Enneagram and Marriage Enneagram and Marriage

It feels so good to be known and seen for who we are, as well as to have clarified spaces from which to grow. To this end, today’s special shorter episode is a walk-through of the Enneagram type Fours and who they are, as well as who they can become as they walk toward health. If you're a Four, learn how to become the healthiest version of yourself in relationship and take a special mini-peek at how Fours relate with each and every type in marriage or relationship of any kind. Enjoy this episode as you learn more about yourself, your partner, or your family members right here! Watch on YouTube here!
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There are certain social epidemic trends to pay attention to in life certainly, such as reproductive and mating strategies. However, when we say "all men" or "all women" or all parts of one racial or other identified group do something or other in marriage, or we ingroup and outgroup, we're dealing with the group attribution bias. This social cognitive bias causes us to shortchange healthy logic to assume a person’s traits are similar to the traits of the group they are affiliated with and that may not be the case. Uncover why humans often feel it's beneficial to bring these biases to marriage and relationships, and learn how to mitigate your cognitive social distortions as we continue to learn together to create the very best marriages together right here!

Today, we get to chat with Chris and Jenny Graebe (7w8 and 1w9 pairing) about how they slow down to create healthy rhythms for their marriage and for a healthy, intentional life of love and faith with their five kids. They also share from both their first book together, 📖 The Rhythm of Us, and their brand new book, The Rhythm of Home as well. They talk about how through exploring five intentional practices of flourishing families, you will learn to

map out a vision for your family legacy,

create a home environment that supports your deepest family values,

connect on a deeper level with your kids in ways that will last a lifetime, and

shape a loving and joy-filled family culture.



Whether you are just starting your family or are farther along in your journey, The Rhythm of Home will help you create a strong foundation. Listen here as they share!
Get their new book right here! https://a.co/d/0f5tlyEd
Find their website: https://www.therhythmofus.com/about-us
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Connect with Jenni on Instagram here! https://www.instagram.com/jennigraebe/?hl=en
Dive deeper into your pairing and Enneagram & Marriage love! 🥳💕 Get your copy of Christa's book "The Enneagram in Marriage" book right here: https://www.amazon.com/Enneagram-Marriage-Thriving-Together-Pairing/dp/1540903370
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It feels so good to be known and seen for who we are, as well as to have clarified spaces from which to grow. To this end, today’s special shorter episode is a walk-through of the Enneagram type Fives and who they are, as well as who they can become as they walk toward health. If you're a Five, learn how to become the healthiest version of yourself in relationship and take a special mini-peek at how Fives relate with each and every type in marriage or relationship of any kind. Enjoy this episode as you learn more about yourself, your partner, or your family members right here! Watch on YouTube here!
Dive deeper into your pairing and Enneagram & Marriage love! 🥳💕 Get your copy of Christa's book "The Enneagram in Marriage" book right here: https://www.amazon.com/Enneagram-Marriage-Thriving-Together-Pairing/dp/1540903370
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Couples can and do create unconscious mental shortcuts to understand one another better. But when those shortcuts are becoming mostly negative, we forget about the positive heuristics available to us as well. We also deepen concerns when we only choose to swiftly record and remember the negative moments and actions of our partner, as we naturally do with the availability and anchoring heuristic tendencies of humans, in terms of mental shortcuts. Learn here with Christa about these biases that are likely hurting your marriage and relationship so you can function so much healthier and happier again!

Do you feel like you have a lot of work goals but can't seem to accomplish anything in the allotted time your day actually gives you? Do you feel frenetic because you're trying to do a good job at work but then your family life, not to mention your marriage or life with God, is majorly lacking? There are so many shifts we can make as humans, and each of us will have to move a bit differently to accomplish the goal of margin and redeeming our time so we can each make every day count. Yet there are throughlines for all of us to learn for efficiency and for the most inspired life and today Christa is joined by multiple best-selling author Jordan Raynor to walk you through them, as he shares the deeply hopeful and healthy plans for a productive + relational life in Christ. Through his bestselling books (The Sacredness of Secular Work, Redeeming Your Time, The Creator in You, etc.), keynote speeches, podcasts, and devotionals, Jordan has helped millions of Christians in every country on earth connect the gospel to their work. 
In addition to his writing and speaking, Jordan serves as the Executive Chairman of Threshold 360, a venture-backed tech startup that Jordan previously ran as CEO following a string of successful ventures of his own. 
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Find Jordan's Bible App Plan "Redeeming Your Time" https://www.bible.com/reading-plans/27704-redeeming-your-time
Find Jordan on Instagram right here! https://www.instagram.com/jordanraynor/?hl=en
Dive deeper into your pairing and Enneagram & Marriage love! 🥳💕 Grab "The Enneagram in Marriage" book right here: https://www.amazon.com/Enneagram-Marriage-Thriving-Together-Pairing/dp/1540903370
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