Because I'm a Lady, That's Why‪!‬ Jen and Sav

November 20th is Transgender Day of Remembrance, a day where we take the time to honor the trans people who have lost their lives in the fight for justice, for simply being trans. Stigmatization and fear is used to justify violence, and this is something that cannot be ignored in our communities.  We would like to dedicate this episode to Brooklyn Deshauna Smith, a 20 y/o trans woman who was shot and killed in Shreveport last month.  To her family and friends, we offer our deepest condolences. Shreveport close to all of us involved in this podcast, so her loss hits close to home.  Today, we are joined by Yngrid, who will be discussing her experiences as a transwoman with us, as well.



Please check out these wonderful resources and charities: 

https://www.latransadvocates.org

https://marshap.org/

https://www.glitsinc.org/

https://www.theokraproject.com/

https://www.hrc.org/news/hrc-mourns-brooklyn-deshuna-black-trans-woman-killed-in-louisiana

RIP Brooklyn Deshauna Smith.


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Welcome back to Because I’m a Lady That’s Why, a podcast about responding to anti-femme issues in a ladylike fashion.

In today’s episode, I would like to discuss the red flags that indicate an abuser in relationships.  No two relationships are the same, but there are patterns that appear in abusive relationships. It can take years and years to see abuse for what it is.



This was a difficult episode to record. It was emotional, but it is imperative that those who recognize that they are being abused seek help.  Here are some valuable resources: 

http://www.usafvshelter.org/red-flags-warning-signs-of-an-abusive-personality

https://www.thehotline.org/ Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) for Domestic Abuse Hotline

https://ncadv.org/STATISTICS

https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/types-of-abuse/

https://lcadv.org/programs-resources/

Reading:

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/224552.Why_Does_He_Do_That_

Freyd, J.J. (1997) Violations of power, adaptive blindness, and betrayal trauma theory. Feminism & Psychology, 7, 22-32.


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Today’s episode is about breastfeeding in public and the free the nipple movement! This is part 3 in a series about modesty culture and women’s health.  Please excuse the delayed release of this episode.  Work and distractions have been abundant recently. Thank you for continuing to listen because I am excited to tell you all about the history of the movement, the facts about the law, and to introduce our special guest today! My dear friend Jessica joined me to share her experience as a breastfeeding mother.



Resources:

https://gotopless.org/topless-laws

https://www.wikiwand.com/en/Topfreedom_in_the_United_States

For doula, Brittany Maddox (reopening in DEC 2020): 

https://www.advanceddoulacare.com/

Tips and Laws for Nursing Mothers:

https://www.whattoexpect.com/first-year/breastfeeding/breastfeeding-in-public/






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 I will be discussing the importance of breast cancer awareness.  This is part two in a series discussing modesty culture and women’s health. Breast cancer is the second biggest killer of women (second to lung cancer). Early detection and awareness are the best defense, but many young women are ignoring the steps they should take to monitor their own health.   My guest today is Amanda Tamaccio, a talented, little bombshell of a lady who was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2019. In a year’s time, her whole life has changed. I asked to interview her in today’s episode so that listeners may hear about how important breast cancer awareness is from someone who knows better than I.

Venmo to support Amanda @amandatamaccio

Listen to her croon with her band Star Chamber on Spotify.  (They are amazing!) @starchamberband (Insta)

Check your boobies! 

https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/breast-exam/about/pac-20393237




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This episode is Part one in a series that exploring of the culture of modesty and how it affects women’s health!  We shouldn’t be ashamed/scared/bullied into covering up our bodies! We have liberties that should be protected. So when I say, “cover it up” here, I’m not just talking about covering up the parts of the body, the skin. I am also talking about covering up issues that are important. What do you say? Shall we expose them?


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As the spooky season Falls upon us, I will be doing a three-part series on how embarrassment and shame should be tossed OUT the window when it gets in the way of your health and wellness. Breast is not a dirty word. You should not shy away from taking care of your body or your safety for the sake of modesty. 

Pt. 1 Modesty Culture and Rape Culture (Thursday, October 15th!)

Pt.2 Breast Cancer Awareness w/ Special Guest Amanda Tomaccio

Pt. 3 Breastfeeding in Public and the Free the Nipple Movement

P.S. My wonderful co-host Sav is taking a hiatus to focus on self-care. If you would like to send her some encouraging words, please send an e-mail to becauseimaladypodcast@gmail.com 

Feel free to e-mail topic requests or your experiences/thoughts with topics that we have discussed on the show anytime!


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