Radiantly Awakened with Emelitta Da Silva Emelitta Da Silva

In this episode I interview GS Youngblood, author of the book, The Masculine in Relationship. This book is a game-changer. It has changed so many lives & benefited countless relationships (including my own!) which is why I’m so honoured to have GS on the podcast. 


What we cover:


GS tells his story of being in a marriage, struggling with feeling emasculated and how this pushed him to start the journey of truly living from his masculine core

GS explains what masculine / feminine polarity means & the benefits of working with these polarities

How the man’s way of showing up in a relationship can impact his feminine partners level of openness or contribute to her closing off

How feminine partners can express themselves to their masculine partners & inspire their partner to do “the work”

The 3 pillars of the Masculine Blueprint (Respond vs React, Provide Structure & Create Safety) & how this relates to the Stoic, A**hole, & Nice Guy archetypes

How embodiment is crucial for breaking dysfunctional patterns & how it is the #1 thing men can do to benefit their relationships & their capacity for intensity

Finding the middle ground between the nice guy & the alpha a**hole

Why takes so long for men to seek help, usually before it’s too late, & solutions to this

I hope you find so much wisdom within this episode to help benefit your relationships & your life. Let me know how this landed for you by sending me a DM on Insta.


Lots of love,


Emelitta



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*  In this epsiode there is a focus on cis-gender, heterosexual relationships.


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GS coaches men in relationship how to live, love, and lead from their Masculine core. He is the author of "The Masculine in Relationship", which lays out a three-part blueprint for developing more Masculine energy. He is also the author of "The Art of Embodiment for Men", which teaches men how to build and maintain a daily embodiment practice, which is the #1 thing a man can do to build his Masculine core. His work in this domain of Masculine leadership pulls in principles from a variety of fields: psychology, spirituality, martial arts, tango, meditation, and BDSM.
 
GS also online courses and live coaching opportunities, including his flagship workshop that helps men develop more dark sexual energy.
 
His website: www.gsyoungblood.com/
Follow GS on IG: @gsyoungbloodmir

My somatic psychotherapist has helped me with so, so much and I am SO excited to have her on the podcast. Laura is someone with a wealth of experience, knowledge, compassion & brings so much richness to my life. This is such a great episode. 

We go into:


Laura’s journey with embodiment through yoga, dance, plant medicine & how her health issues inspired her to connect deeper with her body

Laura’s take on what somatics & embodiment actually mean & why incorporating a mind-body approach is such a strong part of repatterning trauma

Why talk therapy alone may not be enough to heal

The true gifts of embodiment & how it impacts our life

Embodiment as a social justice act

Having compassion for ourselves when we go back into old patterns

Emelitta’s story of how she used to bypass her needs & how she identifies, speaks & meets her needs now

People dancing on Instagram & calling it embodiment - is it empowerment or attention seeking?

Trauma & hypersexuality vs sexual repression - finding the middle ground

What does it mean to be “trauma informed” & why do people think it’s a cult?


Hope you love it so much! Let us know how it lands.



Lots of love,


Emelitta



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Laura is an embodiment facilitator who is also a somatic psychotherapist, counsellor, mover, yoga teacher & bodyworker with more than a decade of experience in body-based therapies.  She supports individuals who are seeking to transform stress, trauma, anxiety, overwhelm, PTSD and depression through a somatic &  a spiritually-oriented approach to therapy and embodiment practices. This work also helps Laura to stay  centred, humbled and connected to her path.
Laura describes herself as empathetic, open minded, grounded, kind-hearted, authentic and a deep listener.   Above all, Laura is dedicated to love, self-empowerment, inspiration, service and connection.
 
Laura loves to be of service to others and witness them heal themselves, realising that they don’t have to be stuck and can come back to alignment and healing in a grounded way.
 
Laura’s website: https://www.lauraemilia.com.au/
Follow Laura on IG: @lauraemilia.__

This episode is for those of us who have ever struggled with our boundaries… So basically all of us on Planet Earth right now. Boundaries are so crucial if we want to live this life with fulfilling relationships, less triggers, feeling more empowered, and capable.


Unfortunately not many of us grew up with an upbringing that supported the cultivation of a healthy boundary system. This episode is for those who already think they understand how to have healthy boundaries and for those who are still getting started.


Damien is brilliant at explaining these concepts. You might have thought you had a good understanding on what boundaries are and how they apply to your life… At least that’s what I thought before coming across Damien’s work. His understanding and explanation of these concepts was unlike anything I’d ever come across before. Buckle in because you’re about to have your mind blown in the best way possible and be gifted with so much valuable insight.


In this episode, we cover:
What is authentic relating and how can it assist you in developing relational intelligence?The 2 main blocks humans have that are in the way of relational harmonyAn explanation of how your childhood & your nervous system impact your relationshipsHow to identify a regulated vs. a dysregulated nervous system stateThe media & the mythology of the anxious-avoidant danceWhat are boundaries? Dispelling the confusion between healthy boundaries & putting up wallsExamples of how your childhood may have impacted your boundary systemA breakdown of the different types of boundaries and understanding how they are relevant to your relationshipsSteps for you to start developing more healthy, elegant boundaries


This episode is so freaking valuable & Damien is so generous with everything he shares. I hope it has such a positive impact on you & all of your relationships.


Let me know how it lands for you!


