29. From PERFORMATIVE to AUTHENTIC sex w Melissa Vranjes Uncensored Wellness

Faking orgasms, pornstar-style moans, pretending to like things you're really not into... Performative sex shows up in a whole range of ways. There are some truly valid reasons why women are faking their pleasure during sex, but what lives on the other side of performative sex is a drool-worthy world of authenticity and bliss. 

Melissa Vranjes is an internationally certified Holistic Sex Coach based in New Zealand and she joins me for this episode to talk all about the impacts of performing in bed, as well as the beautiful benefits of being authentic in your sexuality. Some of the things that come up during this episode are...


Reasons why you might be engaging in performative sex 
How performative sex can show up in self-pleasure 
How being performative in the bedroom can impact your entire life 
The ways that authentic sex benefits your pleasure 

And literally SO much more. This episode is here to show you that your pleasure MATTERS. 

Want to connect with Melissa? Check out her Instagram here to see how she supports hundreds of women to step past the fear and shame that sex brings and feel unbounded with the possibility of their sexuality and relationships.




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