REAL LIFE TALK WITH BLESSING King B

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Why do single mothers who remarry behave like their life depends on the marriage, they don’t want their children in quote spoil their marriage or break their marriage..

I don’t understand how you will turn your back on your child because you are with a new man ..

So there is this young girl someone brought to live with me .. she is about 17yrs .
She told me her mother was married to another man and the man didn’t want to see her.. and the mom already has children for him..

There is one thing I need to let a lot of you parents know!!
When you love a child , it’s hard to influence that child outside, because the love you have given to that child will bring trust and confidence and if anyone tries to influence them , you will be the first to hear because they trust you..

But when you push a child away, the wickedness of the world is waiting to show the child other options..

Do you know why I say this? Because I want you to understand from this story ..

Some months after she resumed she said she was going for her grandpa’s burial.. I said no problem, gave her transport and she left..
She stayed one week in the village and came back..

I travelled to Italy for a while and while I was away I had a neighbor who I actually begged to help me look over my apartment.

When she called me she told me the girl who works for me said she wanted to leave.. I was shocked , so I called her mr told her to be patient I will soon return

Me she said ok

I returned about a week later and immediately I saw her I noticed her face was chubby and she was bloated .. so I asked her if she had her period she said yes…

I didn’t say anything the next morning immediately I woke up I went to her room and told her to dress up that we needed to pick something, she did and I took her straight to the lab. They did a pregnancy test and this little girl was pregnant.. so she wanted to leave before I returned so I won’t know she was pregnant

Anyway I took her back home and called her family that brought her to me, so we can find out how she got pregnant.. and who was responsible

So I got the mothers number from her so I cal talk to her woman to woman, but I got the shock of my life ..


I put a call through to the mother of the pregnant young girl, I introduce myself and told her the situation her daughter is in..

And all this woman would say is MADAM PLEASE my husband must not hear about something like this he is a pastor ..

😱 like What???? You mean that is more important? I was so angry and I told her to stop talking like that, but this woman continued .. I lost it at that point , like how can you not even be interested in who did this yo your daughter instead you are talking about your husband and his church.. I really felt disappointed because this and many more is what children suffer , they suffer neglect, the suffer rape and all sorts of abuse .. and a single mother would rather face her new man.. I gave her a piece of my mind .. that she is not worthy of the title

MY NAMNY IS PREGNANT

Mind you when she came I took her for medial screening so she was ok health wise and not pregnant..

After she got back from that buy

My parents are bullies !!!! Is this how you will be described? So here is the story !!! A woman is beside me in the salon I went to some days ago, a child walked up to her and angrily she said WHAT IS IT? The child was quiet , and the next thing she said is , stop disgracing yourself, The child went closer and this woman slapped her
I was furious and said madam what is it , why will you bring up a child the way you were raised, then I said “you can’t even ask the child what is the issues was or why was she looking sad” I had to intervene…
I asked the child her name she said Sophia , oh what a lovely name, come my dear

I pulled her close and told her to sit beside me.. I asked the almighty question… WHAT IS WRONG MY DEAR.. and she said the hair is too tight , omg I checked the place she complained about and it was looking like the strands were about to cut …

I immediately called the stylist to loose the part she was complaining about.. this is how toxic some parents are, bullies !! And they groom their children to become one.. hope you enjoyed this and put it to practice.. see you soon.

Today’s episode is dedicated to my mother-in-law who passed away in 2017.. today it struck me with so much memories and I wonder what if someone somewhere actually need some encouragement right now … I know exactly how it feels , I know how you feel.. but trust me when I say YOU WILL BE FINE .. you are not gonna forget but you will heal and you will carry the memories of them for life .. be strong you will pull through .. much love KingB .