Lots of love,


Emelitta



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Damien is an intimacy geek, evolutionary pioneer and investigator. He inquiries deeply, facilitates and teaches in the worlds of authentic relating, attachment, nervous system regulation, boundaries, polarity, integral theory and much more. His gift resides in the ability to synthesis complex knowledge and present it in digestible and impactful form. The containers he facilitates are transformative experiences and his greatest passion is in supporting the evolution of consciousness on planet earth. 
You find Damien via:
Instagram: @evorelating
Facebook: Damien Bohler
Website: evolutionaryrelating.org

I cannot wait for you to join Jamie & I on this podcast episode journey. Jamie has been a significant part of my growth since we met in 2018. She brings so much wisdom, clarity & love to the space. There are many pieces of wisdom for you to take in from this episode. Words really cannot describe, but I’ll try…


In this episode, we cover:
Moving from self-abandonment, self-betrayal, self-avoidance to arriving at spacious self-occupancyThe process of turning inward instead of seeking outside of yourselfSpirit Encouraged Life-Force (SELF) vs. Essence Getting Obstructed (EGO)Creating the space & trusting the processHow to best put your mind/ego to workWhen to pivot vs. when to persevere Tuning into your heart

Sending you so much love. I hope you enjoy it so much. This episode has me feeling all warm & fuzzy inside.


Love you.


Love, 
Emelitta



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Interested in my upcoming 4 week program, Cherished? You can find more details via bit.ly/to-be-cherished


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Jamie is a Transformation Guide passionate and deeply dedicated to supporting others through significant periods of life-changes and spiritual awakening. Jamie specialises in providing individualised guidance in creating spaciousness and trust in one’s body, heart and intuition as they reclaim their authority, creativity and voice. Jamie is gifted at translating and bringing forward subconscious information beneath energy blockages from a spiritual etheric level down to the physical, cellular and emotional level. 
 
Her potent body of work has impacted and initiated tremendous positive change in one's relationships, health, career, creativity and a plethora of expansive environmental circumstances both inside and out.
 
Jamie’s work is accessible both in-person in Brisbane Australia as well as digitally worldwide.
 
Follow Jamie on Instagram: @jamieshujun
Jamie’s Website: www.jamieshujun.com
Link to our IG live chat ~ PIVOT: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CaZD0U_h7d3/

Hello my loves! Today we have a really important, and in my opinion, really needed conversation around the topics of masculinity, fatherhood, parenting & relationships. I found this conversation to be a healing remembrance and highly refreshing. I highly, highly recommend listening. There’s just so much here. 


In this episode, we cover:
Simplicity in relation to “gender roles”Relating to the male brain vs the female brainParenting emotionally healthy young boys/menRaising men as a single motherWhy is masculinity important?How her radiance is your responsibility as a man& so much more!

I hope this episode benefits you greatly.


Lots of love,


Em x



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* Disclaimer: In this episode there is a focus on cis-gender, heterosexual relationships.


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Ryan is a former college baseball player and the founder and CEO of his own tech company. He’s currently writing a book entitled “The Wisdom of King’s”. Much of his writing can be found on his Instagram page where he writes insightful content on Masculinity, Relationships, Fatherhood, and Personal Growth.


He’s been married to his wife Lauren for 13 years, and has two sons aged 13 and 11.
 
Follow Ryan on Instagram: @thewisdomofkings

Hey everyone! Gosh, I loved this episode. Having this conversation with Jessica was soothing balm to my soul. We went DEEP really quick into so many necessary topics, and yet I am so amazed at how light and inspiring this conversation is. The transmission is medicine. Jessica carries herself in such a way that is so uplifting and inspires hope. I hope you love this episode and get so much from it, just like I did.


We speak about:
Dismantling the codes that are keeping humans stuck in patterns of bondage & slavery (like I said - real deep, real quick)Jessica shares her journey of where she was physically, mentally, spiritually & emotionally in the past, to now, where she is experiencing greater freedom & abundance than ever beforeLiving according to your values by living off grid - Jessica shares her experience of removing herself & her family from the ‘system’Jessica tells us about how her recent trip to Egypt & Greece happened and all the magic of her experienceTaking full responsibility for everything in your life, the challenges of that & the blessings that followJessica’s journey with the Healy deviceLessons of being in a 20 year partnership

I hope you love it so much! Reach out on IG and let me know your takeaways.


Lots of love,


Em x


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Jessica Hesser is a poetic activator, esoteric healing arts guide, and women’s leader.
Jessica’s mission is to awaken people to their creative power and potential; to inspire them to a life of beauty and joy. On the dawn of this great human evolution she sees an opportunity for both individual and collective liberation and helps guide people to remembrance of their original blueprint, their natural sovereignty and quantum capacity. 
Jessica is devoted to seeking spiritual truth. This path has led her to a radical experience of intimacy with life and a deep, embodied experience of wholeness. She is honored to share her journey as it helps to facilitate transformation for others. Jessica has worked in the healing arts spaces for over 15 years as a yoga and meditation teacher, breath-work facilitator, holistic fitness specialist, and founder of Mantras + Miracles.
Jessica splits her time between an off-grid eco-farm in Hawaii and a cabin in the mountains of Montana. 
 
Follow Jessica on Instagram: @jessicaalixhesser
Jessica’s website: www.jessicahesser.com