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In this episode, my guest is Chris Voss, a former Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) agent who was the lead negotiator in many high-risk, high-consequence cases. Chris has taught negotiation courses at Harvard and Georgetown Universities and is the author of the book “Never Split the Difference.” We discuss how to navigate difficult conversations of all kinds, including in business, romance and romantic breakups, job firings and tense conversations with family and friends. Chris explains how to navigate online, in person and in written negotiations, the red flags to watch out for and how to read body and voice cues in face-to-face and phone conversations. He explains how to use empathy, certain key questions, proactive listening, emotional processing and more to ensure you reach the best possible outcome in any hard conversation. This episode ought to be of interest to anyone looking to improve their interpersonal abilities and communication skills and for those who want to be able to keep a level head in heated discussions. 
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(00:00:00) Chris Voss
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(00:04:59) Negotiation Mindset, Playfulness
(00:11:41) Calm Voice, Emotional Shift, Music
(00:18:59) “Win-Win”?, Benevolent Negotiations, Hypothesis Testing
(00:28:38) Generosity
(00:32:46) Sponsor: AG1
(00:33:44) Hostile Negotiations, Internal Collaboration
(00:39:40) Patterns & Specificity; Internet Scams, “Double-Dip”
(00:48:15) Urgency, Cons, Asking Questions
(00:54:46) Negotiations, Fair Questions, Exhausting Adversaries
(01:01:09) Sponsor: InsideTracker
(01:02:18) “Vision Drives Decision”, Human Nature & Investigation
(01:07:47) Lying & Body, “Gut Sense”
(01:15:42) Face-to-Face Negotiation, “738” & Affective Cues 
(01:20:39) Online/Text Communication; “Straight Shooters”
(01:26:47) Break-ups (Romantic & Professional), Firing, Resilience
(01:32:16) Ego Depletion, Negotiation Outcomes
(01:37:35) Readiness & “Small Space Practice”, Labeling
(01:45:17) Venting, Emotions & Listening; Meditation & Spirituality
(01:51:41) Physical Fitness, Self-Care
(01:57:01) Long Negotiations & Recharging
(02:02:40) Hostages, Humanization & Names
(02:08:50) Tactical Empathy, Compassion
(02:15:27) Tool: Mirroring Technique
(02:22:20) Tool: Proactive Listening
(02:29:48) Family Members & Negotiations
(02:35:21) Self Restoration, Humor 
(02:39:01) Fireside, Communication Courses; Rapport; Writing Projects
(02:47:45) “Sounds Like…” Perspective
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Timestamps
(00:00:00) Introduction
(00:01:46) Is There a Way to Get Better at Task Switching?
(00:32:17) Huberman Lab Premium
In the full AMA episode, we discuss:
What Can I Do in Order to Avoid Getting Brain Fog?

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This is episode 4 of a 4-part special series on mental health with Stanford and Harvard-trained psychiatrist Dr. Paul Conti, M.D. Dr. Conti explains what true self-care is and how our mental health benefits from specific self-care and introspection practices — much in the same way that our physical health benefits from certain exercise and nutrition habits. He describes how the foundation of mental health is an understanding of one’s own mind and the specific questions to ask in order to explore the conscious and unconscious parts of ourselves. He describes how this process can be done either on our own, through journaling, meditation and structured thought, or in therapy with the help of a licensed professional. He also explains how unprocessed trauma can short-circuit the process and how to prevent that, and the role of friendships and other relational support systems in the journey of self-exploration for mental health. People of all ages and those with and without self-introspection and therapy experience ought to benefit from the information in this episode.
