strengths. The co...

This episode is a heart-to-heart and real talk about this whole idea of the "perfect mother." More than half of parents feel that they are failing in their first few years of parenthood. And our society has so many "rules" and things they deem right and wrong, so it is hard not to feel like you are failing if you aren't meeting those things. You feel like you are failing when you stress about every little decision whether it is around feeding or carrying for the tiny, helpless human in f...

Embracing the Emotional Rollercoaster of New ParenthoodIn this episode #3 of 'Mothering From Within', host Kaili Ets, a pediatric occupational therapist and mother of two, dives into the complexities and emotional rollercoasters of early parenthood. With guest expert Karen McWilliams, a seasoned birth and postnatal doula with over 20 years of experience, the conversation explores how making mistakes is essential for growth as parents, the impact of birth trauma, and the societal pressure...