Spicy Fat Women in Media Network

Host Carlen Costa discusses the significance of Pride and its historical roots in the LGBTQ+ community. She explains the difference between gender and sex, and highlights the importance of recognizing and respecting diverse gender identities while addressing current issues facing the LGBTQ+ community, such as proposed legislation in Alberta that would require parental consent for transgender kids to use their preferred names and pronouns. She emphasizes that Pride is not just a celebration, but a political movement for equality and inclusivity.
Some Resources you can explore in reference to today's episode:
Government of Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/women-gender-equality/pride-season.html
Pride Toronto: https://www.pridetoronto.com
Stats Canada: https://www.statcan.gc.ca/o1/en/plus/4192-pride-canada
Queer Events: https://www.queerevents.ca/canada/pride/history
History.com: https://www.history.com/topics/gay-rights/the-stonewall-riots

Host Carlen Costa interviews Dr. Riley Kirk, a cannabis research scientist and educator. They discuss the intentional and informed use of psychedelics and cannabis for mental health and wellness. Dr. Kirk shares her experiences as a cannabis researcher and the challenges she faces in obtaining funding and conducting research. They also explore the importance of communication and education in the cannabis industry, particularly in relation to women's health and pregnancy, wellness, and healing. They touch on topics such as the safety of cannabis use, the importance of harm reduction, and the potential benefits of cannabis and psychedelics for neurodivergent individuals. They also discuss the importance of understanding one's own body and using plant medicine intentionally. Riley shares her ongoing research on the chemistry of cannabis smoke and the factors that contribute to the smokeability of cannabis. They emphasize the need for education and informed decision-making when it comes to using cannabis and psychedelics.
More about Dr. Riley Kirk:
She obtained her Ph.D. in pharmaceutical sciences, specializing in natural product chemistry where she studied the traditional and contemporary uses of hundreds of medicinal plants. She has worked as an immunology scientist in the biotech industry, currently is an assistant associate professor at the University of Rhode Island and has worked in the cannabis industry studying the chemical complexity of cannabis smoke. 
Riley is passionate about making Cannabis science accessible through social media channels and hosts an educational podcast called Bioactive which disseminates the chemistry and pharmacology of natural products. Riley is the co-founder of the cannabis research and education non-profit organization called the Network of Applied Pharmacognosy (NAP). NAP is using science as advocacy to research and communicate findings that highlight the unique power of natural products. The goal of Riley’s work is to unite people in the Cannabis industry, academia, and consumers to further the reach of Cannabis education and reduce harm.
Listen to Dr. Riley Kirk's Bioactive Podcast: https://www.bioactivepodcast.com/
Follow Dr. Riley Kirk on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cannabichem/
Follow Dr. Riley Kirk on Youtube: https://youtube.com/@cannabichem?si=LF7p_KOkCXcaOoZK
Chapters
(00:00) Exploring the Intentional and Informed Use of Psychedelics and Cannabis
(04:31) Challenges and Opportunities in Cannabis Research
(11:53) The Importance of Communication and Education in the Cannabis Industry
(33:43) Exploring the Use of Cannabis and Psychedelics for Wellness and Healing
(41:30) Cannabis and ADHD
(49:38) Hallucinogen Persisting Perception Disorder
(53:07) Set and Setting for Psychedelic Experiences
(57:41) Hormones and Cannabis Use
(01:02:08) The Science of Smokeability
(01:05:14) Connecting with Riley Kirk and Additional Resources

Have you ever been sold a course or experience that promises to connect you to your authentic self? In this episode, Carlen reflects on the grifting culture that can often convince you that you aren’t good enough and need to be more authentic. She discusses the concept of "finding one's authentic self." While exploring her own journey, she reflects about authenticity in society; it is not just about when we feel happy or powerful. She concludes that when it's implied that people aren’t authentic in their everyday lives, it can negatively impact our mental health. Carlen explores some common themes that seem to be recurring in recent sessions within her psychotherapy practice. Carlen challenges the idea that authenticity is something to be sought after, emphasizing that we are already authentic in our responses and experiences. She encourages listeners to embrace all aspects of themselves and make choices that align with who they are. Carlen leaves listeners with a few exercises for embracing your already authentic self.
Takeaways

Authenticity is not something to be sought after; we are already authentic in our responses and experiences.

Embrace all aspects of yourself, including the uncomfortable and vulnerable parts.

Make choices that align with who you are and what you truly want.

Normalize discomfort and make room for the tough stuff in relationships and personal growth.

Practice self-compassion and acceptance in times of uncertainty.


In this episode, Carlen mentions her book: https://www.carlencosta.com/thelovebook

Sarah Nicole Landry, also known as The Bird’s Papaya, joins the Spicy Fat Podcast to discuss her journey through body image, motherhood and radical self-love. She discusses her perspective on sharing personal moments of her life on social media and creating a space for followers to connect and find inspiration. The conversation explores authenticity on social media, the impact of negativity, and the importance of empathy and humanity when we interact online.
Carlen and Sarah also discuss finding joy within yourself and the process of reinvention. Sarah speaks about both the challenges and rewards of being an influencer and entrepreneur, and her experiences with the right partners in designing clothing collections. 
Sarah Nicole Landry aka @TheBirdsPapaya is a divorced and remarried mom of four (babies to teens) who loves cultivating powerful social media conversations around life and our experiences in it. Sarah is a body confidence advocate, speaker, writer, 6x cover girl and weekly podcast host. Recent notable career achievements include the 2020 Iris Awards “Instagrammer of the Year”, as well as one of Today’s Parent’s “Most Influential Parents”. Her lifestyle includes approximately 22,000 unanswered emails, 14 empty cups in her car, and peanut butter straight from the jar. She wrote this bio about herself.
As Sarah says on her website: I am a body confidence advocate, speaker, writer, occasional model, and weekly podcast host and an ongoing student of life. If you like what you see, I hope you’ll grab a snack, sit down and stay a while.
Topics:

Authenticity and Inspiration on Social Media

Navigating the Real and Curated Aspects of Social Media

Setting Boundaries and Dealing with Negativity

The Importance of Empathy and Humanity in Online Interactions

The Bravery and Vulnerability of Sharing on Social Media

Navigating Criticism and Gossip in the Online World

The Power of Community and Connection

Embracing Joy and Living Authentically

The Journey of an Influencer and Entrepreneur

Investing in Yourself and Your Dreams

Navigating Fear and Imposter Syndrome


Find out more about Sarah Nicole Landry: https://thebirdspapaya.com/
Listen to her podcast: https://thebirdspapaya.com/the-papaya-podcast/

Disclaimer: In this episode, Carlen will discuss sexual assault and violence. Host Carlen Costa shares her personal experience of sexual assault and discusses the many impacts it can have on victims. She provides statistics, definitions, and examples of different types of sexual assault while providing support for both survivors and their friends and family. She also highlights the need for systemic change and encourages listeners to take action and support organizations that help survivors.
Takeaways for victims:


Your safety is important. Are you in a safe place? If you’re not feeling safe, consider reaching out to someone you trust for support. You don’t have to go through this alone.


What happened was not your fault. Something happened to you that you didn’t want to happen—and that’s not OK.


Call someone you love. Anyone. It is not in your best interest to be alone or carry this alone. 


Consider receiving medical attention if needed, including heading to a hospital emergency room.


Consider reporting options. Justice can mean different things to different people, and reporting a crime to law enforcement is an individual decision.


If you’re a friend/family member of someone who has recently experienced this type of assault, some affirmative things you can say are: “I believe you. / It took a lot of courage to tell me about this.” It can be extremely difficult for survivors to come forward and share their story. They may feel ashamed, concerned that they won’t be believed, or worried they’ll be blamed. Leave any “why” questions or investigations to the experts—your job is to support this person.
“It’s not your fault. / You didn’t do anything to deserve this.” Survivors may blame themselves, especially if they know the perpetrator personally. Remind the survivor, maybe even more than once, that they are not to blame.
“You are not alone. / I care about you and am here to listen or help in any way I can.” Let the survivor know that you are there for them and willing to listen to their story if they are comfortable sharing it.
For immediate assistance, please call one of the following 24-hour helplines:
Human Trafficking Helpline: 1-833-900-1010
Assaulted Women’s Helpline: 1-866-863-0511
Anova 24-Hour Crisis and Support Line: 519-642-3000
Resources:
https://canadianwomen.org/the-facts/sexual-assault-harassment/
https://sexualassaultsupport.ca/statistics-sexual-violence-in-canada/
https://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/scc-condom-use-case-decision-1.6535127
https://bcsth.ca/what-to-do-if-someone-has-shared-or-threatened-to-share-your-intimate-image/
https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/cj-jp/victim/rr14_01/p10.html
https://www.gov.nl.ca/vpi/tips-and-tools/tips-to-help-a-friend-who-has-been-sexually-assaulted/
Find out more about Carlen Costa and her practice: https://www.carlencosta.com/
April is Sexual Assault Awareness month; a month of solidarity dedicated to sexual assault victims. It’s meant to raise awareness about the prevalence of sexual assault and violence while sharing information and resources to foster a great understanding of consent.
Some statistics from www.sexassault.ca:
1 in 4 women in North America will be sexually assaulted in their lifetime. For every 100 incidents in Canada, only 6 are reported to police. Over 80% of sex crime victims in Canada are women.
Resources in Canada for Family and Intimate Partner Violence
A note from the Women in Media Network: The WIMN is proud to support organizations that provide relief and guidance to women and girls who have been subjected to violence, trafficking, and/or homelessness. Proceeds from Women in Media Network launch merchandise will support the London Abused Women's Centre: https://www.womeninmedia.network/. Access the London Abused Women's Centre: https://www.lawc.on.ca/

This conversation is about aging and the experiences of women as they grow older. Host Carlen Costa reflects on her own aging process and the changes she has noticed in her body and mindset. She discusses societal pressures to remain youthful and the impact of media representation on aging women. The conversation also touches on the experiences of elderly individuals, including social isolation and the challenges they face. The host's 97-year-old grandmother, Avo Luisa, shares her own experiences growing up in Portugal and immigrating to Canada. Together, they cover topics like living without electricity, marriage, and the journey to Canada. Luisa shares her journey from Portugal to Canada, her experiences as a mother and grandmother, and her perspective on life. Luisa emphasizes the importance of kindness, taking care of others, and living in peace. She also talks about her health challenges and her passion for crocheting and helping those in need. Luisa's wisdom and positive outlook on life serve as an inspiration for future generations.
Topics:

Introduction to the Topic of Aging

Societal Pressures on Youthfulness

Media Representation of Aging Women

Challenges Faced by the Elderly

The Transformative Experience of Immigration

Cherishing Family and Creating Beautiful Memories

Finding Beauty in Kindness and Goodness

The Importance of Community and Consciousness

Pride in Family and the Way They Have Turned Out

Advice for Women: Be Kind, Take Care, and Avoid Hatred

Staying Strong through Hard Work and Kindness

Living in Peace and Avoiding Fights


Find out more about Carlen's work:
https://www.carlencosta.com/
https://www.spicyfat.com/