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Timestamps
(00:00:00) Self Care
(00:02:37) Sponsors: BetterHelp & Waking Up
(00:05:34) What is Self-Care?, Foundation, Self-Understanding
(00:13:18) Life Narratives
(00:15:24) Journaling, Self-Inquiry & Therapy
(00:24:41) Unconscious Mind, Salience & Journaling; Panic Attacks
(00:28:20) Self-Inquiry; Grief & Death
(00:33:23) Sponsor: AG1
(00:34:39) Self-Harm, Hopelessness & Therapy
(00:37:27) Apprehension of Unconscious Mind Exploration
(00:42:34) Mental Health Map: Cupboards, Agency & Gratitude, Generative Drive
(00:54:18) Structure of Self, Unconscious Mind, Abscess Analogy
(01:01:57) Exploring the Unconscious Mind, Curiosity, “Question the Givens”
(01:10:48) Conscious Mind Exploration; Self Curiosity, Busyness
(01:19:20) Exploring Defense Mechanisms, Character Structure
(01:24:54) Self & Character Structure, “Tending the Garden”
(01:32:45) Function of Self Cupboards
(01:35:50) Self-Awareness Exploration, Mirror Meditation
(01:38:34) Defense Mechanisms in Action & Self-Inquiry, Patterns
(01:47:15) Salience Exploration, Grounding Meditation
(01:52:37) Behavior & Self-Reflection; Phantom Driver Analogy
(02:00:14) Self & Strivings; Empowerment & Humility
(02:09:07) Challenges in Certain Life Domains
(02:17:49) Friendships & Support, Social Media
(02:23:50) Anger & Self-Care
(02:34:18) Self-Care & Challenges
(02:38:43) Zero-Cost Support, YouTube Feedback, Spotify & Apple Reviews, Sponsors, Social Media, Momentous, Neural Network Newsletter
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In this episode, my guest is Dr. Vivek Murthy, M.D., the acting U.S. Surgeon General who earned his undergraduate degree from Harvard and his M.D. from Yale School of Medicine. We discuss nutrition, food additives, social media and mental health, public health initiatives to combat the crisis of social isolation, the obesity crisis, addiction and other pressing issues in public health. Dr. Murthy explains the role of the U.S. government in promoting specific public health issues and the steps needed to rebuild public trust in scientific and medical information. We also discuss health care accessibility, insurance barriers and individual versus team-based medical care. We also discuss topics gleaned from listener questions, such as the facts and myths about “Big Pharma” and “Big Food” industries, scientific research and public health policies.
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Timestamps
(00:00:00) Dr. Vivek Murthy
(00:01:53) Sponsors: Maui Nui & ROKA
(00:04:35) Surgeon General Roles
(00:07:44) Illness Framework, Enhancing Wellbeing
(00:12:42) Priorities as Surgeon General
(00:19:50) Public Health Message Distribution
(00:28:24) Diagnosis vs. Optimizing Health
(00:33:04) Sponsor: AG1
(00:34:01) Food Additives, Highly Processed Foods, Food Availability
(00:39:11) Difficulties Addressing Health Issues & Highly Processed Foods
(00:49:53) Retribution, Integrity & Public Trust
(00:54:41) Company Opposition
(00:58:32) Sponsor: LMNT
(00:59:50) Public Health Communication, Masks & COVID-19, Public Trust
(01:07:01) Masks, Humility; Building Public Trust
(01:10:45) Rebuilding Relationship to Public, Vaccines
(01:17:41) Community Core & Diversity; Federal Funding
(01:24:55) Big Pharma, “Pill for Every Problem” Society 
(01:31:48) Interdisciplinary Medical Teams, Individualized & Value-Based Medical Models
(01:38:44) Insurance Barriers, Mental Health Care, Drug Prices
(01:44:40) Isolation Crisis, Social Disconnection, Health Risks 
(01:49:15) Community Organizations & Modern Life, Social Media
(01:56:36) Youth & Social Media, Parents, Policy Change
(02:06:45) Real Life vs. Social Media, Kids & Playtime
(02:11:56) Social Media Advice for Parents
(02:20:43) Society & Disconnection, Human Connection & Service
(02:31:20) Zero-Cost Support, Spotify & Apple Reviews, Sponsors, YouTube Feedback, Momentous, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter
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This is episode 3 of a 4-part special series on mental health with Dr. Paul Conti, M.D., a psychiatrist who did his medical training at Stanford School of Medicine and residency at Harvard Medical School. He is the author of the book, “Trauma: The Invisible Epidemic.” Dr. Conti explains how to find, develop and strengthen healthy relationships — including romantic relationships, work and colleague relationships, and friendships. He explains a roadmap of the conscious and unconscious mind that can allow anyone to navigate conflicts better and set healthy boundaries in relationships. We also discuss common features of unhealthy relationships and clinically supported tools for dealing with relationship insecurity, excessive anxiety, past traumas, manipulation and abuse. Dr. Conti explains how, in healthy relationships, there emerges a dynamic of the mutually generative “us” and how to continually improve that dynamic. The next episode in this special series explores true self-care, which can be cultivated through a process of building self-awareness along with other important practices.  
