LOVE Language Dana Onayemi, Justin Onayemi, and J. Terrell Stevens

This episode of LOVE Language challenges the traditional "authoritarian mindset" of discipline and explores the concept of "The Good Choice Mindset" inspired by Celeste Ng's Little Fires Everywhere.
We move beyond the limitations of "what" we teach our children and shift the focus to empowering them with "good choices" that nurture their identity development. By offering children choices, we allow them to explore who they are and make decisions that shape their self-concept. Helping children discover their passions and interests through "good choices" fosters a sense of purpose fueled by personal connections and intrinsic motivation.
We discuss how a "Good Choice Mindset" can benefit both parents and educators, encouraging them to:
Reframe "No": Can a positive choice be offered instead?Expand Options: Are there ways to create a broader range of "good choices" for youth? Empower Through Choice: How can we use "good choices" to foster independence and responsibility in children and adolescents?By moving away from a focus on control, this episode equips listeners with strategies to raise and educate children who are empowered to make "good choices" that build a strong sense of self and a purpose-driven life.
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This episode of LOVE Language (Learning, Opportunity, Values, Empathy) challenges the traditional organizational hierarchy. We explore how power structures can impact your growth, both personally and professionally.
Ditch the Org Chart, Embrace the Thrive Triangle:
We introduce the Thrive Triangle, a framework built on Mentorship, Authenticity, and Direction (MAD) to guide your success.  Learn how to leverage these elements to cultivate professional capital, a valuable asset beyond your job title.


Rethink the Ladder, Climb the Triangle:
Is the organizational chart holding you back? We encourage you to reimagine your professional journey through the lens of LOVE Language values.  Discover how to position yourself for fulfillment and growth in a way that aligns with your purpose.

Tune in and learn how to thrive in a workplace that values people, not just power!
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Talking It Through: Building Stronger Relationships with Your Child Through LOVE Language

Communication is the key to a strong parent-child relationship, but navigating different age groups can be a challenge. This episode explores how LOVE Language is used a communication framework designed to bridge the gap and foster deeper connections.
We'll show you how to use Learning, Opportunity, Values, and Empathy to nurture your child's development at every stage.  Learn how to turn tantrums into learning opportunities, encourage participation in school, and build a foundation of trust and respect that will last a lifetime.
Through real-life scenarios and insightful discussion, we'll equip you with the tools to communicate effectively with your child. Imagine fostering a love of learning, building confidence, and nurturing a strong sense of self – all through the power of positive communication.
Tune in and discover how "LOVE Language" can transform your relationship with your child, creating lasting memories and a foundation for a happy and healthy future.
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The words we use daily might seem insignificant, but they hold surprising power. This episode explores how seemingly common phrases can subtly influence your vision for the future, your sense of purpose, and even your happiness. 
Join us as we delve into:
The hidden impact of everyday language on our self-perception and goals.How to identify limiting phrases that hold you back.Practical strategies for choosing empowering words that align with your values.Techniques to cultivate a more positive and intentional vocabulary.Learn how to become more mindful of the language you use. By consciously choosing powerful words, you can unlock a greater sense of purpose, build a clearer vision, and ultimately cultivate a happier and more fulfilling life.
This episode is for anyone who wants to:
Gain clarity on their vision and goalsStrengthen their sense of purposeBoost overall happiness and well-beingDevelop a more empowering and intentional vocabularyTune in and discover the transformative power of conscious language!
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LOVE is essential, but is it enough? In this episode, we explore the power of CARE as a transformative companion to the LOVE Language Framework.
Imagine relationships built on more than just understanding preferences. Dive into the inspiring stories behind CARE and its impact on cultivating love. These four impactful principles offer a roadmap to cultivate deeper connections:
Connect: Value positive relationships that support holistic growth.Advocate: Stand up for yourself and others with respect and unwavering support.Reflect: Embrace personal and shared growth through intentional introspection.Empower: Unleash your own potential and celebrate the strengths of others.In the second part of this two-part series, we dive deeper into the CARE approach and the power of a CARE room in a school setting. We invite our listeners to explore conflict contexts to look at how behavior is connected to communication. 
Whether you're navigating the complexities of teaching, cherishing friendships, or nurturing family bonds, this episode is your guide to creating connections that go beyond the ordinary. Listen now and embark on a journey to cultivate love that truly matters.
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LOVE is essential, but is it enough? In this episode, we explore the power of CARE as a transformative companion to the LOVE Language Framework.
Imagine relationships built on more than just understanding preferences. Dive into the inspiring stories behind CARE and its impact on cultivating love. These four impactful principles offer a roadmap to cultivate deeper connections:
Connect: Value positive relationships that support holistic growth.Advocate: Stand up for yourself and others with respect and unwavering support.Reflect: Embrace personal and shared growth through intentional introspection.Empower: Unleash your own potential and celebrate the strengths of others.This episode is your invitation to transcend mere communication and cultivate relationships that truly CARE. Discover how CARE amplifies the LOVE Language approach, gain practical tips for each principle, and hear real-life examples of its transformative power.
Whether you're navigating the complexities of teaching, cherishing friendships, or nurturing family bonds, this episode is your guide to creating connections that go beyond the ordinary. Listen now and embark on a journey to cultivate love that truly matters.
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