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What do you do if you love pain, impact play, discipline, CBT, and/or bondage but you can’t have marks on your body? 
How do you hide the marks when you love being on the receiving end of the S/m dynamic?

That’s the topic today and it’s the result of a listener question to the previous episodes about many aspects of pain play.

Topics include:
Training for a submissive versus a kinky scene with a pain slut
The role of stress positions to enhance kinky scenes
Physical pain, mental pain and the role of an intense mindfuck
The role of suffering in submission to a beautiful Femdom Mistress

Of course, there is always a lot of emphasis on the role of communication in BDSM.
The ladies talk about BDSM negotiation, what to ask your Mistress and why it’s important that you answer her questions honestly (so she can plan the play effectively).

This is BDSM education:
Thuddy versus stingy impact play
The role of warmup in impact play
How bondage affects the skin for CBT
Electrosex and what to look for an a tens unit for kinky usesWax play and safety concerns
Temperature play and a wicked use of ice water
The importance of aftercare

These creative Femdoms talk about workarounds for those who crave S/m pain but need to keep this part hidden.

Remember if you hear something in the podcast and you have a followup question, send an email.
Olivia AT enchantrixempire.com
Erika AT enchantrixempire.com

Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Ms Erika’s blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

This episode is inspired by Sissy Kylie who says she wants to get a more feminine body and wants sissy workout tips. 

Mistress Erika begins the episode talking about body image. Mistress Olivia says, it’s normal to want to change things about your physical body to be more of the feminine ideal in your mind.

Many feminized people want workout tips and exercises to target specific areas like ass, hips and stomach. Both ladies talk about exercises they do and recommend for any sissy workout.


Ms Olivia talks about how she gets a cute round yoga ass with squats, walking lunges and donkey kicks (among other exercises). Ms Erika adds in a suggestion to do bridges. Working core muscles help to slim the tummy and a tight lacing corset and give that feminine hourglass shape.

These Femdoms love feminization and sissy training. They talk about how to combine legitimate exercises with kinky inspiration to make sure these get done! For example, a way to strap a dildo onto the long part of a couch cushion to get a thigh and ass workout while perfecting the sissy cowgirl position!

You’ll hear specific exercises suggestions, behind the scenes stories, general naughtiness and so much more.

Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika’s blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Today’s episode is inspired by several pets who acted surprised to hear that Mistress Olivia likes pain play and rough kink. 

It starts with this quote from one submissive:
“You are just such a nice person. And you have a sweet natural demeanor. Even though you can turn into a firm Domme in the blink of an eye, I didn’t think pain play was a fun thing for you.”

Both ladies talk about being a Femdom and a sensual sadist.  

You’ll hear answers to these questions from another treasured pet and listener who wants to hear more about sadism and masochism. Michael asks:
How common is it for a sensual dom to also have a little bit of a sadistic streak?
and
Is it typical for this to be a frequent activity in a loving and nurturing relationship? 

Topics include:
Sharing experiences with the S/m part of BDSM
Various expectation of a Mistress
How do you know you’re correct about your assumptions of her, who she is and what she likes?
How can you tell if a sensual Femdom also enjoys rough kink?
How does consent work with risk aware BDSM and kink?

This is a peek behind the scenes as each Femdom talks about BDSM scenes gone awry when a sub doesn’t obey, how each lady feels when that happens and how it changes her feelings towards the bratty sub. By the end of the episode you'll know that in scene domination is different from the podcast and both ladies love delivering an intense kink session that includes pain play.

Mistress Olivia’s blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika’s blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

What happens when a Dominant Woman decides to feminize a submissive?
Sometimes the subby is coerced into sissy training, maybe even before realizing what’s going on and then it’s really too late because full on sissy training is underway.

How does a Femdom Mistress train a sissy submissive?
Listen to feminization Mistresses talking about how they do coerced feminization, sissy training and use a combination of praise, punishment, pain and pleasure to ensure the creation of the best sissy!

This episode is inspired by comments from various listeners. And, while the ladies start off talking about sissification and coerced feminization - much of the conversation about using pain and punishment on a submissive applies to crossdressers and transwomen who are submissive but might not be sissies.

The role of discipline to enforce who is in charge is always a favorite topic and an opportunity to talk about the paradox of BDSM where pain is pleasure.



Mistress Olivia's blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika's blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

The conversation starts out with the enduring fascination with “bad girls” - the women who are non-traditional, often sex workers or women that claim their social and/or sexual autonomy. 

Jane talks about the role of sex and sex workers in shaping the culture … especially in terms of fetish wear going mainstream with leather and latex being featured in couture lines. Fashion is never “only” about covering the body. 

The ladies all talk about how their personal and professional experiences with kink have changed them.

Conversation includes:
** the Paradox of BDSM: pain is pleasure, bondage is freedom, etc.
** dominant or powerful women who tend to have a thirst for knowledge and want to grow as people
** the very particular skills of a Pro Domme, whether as an in person Dominatrix or Distance Domination (and phone sex).
** the relationship between submissive and Dominant
** consent
 ** merging the personal and professional in erotic spaces
** the role of money - in society, in relationships, as a symbol of power
** and so much more.

This episode uses quotes from the BDSM book, Edge Play to explore the nuances of culture, societal roles, and more. 

Edge Play by Jane Boonhttps://www.janeboon.com/
Twitter:  @JaneEBoon

Mistress Olivia’s blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika’s blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

This is called the Sissy Pageant because it’s a short title but the hosts want you to know that the Pageant is open to anyone interested in feminization and femme style: crossdressers, transwomen, pantybois, and, of course, sissies!

Goddess Skylar is today’s guest because she’s the one that sort of resurrected the Sissy Pageant.

The ladies go over the Sissy Pageant rules and details.
The short version is: submit 3 photos, answer 4 questions and boom you’re in the running!

 Now, how do you DO all that?

Sissy Pageant details:
** Join EnchantrixEmpire.com if you’re not already a member. EE is our free adult social networking site.
** There is a Sissy Pageant Group in the Enchantrix Empire. Join the group.
** Upload three photos for the competition. (Include your EE name on a paper in the photos).
** After uploading your contestant photos, you’ll get access to the four questions to answer.
** HAVE FUN!

LDW Mistresses will judge the Pageant and pick the top three winners.

The judges will be evaluating for best:
** legs/ass
** sex appeal
** style
** and your answers to four questions about your feminization and/or sissy journey.

In today’s podcast, the ladies will answer the pageant questions so you’ll hear the questions and our answers.

Important dates:

By June 15th:  photos and answers submitted

Friday June 28th at 8pm eastern: Celebration and winner announcements in the chatroom at communitykink.com. 

The celebration is also free and will have lots of Mistresses and general shenanigans. Goddess Skylar will put a link in the chat room that you can click to actually hear the show.

What do the winners get? Free time with the Mistress of your choice!
** 2nd runner up 20 free minutes.
** 1st runner up, 30 free minutes.
** Sissy Pageant Grand Prize winner: 60 free minutes.

There will be lots of fun leading up to the Pageant, community and conversations, the celebration party and then free phone sex with the Mistress of your choice!

Are you ready?  Let’s have some fun!

Enchantrix Empire:  https://enchantrixempire.com/
Mistress Olivia’s blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika’s blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/
Goddess Skylar’s blog: https://yourkinkadvisor.com/