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Timestamps
(00:00:00) Build Healthy Relationships
(00:02:04) Sponsors: BetterHelp & Waking Up
(00:05:01) Healthiest Self in Relationships
(00:10:51) Structure & Function of Self
(00:15:44) Relationships, Levels of Emergence
(00:22:48) Generative Drive in Relationships
(00:35:00) Sponsor: AG1
(00:36:26) Generative Drive, Aggressive Drive, Pleasure Drive
(00:45:16) Romantic Relationships & Matched Generative Drives, Trauma Bonds
(00:53:05) Generative Drive Expression, Libido, Giving & Taking
(01:04:29) Sponsor: Eight Sleep
(01:05:50) Generative Drive in Partnerships
(01:11:16) Libido, Avoidance & Working through Barriers
(01:18:02) Repeating Bad Relationship Patterns, Repetition Compulsion
(01:29:23) Narcissism, Dependence, Attachment Insecurity
(01:34:10) Abusive Relationships, Demoralization
(01:39:37) Oppressors, Darkness, Hope & Change
(01:48:08) Work Relationships, Oppression & Accountability
(01:53:53) Jealousy vs. Envy, Narcissism
(01:59:13) Power Dynamics in Relationships
(02:05:54) Giving vs. Taking in Relationships
(02:09:39) Transactions & Relationships; Family & Generative Drive; Flexibility
(02:19:47) Relationships & Kindergarten
(02:23:04) Anxiety in Relationships, Communication
(02:31:32) The “Magic Bridge of the Us”
(02:37:09) Mentalization, Getting into Another’s Mindset; Navigating Conflict
(02:46:51) Healthy Boundaries
(02:52:08) Self-Awareness, Mentalization
(02:55:28) “Broken Compass” & Self Inquiry, “Map” Analogy
(03:02:25) Zero-Cost Support, YouTube Feedback, Spotify & Apple Reviews, Sponsors, Social Media, Momentous, Neural Network Newsletter
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In this episode, I describe how your brain and body are fundamentally wired to perceive and respond to music and how those responses can be leveraged to improve your mood, allow for processing sad emotions and enhance learning and performance. I explain the data showing how music can increase motivation for cognitive or physical work, what specific music has been shown to enhance cognitive performance, and whether silence or music is more effective in enhancing focus while studying. I also discuss how specific musical pieces can rapidly reduce anxiety, as well as certain prescription medications. I explain how listening to certain types of music can improve various health metrics (e.g., heart rate). Finally, I discuss how music helps to enhance neuroplasticity (rewiring of brain connections), thereby improving learning and memory. Whether you sing, play an instrument or enjoy listening to music, this episode provides numerous science-informed tools for using music to enhance productivity, mood, emotional states, and overall enjoyment of life.
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The Brain Body Contract
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Timestamps
(00:00:00) Music & Your Brain
(00:03:32) The Brain Body Contract
(00:04:12) Sponsors: Eight Sleep & ROKA
(00:07:09) Music & Emotions; Brain & Body Interpretation
(00:13:03) Music & Intent; Babies, Music & Movement
(00:19:19) Tool: Health Metrics & Music, Breathing & Heart Rate
(00:29:54) Sponsor: AG1
(00:30:50) Music, Brain & Predictions
(00:38:07) Music & Brain: Novelty, Arousal, Memories
(00:44:22) Tool: Movement; Motivation & Faster Music
(00:50:49) Tool: Cognitive Work & Binaural Beats
(00:54:11) Silence or Music for Studying?, White Noise, Binaural Beats
(00:58:47) Tool: Retain Information & Internal Dialogue
(01:00:53) Tool: Focus, Work Breaks & Music
(01:04:11) Physical Exercise, Performance & Music
(01:07:37) Sponsor: InsideTracker
(01:08:43) Music & Shifting Mood
(01:14:41) “Happy” vs. “Sad” Music, “One-Hit Wonders” & Artificial Intelligence
(01:19:30) “Bass Face”; Music, Movement & Facial Expressions
(01:22:46) Tools: Shift to Happy Mood with Music; Sad Mood Catharsis
(01:27:30) Tool: Music & Reducing Anxiety, “Weightless”
(01:31:16) Playing Instruments, Singing & Brain Connectivity
(01:39:58) Music & the Brain
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