Order of Man Ryan Michler

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, uncover why the lone wolf mentality, often romanticized in media, is a recipe for disaster when reality hits hard. Learn how engaging in activities like jujitsu can foster essential connections, promoting not just competition and improvement but genuine camaraderie among men.
Ryan emphasizes the importance of intentionally seeking out manly activities to meet like-minded individuals. From shooting at the gun range to playing basketball and participating in Spartan races, these activities are more than just hobbies—they are avenues to forge lasting friendships. Ryan breaks down the initial discomfort that comes with meeting new people and highlight the power of asking for help as a connection strategy. Personal anecdotes illustrate how these efforts have led to meaningful and supportive networks.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:45) Building a Band of Brothers
(04:20) Connecting Through Manly Activities
(16:05) Building Bonds Through Activities
(21:16) Strong Male Relationships Through Vulnerability
(30:47) Engage, Connect, and Take Action
 
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What happens when a chaotic Monday meets groundbreaking political news? In this week's Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp dive deep into the potential fallout of Kamala Harris stepping in, the disappointment of Biden’s 14 million voters, and the legal mess that might follow. Plus, check out Ryan's latest gear: a Sig Sauer P365X Macro pistol and Ryan's rugged hike in Capitol Reef and why he switched from Glock to Sig.
Ryan and Kipp also tackle the crucial role of community and moral responsibility, especially in California's shifting legislative landscape. They lay out a solid case for teaching personal responsibility and resilience in strong, engaged communities, particularly for kids who lack stable home environments. Their conversation delves into managing a busy household, financial pressures, and the emotional regulation needed to lead a family effectively. 
Finally, discover how to build sustainable habits and forge strong relationships with actionable advice from Ryan and Kipp. From crushing fitness goals to building meaningful connections through trust and vulnerability, they've got you covered. This episode is packed with insights to help you stay balanced, overcome personal challenges, and strengthen family bonds.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
- (00:00) Episode Intro
- (00:43) New Toys - Firearms and Knives
- (12:10) Community Responsibility and Mentorship
- (17:24) Emotional Regulation and Parental Responsibility
- (25:47) Mindfulness and Emotional Regulation
- (36:21) Sustainable Rewards and Achievements
- (42:25) Effective Relationship Building Strategies
- (48:55) Letting Go
- (57:43) Building Trust Through Vulnerability
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With all the world has to throw at you and me, it would be easy to allow life to get the better of us. Hell, in many circles, it’s expected and tolerated, if not encouraged. That isn’t how any of us here in Order of Man choose to live our lives. Instead, we choose to step up to the challenges we face and conquer them in spite of tremendous odds.
My guest, good friend and founder of MTNOPS, Trevor Farnes, is a man who knows how to do exactly that. Today, we talk about his very humble beginnings, how he built MTNOPS into a globally recognized supplement company when his goal at the time was to serve his ailing father, why he doesn’t believe in compartmentalizing his life, how to have abundance even in scarcity, and why the most powerful place to serve is to the person you once were.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) - Episode Intro
(04:50) Conquer More
(15:31) Morning Scripture Routine for 27 Years
(19:43) Daily Family Scripture Study and Fitness
(22:60) Prioritizing Core Values for Decision-Making
(28:40) Abundance in Sacrifice
(38:31) Faith, Consistency, and Abundance
(50:08) Building Financial Success Through Partnership
(01:01:26) Emotional Connection in Book Writing
 
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Reflecting on Ryan's journey from emotional turbulence to stability, this episode unpacks how making a woman feel safe and secure can transform a relationship. Ryan recounts his own battles with emotional volatility, particularly exacerbated by alcohol misuse, and the pivotal role of becoming a consistent, reliable partner. By grounding the relationship in emotional stability, the potential for deeper connections, shared joy, and adventurous experiences is unlocked.
The episode also touches on the interplay between emotional and financial stability, showing how these two elements are essential for a secure relationship. Emotional steadiness allows for open, honest communication, while financial security reduces stress and opens doors for future planning. Ryan dives into practical tips, like managing finances with disciplined strategies and cultivating marketable skills, to minimize financial strains and focus on what truly matters—your connection with your partner.
Finally, the episode explores actionable steps to build strength in a relationship from both a financial and personal standpoint. Using methods like Dave Ramsey's debt snowball, investing in personal development, and ensuring physical and emotional protection are key. Ryan discusses the importance of fitness, situational awareness, and even self-defense training to become your partner's rock. Join him as he maps out a path to becoming the partner you aspire to be, offering insights and strategies that are both practical and transformative.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) - Episode Intro
(00:50) - Building Emotional Stability in Relationships  
(04:27) - Emotional Stability and Financial Security  
(10:55) - Building Strength in Relationships  
(18:36) - Creating Safety and Security in Relationships
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The attempted assassination of former President Trump ignites a firestorm of reactions and exposes the deeply entrenched polarization within American politics. Join Ryan and Kipp as they dissect this dark weekend and its aftermath, questioning the fragile notion of unity in a nation increasingly divided. Can they foster civil discourse amidst a culture of demonizing opposing viewpoints, or are we too far gone? Their discussion underscores the urgent need for awareness and preparation for potentially dangerous times ahead.
High-stress situations call for precise decision-making, especially when influenced by the inflammatory language of powerful figures. Drawing from personal military experiences, Ryan and Kipp scrutinize the complexities surrounding such events and the importance of articulating disagreements to fuel personal growth. They weigh the tough decisions between action and hesitation when assessing threats, emphasizing the role of structured planning and replicable systems in achieving consistent results—whether in personal goals or community contributions.
Personal connections and learning together without ego are crucial, especially in an age of digital distractions. Ryan and Kipp explore the significance of maintaining in-person relationships, setting boundaries for focus, and inviting friends into more social, real-world activities. Through shared experiences, like hands-on learning between fathers and their children, they emphasize the value of bonding and imparting practical skills. Additionally, they address how to navigate grief and loss, embracing difficult emotions to honor loved ones and foster deeper, more meaningful connections. Join them for an episode packed with critical insights and practical advice for navigating these challenging times.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) - Episode Intro
(00:40) - Political Polarization and Civil Discourse
(15:46) - Security Detail and Response Evaluation
(27:01) - Creating Replicatable Results Through Planning
(40:46) - Setting Boundaries for Focus and Relationships
(53:20) - Learning Together Without Ego
(58:17) - Navigating Grief and Loss Together
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With the recent assassination attempt of former President, Donald Trump, it’s easy to see how political tensions continue to racket up. And, it’s becoming increasingly obvious that we, as men, must be prepared to protect ourselves and others at a moment’s notice.
My guest today, former Navy SEAL, Clint Emerson, has made a career of developing personal readiness in himself and others. Today, we talk about the missteps and conspiracy theories around Trump’s recent assassination attempt, how DEI initiatives endanger us all, when discrimination can be useful, why time equals opportunity and why opportunity equals survivability in these situations, the “run, hide, fight,” mentality, and how the Chinese could potentially start an American civil war without getting their hands dirty.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) - Episode Intro
(04:54) - Security Protocols and Armchair Quarterbacking  
(15:43) - Security Measures and Gender Roles  
(24:43) - Security Protocol and Crisis Response  
(38:41) - Tactical Decision Making and Civil Unrest  
(49:22) - Foreign Invasion and Border Security  
(59:26) - Personal Preparedness and Responsibility
Battle Planners: Pick yours up today!
Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.
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Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready